Noob Alert!

27 Nov 2004

Hello All,
I am new to this whole swinging scene.
I am quite shy and inexperienced and would like any pointers on how to conduct myself whilst using this forum. redface

I would like to get my chance at a dogging meet however i would like to take it one step at a time. :shock:
A guide or helping hand to introduce me into your world would be great.
I am keen to make new friends which is also why i have registered with this site.
Regards
G.

27 Nov 2004

Were new too, only been here for like 3 or 4 days. Best advice.. Be yourself and expect nothing start chatting.. and all will come in time!
And Welcome! lol

27 Nov 2004

Hi and :welcome: there's a number of advice threads to help newbies out on this site and here's a few of them:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/advice/single-men.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13919.html
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/20451.html
So chill out for a while grab a comfortable seat and read away, also try popping into the various forums and start posting and replying to some threads and get yourself known to the other users.
One big mistake some newbies make is expecting to place a few posts and expect a quick shag SH isn't that sort of site, also one line posts don't really work either.
Anyway hope you have fun :thumbup:

28 Nov 2004

Thanks for the advice.
I'm quite shy realy redface

and i am wondering if this is the right thing for me confused

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However i have read some of the links and i understand the fundamentals of how this place works,some of the finer details i will have to learn as go ....
I don't expect anything from anybody and i'm not sure that i 'would 'accept anyway,i would like to stick around a bit longer and see how things go.
I am pleased with is how friendly most of you are.
It's nice warm welcome into the unknown.
G.

28 Nov 2004

you might be new at the moment but after you have met me you will be old hat. biggrin

28 Nov 2004

LIPSAV
That seems like an offer i can hardly wait for ! biggrin

Are you offering to initiate me ? :shock: :shock:

28 Nov 2004

i certainly could oblige, having a weeks well earned rest and i'll be back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! . i like to help and assist in every way i possibly can, to the best of my ability.
so next week i will hop on the bus leg it over and give you a once over, then you would have earned you stripes...ps i do not qualify for a bus pass yet lol lol

29 Nov 2004

Me too....................New that is.
Like you said magicsponge, the people on here are definately welcoming and the advice is forthcoming.
Hopefully both of us will have a good start in this new "venture".....lol...
Maybe we should trade notes in a while, two minds are better than one, or so they say anyway...
Take care and have fun..

29 Nov 2004

Hi all,
Im new to here too and would like to thank the ppl on this thread as the links are really helpful.
thx
Lee