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Hi there, found this site and seem to have been here half the day! I was ignorant to this, but love to watch and be watched. Dont know about anything else. This sounds like a great way to do this with consent etc.
Is that enough for folk? I am near Bury St Edmunds, is there somewhere i could go have a look tonight? I am pants on computers, but am 6.2, a big fella but carrying to much weight? (whatever that means). A little shy i guess, Any suggestions please (nice ones).
PS. If your thinking oh yeah, new boy, total nightmare etc. Your probably right.. confused
Ta.
Hi Higos, wave
Everybody is new at some point, so no putting yourself down, you hear !!!!
Interact will the people here, and you will no longer feel new. biggrin
biggrin Hi MrsFC,
(well that was a good start) surprised
Now keep going..... wink
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Now keep going..... wink

Oh no the pressure....
Am I supposed to find this arousing or is that just me?? confused redface biggrin
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Now keep going..... wink

Oh no the pressure....
Am I supposed to find this arousing or is that just me?? confused redface biggrin
MrsFC is enough to make anyone aroused :giggle:
Hi higos wave
Dawn :silly:
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Now keep going..... wink

Oh no the pressure....
Am I supposed to find this arousing or is that just me?? confused redface biggrin
MrsFC is enough to make anyone aroused :giggle:
Hi higos wave
Dawn :silly:
Hi Dawn :D ,
Wow, so..err... surprisedops: great t-shirt... :o
Hiya Higos wave
What a lovely post, you've put yourself across beautifully, so no saying you're pants on puters!!!
Anway, welcome to the forums, maybe see you in the cafe cool
Blimey, just realised you've managed to surround yourself with mods within your first couple of posts :lol2: .......... so you better be good poke
Misschief - who doesn't want to be left out - so is strangely aroused too 8-)
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Hi Dawn biggrin ,
Wow, so..err... redface great t-shirt... surprised

Thank you :oops: :oops:
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Blimey, just realised you've managed to surround yourself with mods within your first couple of posts :lol2: .......... so you better be good poke

Hmmmmm cos we all know what happens to bad boys
smackbottom:smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:
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Hiya Higos wave
What a lovely post, you've put yourself across beautifully, so no saying you're pants on puters!!!
Anway, welcome to the forums, maybe see you in the cafe cool
Blimey, just realised you've managed to surround yourself with mods within your first couple of posts :lol2: .......... so you better be good poke
Misschief - who doesn't want to be left out - so is strangely aroused too 8-)

Thankyou redface , what a nice thing to say.! These are the kinda mods I like to be surrounded by! :shock:
Now you mention it, am i about to get thrown out.. rolleyes confused wink
So its the cafe where i should be, I just felt like a dog...anyone got one?
I hope by putting myself accross well i have not led people to beleive I am not a complete perv..alas that would sadly be a large porky!
Ta for the welcome.. smile
hey big have sent you a pm,we think you will find it of interest!..privilaged info,for your eyes are now ging out,so if you reply,wont see it until to see you later.
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hey big have sent you a pm,we think you will find it of interest!..privilaged info,for your eyes are now ging out,so if you reply,wont see it until to see you later.

To kind smile ,
Many thanks hope to see ya soon wink biggrin
Hmmmmm cos we all know what happens to bad boys
smackbottom:smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom::smackbottom:
Dawn :silly:
Mmm I usually have to pay good money for that!! :shock: confused wink biggrin
Well never let it be said I'm not open minded! :shock:
I went out for about 4 hours. Visted 3 "sites". On a positive note I have seen about 4 million men in their motors/ vans etc. I saw a group of "lads" pull up about two inches away from a car and scared half the people away. :shock: :twisted:
I did at one time see what i recon was a woman but only fleetingly..I admire you lots stamina. How presuureed aswell for a woman to arrive with her partner and see half the male population (including me). Weird stuff!
oh dear big guy,you had a bad night,and i think we are partly to pm'd you with a hot tip-off,but,alas,the action failed to show,we were let down,and as a result,you were let down too,for that,we are sorry......but,if the venues you refer to,are the ones we mentioned,you didn't have your dogging specs fully were,including us,five couples out did a show,which we missed,but heard about on the dogging grapevine,at least one other couple was looking for fun,and we ourselves did a mmf interior light on show for some ,so the fffm that we anticipated didn't happen,there was a good reason,it will happen next weekend hopefully,so,if you are around?/
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Well never let it be said I'm not open minded! :shock:
I went out for about 4 hours. Visted 3 "sites". On a positive note I have seen about 4 million men in their motors/ vans etc. I saw a group of "lads" pull up about two inches away from a car and scared half the people away. :shock: :twisted:
I did at one time see what i recon was a woman but only fleetingly..I admire you lots stamina. How presuureed aswell for a woman to arrive with her partner and see half the male population (including me). Weird stuff!

Awwww Higos :therethere: ............ sorry but .................... rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
It really is another world isn't it! I couldn't believe it when I went for the first time :shock: It just wasn't how I expected it to be, so was rather jittery to say the least confused Still waiting for my second experience, cos I really was crap :lol2: I mean REALLY crap! Not a bit crap, REALLY crap! :lol2:
Just found my account of it when we went, you might want to see a first experiece from the other side of the fence ..... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/19081.html
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oh dear big guy,you had a bad night,and i think we are partly to pm'd you with a hot tip-off,but,alas,the action failed to show,we were let down,and as a result,you were let down too,for that,we are sorry......but,if the venues you refer to,are the ones we mentioned,you didn't have your dogging specs fully were,including us,five couples out did a show,which we missed,but heard about on the dogging grapevine,at least one other couple was looking for fun,and we ourselves did a mmf interior light on show for some ,so the fffm that we anticipated didn't happen,there was a good reason,it will happen next weekend hopefully,so,if you are around?/

No no, you not to blame, i appreciate your help. biggrin I was in my usual style exagerating, there were a few couples you are right of couse. I enjoyed the experience as a knew one, and it is rare for me to have a free evening to experience something like this. I have no doubt I will be around again. Although for me, I suspect maybe some sort of organisation/ willing participant may be required. All in the learning process..! wink :D
Again appreciate your help. :D
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Well never let it be said I'm not open minded! :shock:
I went out for about 4 hours. Visted 3 "sites". On a positive note I have seen about 4 million men in their motors/ vans etc. I saw a group of "lads" pull up about two inches away from a car and scared half the people away. :shock: :twisted:
I did at one time see what i recon was a woman but only fleetingly..I admire you lots stamina. How presuureed aswell for a woman to arrive with her partner and see half the male population (including me). Weird stuff!

Awwww Higos :therethere: ............ sorry but .................... rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
It really is another world isn't it! I couldn't believe it when I went for the first time :shock: It just wasn't how I expected it to be, so was rather jittery to say the least confused Still waiting for my second experience, cos I really was crap :lol2: I mean REALLY crap! Not a bit crap, REALLY crap! :lol2:
Just found my account of it when we went, you might want to see a first experiece from the other side of the fence ..... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/19081.html
Thanks Misschief redface , just read that thread, exactly my thoughts, didn't want to be one of them blokes looking in on ya until i got mailed an invite, (and RSVP'd) wink
I dunno, :? I think i need tyo learn more of that etiquette as maybe am a little to polite, (bit backward at coming forward). Like most, it was a good experience.. smile
I meant to say also, it was a great story Misschief, really well written, i felt you squirm...(now there's an idea!) :shock: biggrin
no no no mate,never say you are too polite for this game,really,its what dogging needs,to lose somebody like you would be a ,sometimes it looks as though the pushy cats are the ones that get the cream,sometimes thats true,its frustrating to see,but,i know for an absolute fact that many couples will not have anything to do with them,some wont enter our venue until they have phoned me to make sure the hardcore element are not in residence,others now use a private site,which isnt for me to divulge the location of,even i dont go there,as a couple we would be in a minority,yes,really!!......my best buddy is an absolute master of this game,he is also a model of instinctivly acts in accordance to the rules of body language and his success rate is phenomenal..its quite something for couples to allow a third party into their intimate space,all sorts of mental defences need to be lowered,that process starts the moment a couple spot you entering a carpark,its not a consious thing,but they have to feel comfortable with you,get that bit right and you are sorted geezer!!...sorry this is such bollocks,i'm always like this on a sunday morning!
Far from bollocks, interesting stuff. The pycholgical angle of all this really intrigues me. I appreciate your time and explanation. I'll work on it! wink smile
If i see you out now I'll be wanted to chat about it all, so probably be no good to you anyway!. :wink: biggrin Hope to see you about anyhoo. :D
Higos, why do you live in Bury St Edmond? Why cant you live in the North West? We need some nice respectable blokes like you up here!
Sorry to all the North West Guys, I know that the majority of you are fantastically nice and respectable, but another nice guy wouldn't hurt!
Good luck with you new 'past time' really hope you have some good times
xxx
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Higos, why do you live in Bury St Edmond? Why cant you live in the North West? We need some nice respectable blokes like you up here!
Sorry to all the North West Guys, I know that the majority of you are fantastically nice and respectable, but another nice guy wouldn't hurt!
Good luck with you new 'past time' really hope you have some good times
xxx

I'm sure there are some real nice fella up there to. You lot certainly have great accents! Thanks for the comments, I do still beleive in "gentleman" the concept. Well I try. I also admit as a man that my brains falls into my sack occasionally....mostly.. wink biggrin
HI All,
Must admit like Higos I think that being polite is the way to be, but unfortunately you end up disappearing amongst the more vocal members of the dogging crowd. Suppose the only way to go is get known on the board and maybe some kind couples,especially those down here in the Southwest, will allow us quiet types to take part in thier secret assignations off the beaten track.
Nothing wrong in being the gentleman, as Higos puts it, in any walk of life.