NEW TO ALL THIS

17 Sep 2004

i am 31 and my partner is 30 and even tho have lots of fun outside never have had anyone watch or join in , now before i jump in first with the better half , i would like to watch from a distance and see how it works , i would like to make it clear im not just another guy........ blah blah blah but someone who is geniune , my partner is intrested but would like me to be a scouting party to check out the scene first .
im in beds and have seen a few places im intrested in , i was just wondering how out of date they would be and if anyone still goes to them ??
please pm me . many thanks