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With me, it really depends on the thread. If has has an interesting title I`m more prone to check it out, if I still find it interesting, then I`m likely to reply...............unless I have nothing to say, I often just follow threads for the read. 
You did well, you dragged me out of the cafe!
Venusxxx
You did well, you dragged me out of the cafe!
Venusxxx
Whenever I am just starting out on a new discussion board... whatever the subject... I always try replying to a few threads to get the feel for the place and what people talk about / expect before coming up with a thread myself..
I just think its politer than storming in making a new thread with your first post.... kinda a bit like a real life group of people... you don't just storm in and start talking about your own stuff... you sit and listen for a bit.
I just think its politer than storming in making a new thread with your first post.... kinda a bit like a real life group of people... you don't just storm in and start talking about your own stuff... you sit and listen for a bit.
Very good Dawn.. I used to be a doorman.. up until 4 years ago... Until the wife was rendered disabled... Thats why i look for fun as a man has needs. Dont want a relationship as i love the wife dearly... Oppps going off on one there sorry 
Its difficult being a newbie.. Hope the title gets rubbed off sooner rather than later.
:roll: Quote by andy04
Its difficult being a neebie.. Hope the title gets rubbed off sooner rather than later.
Your going off on one??? On this site :roll: surely thats not possible.
Dawn :silly:
* I read title as tile and just sat here for ages wondering what the fluck you was on about
ops: Yep, Could not agree more.
I have been watching the site for a couple of months now & decided to try & be more active. This appears to be the only way for couples to begin to know & trust you so they do not think you are some sort of weirdo. Unfortunately the trustworthy & honest single guys have all been tarred with the same brush as the nutters.
Especially us down here in the south of Devon who frequent the locally well known Equestrian dogging areas, if you get my drift. The MBB's have a lot to answer for.
I have been watching the site for a couple of months now & decided to try & be more active. This appears to be the only way for couples to begin to know & trust you so they do not think you are some sort of weirdo. Unfortunately the trustworthy & honest single guys have all been tarred with the same brush as the nutters.
Especially us down here in the south of Devon who frequent the locally well known Equestrian dogging areas, if you get my drift. The MBB's have a lot to answer for.
Quote by EnglishChris99
I just think its politer than storming in making a new thread with your first post.... kinda a bit like a real life group of people... you don't just storm in and start talking about your own stuff... you sit and listen for a bit.
I stormed in; found the site, read some of the cafe, and couldn`t wait to join so I could post!
Much like me in real life really, but then I never claimed to be polite :mrgreen:
Venusxxx
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Quote by andy04
Is the fact that when a neewbie posts a thread no one wants to reply or cant be arsed or due to not knowing them they get put to one side till they mature
I think its because there are SO MANY threads of men looking for dogging areas and meets ect, how's one couple supposed to reply to them all ?? Besides, we like just showing up and fuck when the mood takes us
I understand that .... Its the same as a job advert ... Experience needed :roll: BUT how do we get experience when not many people will give a newbie a chance. I know SAFETY is paramount and this i RESPECT to the very end...
Safety
Honesty
Respect
Trust
I could go on forever but at the end of the day we all do it for the fun excitment and the chance of meeting up and becomming good friends
:D
:roll: BUT how do we get experience when not many people will give a newbie a chance. I know SAFETY is paramount and this i RESPECT to the very end... Safety
Honesty
Respect
Trust
I could go on forever but at the end of the day we all do it for the fun excitment and the chance of meeting up and becomming good friends
:D Could not agree more Andy. It is a bit like trying to get a job.
Must admit that I tend to like my privacy so do not post that much but now realise it is better to post where I have an opinion or advice so that the experienced members of the board come to recognise and, hopefully, trust me.
Misschief I agree with what you say, you do feel like an outsider looking over a fence at a private party hoping for an invite. I presume the more visible you become the more likely an invite might appear.
Silk and Big G have a very valid point , how do you separate the wheat from the chaff amongst the replies from the single guys and newbies?
Hey Dawn please carry on posting on this thread so Andy & I can gaze at your avatar!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cheers Torman
Must admit that I tend to like my privacy so do not post that much but now realise it is better to post where I have an opinion or advice so that the experienced members of the board come to recognise and, hopefully, trust me.
Misschief I agree with what you say, you do feel like an outsider looking over a fence at a private party hoping for an invite. I presume the more visible you become the more likely an invite might appear.
Silk and Big G have a very valid point , how do you separate the wheat from the chaff amongst the replies from the single guys and newbies?
Hey Dawn please carry on posting on this thread so Andy & I can gaze at your avatar!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cheers Torman
hi andy,well you aint doing too badly with your thread response are you? thread titles,if eye catching will get read,if the content interesting,you will get how many threads consist of "any couples out in wales tonight"?,eeerm yeah, like "gangbang tonight,essex",will get more readership,but when it is revealed that the author is a single guy looking for a gangbag,then the reply column will stay blank,or contain some sarcastic comments! we echo silk n big g's dont look at the forum to recruit guys,whether they sound respectful or not,isnt an issue for doesn't mean others dont,but for us,turning up at a venue,without the pressure of a pre-arranged meet,to do what we want to do,when we want to do and with whom we want to do is what its all about.
Warming the Bed
Hi Andy,i'm slso a newbie to you all but my wife and i were dogging years ago at pensarn so i'm not new to the scene,just new to all you people,mind you we got just as much exitement stripping off in the snow in an old quarry on denbigh moors and going at it with no one watching
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