i've just been reading jomu's comments on the social life in carparks.i've responded on that however concearns our own experience last night,at a well known thetford area the guys that approached us whilst chatting with another couple,thanks for not intruding,we respect your interest,and appreciate you giving us our the 3 guys that i asked to move away from my wifes window,thanks for doing so,and politely too!she really was just listning to the radio!we realise certain people think that couples should only enter a venue to perform,and it must be a little frustrating to see scantilly dressed women arrive,only to leave a couple of hours later having done nothing but chat,but,big groups aint our do watch individuals that the girls point out as potential victims for the future though,and,if they seem like decent non-pushy types,then there is a chance that one day you will be ,pleeeeze dont keep slagging us off,we only want to have fun like you!we could go to a pub,like jomu suggests,but that would just mean 2 less females striding around in leather,pvc,fishnets and thighboots!now wouldnt the place be more dreary for that? as it was,the couple we were with,put on a rampant show by any standards,so,nice one doggingtwo,i know one single guy and one couple that walked away happy n horny!
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Sexpert
I totally agree with you,some single males think when they see a couple arrive that a show is like you watch and take note of who one day might get to watch us sight of 2 females dressed scantily in pvc,leather and thigh boots with stocking tops showing is nice,and we dont mind who looks but crowding us will only result in us leaving and nobody gets to see anything,so a few spoil it for the rest.I,me glad you enjoyed our show and we look forward to another one male who spoke of us winding people up when the 2 girls sat in my car showing off toys was in my opinion out of order as no interior light was on and he was not invited over he just took in on himself to press his face against the window,he is one person who will NEVER get to see us lets keep the good etiquette going and one day it could be you !!!. doggingtwo.
yeah,right on could'nt understand that guys attitude either!i mean,we parked well away from other cars,the girls got into your vehicle as they were bieng eaten alive by mosquitos,at no time did we put an interior or external light on!then this guy appears out of the ground on a lift,pokes his bonce thru the window,(lucky it was down)!we all fall silent,confused by his intentions,then off he storms,ranting and raving about us "taking the piss out of doggers,and wasting peoples time"!eeerm yeah! it would be even more confusing if the guy giving all the verbal was the bloke sitting in his car in the other pull-in area!!what the hell did we do to him!!maybe thats the point,we did'nt do anything to him,either way mate,i'm as confused as you are damned for talking in a busy spot,and damned for talking in a quiet one!
Right on. I agree with all the comments made in this thread. I am a guy who goes to the Thetford area reguarly on Fridays and Sundays. I crowd and will only move in when invited. This somes times brings out comments like don't you want to do anything, but I would rather stand the chance of missing out than spoil the site by frighting off all the couples. More guys should get some pateince. 
glad you agree mate!its a shame that couples have to feel under pressure when they arrive at a seems that more and more couples are leaving the scene these days because of the overwhelming number of single men pushing and shoving to get some it will collapse,then enjoy a rebirth of sorts in a different guise,where guys such as yourself will enjoy the fruits of your patience!take the thetford venue,where on one saturday night there were 30-40 cars,out of which was one couple!! i mean,what chance does anyone have to have fun in those circumstances?no wonder we sometimes find it safer to talk!
Warming the Bed
As someone relatively new to the arena,, and this thread!! I find it hard to believe how some guys have the nerve to behave the way they do, I have obseved what can only be describe as organised gangs at my local spots who completely crowd a car with a couple in, as soon as it pulls up!! I can only feel that these guys are ruining it for those of us who can wait to be invited to watch or join in!! I feel unless something changes I will be spending more and more time being dissapointed with my efforts to encounter more cpls or lady's that just like non pushy voyeuristic fun with a stranger!! I think I might check out getting a dvd player installed in the car I feel i might need some entertainment soon!! lol
Look at it this way.
If "they" don't get to the car, someone else will.
So, the rush.
First come, first served.
And if the couple drive away, well, better nobody gets anything than they get nothing.
And no, it's not going to get any better. Unless you hadn't noticed, the crowds aren't getting smaller. Rather the opposite.
The amount of car parks closed at night is reaching epidemic proportions now. Along with cctv systems.
Needless to say, the low-lifes are coming out of the shit they normally live in and also into the laybys and car parks.
The activity is now by prior appointment or in daylight, this leaves the nightime to the drive-bys and muggers. Long may they be happy together.
If "they" don't get to the car, someone else will.
So, the rush.
First come, first served.
And if the couple drive away, well, better nobody gets anything than they get nothing.
And no, it's not going to get any better. Unless you hadn't noticed, the crowds aren't getting smaller. Rather the opposite.
The amount of car parks closed at night is reaching epidemic proportions now. Along with cctv systems.
Needless to say, the low-lifes are coming out of the shit they normally live in and also into the laybys and car parks.
The activity is now by prior appointment or in daylight, this leaves the nightime to the drive-bys and muggers. Long may they be happy together.
Whats this? A mutual 'Back-slapping' forum for Narcissistic, Prima-Donna couples.
I agree with everything you've all said, but do the couples concerned really have to be so smug? Take this example below:
"took in on himself to press his face against the window,he is one person who will NEVER get to see us lets keep the good etiquette going and one day it could be you !!!."
"One day it could be you"?
Do you really think that all us single doggers are waiting with bated breath and that we will put up with all sorts of huniliation, just to get a sniff of a half decent couple? I don't think so!
I personally meet up with plenty of couples as it is, but I have to concede to being polite, non-pushy, clean and discrete and sensible whilst out dogging, but please don't get the idea that you couples are the only thing that needs to be respected. I would suggest through first hand experience over the last twenty years or more, that 60% of the couples that frequent these places are looking for single males only. It's a mutual thing for all of us, not just the couples who think they are amongst the elite.
We do not need you to 'Throw us a bone' as a consolation prize when you've spent a fruitless night searching for other couples.
Please, come down of your pedestal and perhaps we can all enjoy mutual fun again.
Dave...
I agree with everything you've all said, but do the couples concerned really have to be so smug? Take this example below:
"took in on himself to press his face against the window,he is one person who will NEVER get to see us lets keep the good etiquette going and one day it could be you !!!."
"One day it could be you"?
Do you really think that all us single doggers are waiting with bated breath and that we will put up with all sorts of huniliation, just to get a sniff of a half decent couple? I don't think so!
I personally meet up with plenty of couples as it is, but I have to concede to being polite, non-pushy, clean and discrete and sensible whilst out dogging, but please don't get the idea that you couples are the only thing that needs to be respected. I would suggest through first hand experience over the last twenty years or more, that 60% of the couples that frequent these places are looking for single males only. It's a mutual thing for all of us, not just the couples who think they are amongst the elite.
We do not need you to 'Throw us a bone' as a consolation prize when you've spent a fruitless night searching for other couples.
Please, come down of your pedestal and perhaps we can all enjoy mutual fun again.
Dave...
Yeah, I agree with dave-
Too many of the posts here are from couples that are so demanding of the watchers- to the extent that they specifically forbid certain types of people from watching.
This isn't really the spirit of dogging- to me it is about watching, and being watched by a STRANGER- and the whole point is that the stanger could be anyone. Sure, you don;t want to be in any danger, but too much control ruins it too- if you become nothing more than a peep show from drooling guys- then there is no excitment.
Remember that whist dogging needs couples it also need the watchers- after all that IS what dogging is.
Too many of the posts here are from couples that are so demanding of the watchers- to the extent that they specifically forbid certain types of people from watching.
This isn't really the spirit of dogging- to me it is about watching, and being watched by a STRANGER- and the whole point is that the stanger could be anyone. Sure, you don;t want to be in any danger, but too much control ruins it too- if you become nothing more than a peep show from drooling guys- then there is no excitment.
Remember that whist dogging needs couples it also need the watchers- after all that IS what dogging is.
yeah,you have a point,and if we came accross as conceited,then apologies,it certainly wasnt meant that way it was written,was as a reaction to an email conversation between doggingtwo and seems that many guys on the forum are missing out on action,basically because they are "playing the game" keeping a respectfull distance,and waiting for an invite to some knucklehead barges in,either chasing the couple off,or getting exclusive rights to the us,we decided to only entertain guys that stuck to the rules,and leave the knobheads out of certainly have respect for the guys,and are not so up our own arses that we think we would last 5 minutes in this game without also make a point of thanking any guys that watch,or play with us,after all,its a trade-off,that we do appreciate.
Sexpert
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Whats this? A mutual 'Back-slapping' forum for Narcissistic, Prima-Donna couples.
I agree with everything you've all said, but do the couples concerned really have to be so smug? Take this example below:
"took in on himself to press his face against the window,he is one person who will NEVER get to see us lets keep the good etiquette going and one day it could be you !!!."
"One day it could be you"?
Do you really think that all us single doggers are waiting with bated breath and that we will put up with all sorts of huniliation, just to get a sniff of a half decent couple? I don't think so!
I personally meet up with plenty of couples as it is, but I have to concede to being polite, non-pushy, clean and discrete and sensible whilst out dogging, but please don't get the idea that you couples are the only thing that needs to be respected. I would suggest through first hand experience over the last twenty years or more, that 60% of the couples that frequent these places are looking for single males only. It's a mutual thing for all of us, not just the couples who think they are amongst the elite.
We do not need you to 'Throw us a bone' as a consolation prize when you've spent a fruitless night searching for other couples.
Please, come down of your pedestal and perhaps we can all enjoy mutual fun again.
Dave...
We do not consider ourselves as smug,So you think its ok for a guy to walk straight up to our car and after 10secs walk away saying "they are just winding people up" perhaps it was because the 2 girls did,nt start screwing each other with toys when thay saw him watching through the window. I thought an invite was given before any show was about to be respect single males in general but this particular one,i dont think deserves any, do you ?.Consolation prizes are not our thing and we dont think after a fruitless night,he will have to after so many years dogging you feel humiliated by some couples,why do you keep on going?.We have had many good times dogging and will hopefully continue to do so,although our pedestal in getting rather tatty now,so i will have to put that on Santa,s list for this year.
Sex God
See, it's like this Dave1UK.....
A car park is a public place, therefore anyone can turn up and hang round there if they want to. Whether it be a couple, a group of single guys, or indeed a car full of boy racers, they all have a right to spend their time there if they want to (yeah, yeah, there's laws about vagrancy and the like, but we'll ignore those for the mo).
If a couple turns up at a busy location they get swamped. FACT
Some guys are rude, pushy and do indeed press their faces up to the window. That is downright rude. FACT.
Whenever guys do this type of rude behaviour it spoils it for everyone, including the couple who were there to show to polite guys. FACT.
So, what's the problem? Why start slagging people off for stating facts?
It isn't conceited or "throwing guys a bone". It is about choosing not to allow some guys a show cos they are rude. Yeah, the have the right to stand in any car park they want but they do not have the right to stand close to a car window and wank - they are breaking the law by doing this if it is against the couple's consent. It is called indecent exposure. The couple has the right to bad mouth or drive away at this point. FACT
I say again, what's the problem?
And Crazydonk, I've no idea where you're coming from......
A lot fo couples go to show to strangers..... but they can choose who they get to watch without ruining any of the excitement. You really have got the wrong end of the stick here
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: There is a big difference between polite strangers and rude strangers. Obviously you have yet to grasp this point. And yeah, so what if some people arrange to be watched by certain strangers while they turn other strangers away. That is life. Get used to it :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:
A car park is a public place, therefore anyone can turn up and hang round there if they want to. Whether it be a couple, a group of single guys, or indeed a car full of boy racers, they all have a right to spend their time there if they want to (yeah, yeah, there's laws about vagrancy and the like, but we'll ignore those for the mo).
If a couple turns up at a busy location they get swamped. FACT
Some guys are rude, pushy and do indeed press their faces up to the window. That is downright rude. FACT.
Whenever guys do this type of rude behaviour it spoils it for everyone, including the couple who were there to show to polite guys. FACT.
So, what's the problem? Why start slagging people off for stating facts?
It isn't conceited or "throwing guys a bone". It is about choosing not to allow some guys a show cos they are rude. Yeah, the have the right to stand in any car park they want but they do not have the right to stand close to a car window and wank - they are breaking the law by doing this if it is against the couple's consent. It is called indecent exposure. The couple has the right to bad mouth or drive away at this point. FACT
I say again, what's the problem?
And Crazydonk, I've no idea where you're coming from......
A lot fo couples go to show to strangers..... but they can choose who they get to watch without ruining any of the excitement. You really have got the wrong end of the stick here
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: There is a big difference between polite strangers and rude strangers. Obviously you have yet to grasp this point. And yeah, so what if some people arrange to be watched by certain strangers while they turn other strangers away. That is life. Get used to it :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: amd there was us getting all apologetic,yeah,bollocks to you dave!!ha ha,only kidding mate,this is just a classic example of "couples are from venus,doggers are from mars"!its a matter of perspective,and unless you have ever taken your wife or girlfriend dogging,it would be difficult to appreciate my viewpoint.i did take a dogging buddy out with us one night,he could'nt believe it,"are we REALLY like THAT"? he ,of course he did'nt mean him personally,but was amazed at how blatent some guys had been,it gave him a whole different perspective on appropiate we have a carpark full of decent respectfull guys,such as yourself,wouldnt it be unfair for us to encourage dickheads by sharing our fun with them and not you? we have been followed home on more than one occasion,had the doors opened,guys knocking on the window,several times guys have started to masturbate outside the car,while we were just sat there,and some hygene levels are disgusting! unlike you singles,we can pick when,and with whom to play with,we have yet to be turned down,if that sounds arrogant,well again,sorry,but,as bluexxx says,its fact....
'Dirtydoggers'
Perhaps I am a tad too sensitive, but sometimes I have too admit to having feelings. I totally agree with you regarding the 'Knuckle-Heads'. What I normally do when they are hounding the couples, is find a quiet car park just down the road and sure enough, the hounded couple comes in a few minutes later. They park up, show whats on offer and then ask if there is a quieter place anywhere nearby. I of course say YES!!! and everyone ends up happy.
I am glad that you are choosy, it's the only way to be. We also have to be choosy. Dogging for a single male can get very risky sometimes. I mean after all, there are two of you and only one of us. We have to learn when to be choosy and turn down the odd couple now and again. Mind you it's not difficult sometimes, especially when the Wife is wearing, carpet slippers, jeans, a thick woolly jumper and does'nt know what a hair brush looks like!! LoL.
'BlueXXX'
Fact!!! If a couple arrive and park up, the Wife is sitting there with her hair done, the make-up on, the blouse undone to the waist showing a beautiful pair of breasts in a lacy see-through bra, the skirt hiked up to her thighs showing a pair of sheer stockings and capped off with a pair of high heels, one of which is resting nonchalantly on the dashboard, a man would have to be Gay not to press his face to the window and have a look. In fact if we did'nt look, the Wife would start thinking there's something wrong with her. For the couple then to start 'Bad-Mouthing' him, I think is a little unfair don't you?
Please, be realistic about this people, if you don't want to get swamped, wait until you have who you want in the vicinity before you start showing how attractive you look. I defy any of the Husbands out there to say that he would not look through the window if his Wife was not there with him.
'Doggingtwo'
I definately do not feel humiliated by couples, because I stay away from the couples who think they are ' A Cut Above' everyone else. Tell you what, as a good will gesture I'll trim up the pedestal at christmas time for you, but only if you let me watch your wife perform on it for us, LoL.
Love and peace to all,
Dave...
Perhaps I am a tad too sensitive, but sometimes I have too admit to having feelings. I totally agree with you regarding the 'Knuckle-Heads'. What I normally do when they are hounding the couples, is find a quiet car park just down the road and sure enough, the hounded couple comes in a few minutes later. They park up, show whats on offer and then ask if there is a quieter place anywhere nearby. I of course say YES!!! and everyone ends up happy.
I am glad that you are choosy, it's the only way to be. We also have to be choosy. Dogging for a single male can get very risky sometimes. I mean after all, there are two of you and only one of us. We have to learn when to be choosy and turn down the odd couple now and again. Mind you it's not difficult sometimes, especially when the Wife is wearing, carpet slippers, jeans, a thick woolly jumper and does'nt know what a hair brush looks like!! LoL.
'BlueXXX'
Fact!!! If a couple arrive and park up, the Wife is sitting there with her hair done, the make-up on, the blouse undone to the waist showing a beautiful pair of breasts in a lacy see-through bra, the skirt hiked up to her thighs showing a pair of sheer stockings and capped off with a pair of high heels, one of which is resting nonchalantly on the dashboard, a man would have to be Gay not to press his face to the window and have a look. In fact if we did'nt look, the Wife would start thinking there's something wrong with her. For the couple then to start 'Bad-Mouthing' him, I think is a little unfair don't you?
Please, be realistic about this people, if you don't want to get swamped, wait until you have who you want in the vicinity before you start showing how attractive you look. I defy any of the Husbands out there to say that he would not look through the window if his Wife was not there with him.
'Doggingtwo'
I definately do not feel humiliated by couples, because I stay away from the couples who think they are ' A Cut Above' everyone else. Tell you what, as a good will gesture I'll trim up the pedestal at christmas time for you, but only if you let me watch your wife perform on it for us, LoL.
Love and peace to all,
Dave...
Sex God
I'm sure the above post was tongue in cheek, but I modified it anyway, just cos I felt like it 
.
In answer to your comments about women turning up wanting everyone to watch... yeah lots do, but I don't think anyone, however much of an exhibitionist they are, wants the rude, arrogant twats who push everyone out of the way to get a good look at their meets, do they? I do take your point actually, and the rude guys are in the minority, but they are the ones you should be aiming your anger at cos they are the problem. They ruin it for the polite guys and the couples alike.
.In answer to your comments about women turning up wanting everyone to watch... yeah lots do, but I don't think anyone, however much of an exhibitionist they are, wants the rude, arrogant twats who push everyone out of the way to get a good look at their meets, do they? I do take your point actually, and the rude guys are in the minority, but they are the ones you should be aiming your anger at cos they are the problem. They ruin it for the polite guys and the couples alike.
Sexpert
Quote by Dave1UK
'Dirtydoggers'
Perhaps I am a tad too sensitive, but sometimes I have too admit to having feelings. I totally agree with you regarding the 'Knuckle-Heads'. What I normally do when they are hounding the couples, is find a quiet car park just down the road and sure enough, the hounded couple comes in a few minutes later. They park up, show whats on offer and then ask if there is a quieter place anywhere nearby. I of course say YES!!! and everyone ends up happy.
I am glad that you are choosy, it's the only way to be. We also have to be choosy. Dogging for a single male can get very risky sometimes. I mean after all, there are two of you and only one of us. We have to learn when to be choosy and turn down the odd couple now and again. Mind you it's not difficult sometimes, especially when the Wife is wearing, carpet slippers, jeans, a thick woolly jumper and does'nt know what a hair brush looks like!! LoL.
'BlueXXX'
Fact!!! If a couple arrive and park up, the Wife is sitting there with her hair done, the make-up on, the blouse undone to the waist showing a beautiful pair of breasts in a lacy see-through bra, the skirt hiked up to her thighs showing a pair of sheer stockings and capped off with a pair of high heels, one of which is resting nonchalantly on the dashboard, a man would have to be Gay not to press his face to the window and have a look. In fact if we did'nt look, the Wife would start thinking there's something wrong with her. For the couple then to start 'Bad-Mouthing' him, I think is a little unfair don't you?
Please, be realistic about this people, if you don't want to get swamped, wait until you have who you want in the vicinity before you start showing how attractive you look. I defy any of the Husbands out there to say that he would not look through the window if his Wife was not there with him.
'Doggingtwo'
I definately do not feel humiliated by couples, because I stay away from the couples who think they are ' A Cut Above' everyone else. Tell you what, as a good will gesture I'll trim up the pedestal at christmas time for you, but only if you let me watch your wife perform on it for us, LoL.
Love and peace to all,
Dave...
OK Dave we will first have to see what sort of a job you make on the pedestal before we commit to anything,anyway you might turn us down as my wife usually goes dogging in a tatty housecoat and carpet slippers,although she never forgets to put her false teeth in and always applies mascara to her 1 particular instance i spoke about my wife had not even got out of the car,so that particularly ignorant male would have had no idea what she was fact it was a very short pvc mini skirt,stockings and thigh length boots,so unless he had xray vision i still can see no excuses for his arrogant and very rude Dogging to you Doggingtwo
My dear BlueXXX I'm not angry, honestly. I was just making one or two points.
"In answer to your comments about women turning up wanting everyone to watch... "
I didn't say that BlueXXX, calm down now, please. Roughly, what I said was
"If a couple turned up and the Wife was all nicely prepared and no-one bothered to look at her, she would probably get upset and think there was something wrong with Her"
Not the same by any stretch of the imagination.
Love,
Dave...
"In answer to your comments about women turning up wanting everyone to watch... "
I didn't say that BlueXXX, calm down now, please. Roughly, what I said was
"If a couple turned up and the Wife was all nicely prepared and no-one bothered to look at her, she would probably get upset and think there was something wrong with Her"
Not the same by any stretch of the imagination.
Love,
Dave...
Sex God
Looking is one thing, being downright rude is another.....
Too right I'll watch if someone turns up dressed all sexy, but what I won't do is practically try to climb through the window the second they arrive!
Now, what was the point? Oh yeah, you were calling people conceited for complaining about the rude guys..... sorry, I forgot for a mo there :doh:
Too right I'll watch if someone turns up dressed all sexy, but what I won't do is practically try to climb through the window the second they arrive!
Now, what was the point? Oh yeah, you were calling people conceited for complaining about the rude guys..... sorry, I forgot for a mo there :doh:
Sexpert
Quote by Dave1UK
"In fact it was a very short pvc mini skirt,stockings and thigh length boots"
Mmmm, sounds good to me. I think I could find something to do to please Her on the pedestal.
All the best,
Dave...
Well you never know Dave dare i say it "one day it could be you"
all the best Doggingtwo
Sex God
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