Please help me, I don't want to upset or offend anyone by doing the wrong thing!
Yesterday evening I visited a local daytime dogging area and found 4 or 5 couples sitting in cars chatting. This is in quite a large area so visual contact between any of the cars was difficult. There were also 3 single blokes in cars.
My question is what do I do in this situation. I parked about 20 yards away from the first car and waited. Is this too close, and what is a reasonable time for waiting before it is obvious nothing is going to happen? At this point did the same thing with the second couple, not staring, but glancing in their direction occasionally. Is this right or wrong? I went round all the couples (it would have been a lot easier in a smaller car park cos I could have seen more than one at a time!) Is there any point in returning to a couple if nothing happened the first time?
I probably made a complete cods of the whole situation, purely because I didn't know what to do. Please help!!!
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Hi Kev. 
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Oh dear Kev 
... you did it all wrong mate! Going from one car to the next is a sure fire way of pissing people off. I'd put money on the fact that nothing was happening was because you kept moving from one spot to another! Dogging is about patience and respect, not about trying to get the best seat in the house! Read the rules on this site and maybe think about the situation a while longer before you go dogging again. That way, you won't piss off the genuine people out there who are prepared to be patient for their fun.
In answer to your question as to whether returning to a couple if nothing happened the first time is worth it. I'd say definately not - well, not until you learn the rules and some common sense. People are sitting in a car park for their own pleasure, not your's
... you did it all wrong mate! Going from one car to the next is a sure fire way of pissing people off. I'd put money on the fact that nothing was happening was because you kept moving from one spot to another! Dogging is about patience and respect, not about trying to get the best seat in the house! Read the rules on this site and maybe think about the situation a while longer before you go dogging again. That way, you won't piss off the genuine people out there who are prepared to be patient for their fun. In answer to your question as to whether returning to a couple if nothing happened the first time is worth it. I'd say definately not - well, not until you learn the rules and some common sense. People are sitting in a car park for their own pleasure, not your's
Daytime dogging eh?.. Well i have to say, i werent confident that a great percentage of this really went on.... This infact would suit me better.
So, Give me a shout if your in the london area and this suits you too!.
Magik
I know this sounds like a shite Reply to a post but at 1am I cant be arsed tip toeing about. :moon:
