Newbie here

1 Feb 2005

I put a couple of posts on the board but I've realised that I've been doing it wrong and should have introduced myself first. I'm 36, I'm a single bloke, from Stoke on Trent and would like to get into the dogging scene (as would a mate of mine). I've been to a spot near Longton (I found the location on this website) but due to ineperience do not really know what I'm supposed to be doing, I'm aware that I should wait until invited before going to watch and that a flashing interior light is an invite and flashing brake lights are a gay invite (not interested). So if anyone intends going to the spot near Longton this weekend I would really appreciate being shown the ropes, for instance, is it a problem for 2 blokes to sit waiting in the car for an invite?.
Cheers

1 Feb 2005

I find mulitple occupants in cars intimidating and Jon and I would never put on a show under those circumstances confused

We've often moved away from a car park when a large van used to visit it and there were always three or four guys in the front, letching and learing :shock:
Far better to just have one person per car in our opinion cool

Good luck and hope you get lucky soon smile

Tracy-Jayne

1 Feb 2005

two guys in one car isn't really a good idea, through discussions on this board, it would appear we aint the only couple that feels that way...of course, if you turned up in seperate vehicles, no-one would be any the wiser, but at least its less likely that one of you will be pissed..you see, if two guys were playing with us, and one got a bit out of order, chances are, the other bloke would be on our side, however, if its you and your mate, and one kicks off, that could spell trouble for us..its hassle enough sometimes, what with old bill, boy-racers, being recognised and idiots to contend with, so the less we have to deal with, the sexier we feel and the more fun can be had...your point about signals, well, again, much has been debated, the consensus being, don't get too carried away with them...far better to do this...park up without driving around, lights and engine off..quick flash of your interior will let the guys, and couples know that you are a single male, this will stop everyone swarming your motor..then, get out..if you don't feel safe, just stand by your unlocked door for a while..if a couple does turn up, then, after giving them time to settle, walk past the car, lights or no lights..just keep walking...if it looked as if they were playing, walk back with caution..if not, walk back to your car..it is a fact that many couples do not put on a light, as in doing so, the entire contents of the carpark will be over..don't get into big group things either, its a turn off for couples, and you may get lured into one of those,"if theres anything in the other carpark, give us a ring on the mobile, if anything turns up here, we'll phone you" arrangements..all a couple need, after finding a quiet spot, is to be descended upon by the entire contents of the other venue down the road..it is a fact that if 4 cars rush out, another 8 will follow, knowing there has been a tip-off..so, meet your buddy there by all means, but best to keep it at that..two become three, then four in the car, then that screws it for you, us and the other dooggers..above all, have fun wink

1 Feb 2005

That's all good advice, thanks a lot. The only problem with meeting my mate there is that he cannot drive, lol, but I get what you