Everyone we had an eperience to day that gives single males a bad reputation .
My self and female friend were at a quiet site in North Bucks this afteernoon when a guy walked past seemed to take no interest and we carried on.
He then sneaked up the other side of the hedge and started taking pictures uninvited.I went to challenge him he ran off got in his car and then drove straight at me.
Look out for a old type mercedes estate with what looks like building material in the back he has a shaven head about 35 wearing dark glasses.
I think he is on this site.
Males have always been well behaved around us and respected our wishes we do not allow pictures and will only provide them to genuine couples who we would like to meet this behaviour is in our book totally unacceptable and for the single guys can only cause distrust.
Guys you should always seek permission and no means no.
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Thanks for the info Pete. I certainly don't mean to paint all single guys with the same brush, but we are finding that too many of them are too pushy. Funny really because if they used their sense and showed respect, they would probaly get a lot further. To the decent single guys out there (I'm sure there are loads), maybe you need to make it clear to the pushy ones that their behaviour is not acceptable and that they are ruining it for everyone!
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That is disgusting behaviour and as has already been said - gives single males an even worse reputation.
We are NOT all like that - in fact for my part i think im almost the opposite - im always slow to go to another car.
So to all N Bucks couples (and there doesnt seem to be many) please be careful and remember there are some good guys out here too.
By the way - i drive a silver people carrier
We are NOT all like that - in fact for my part i think im almost the opposite - im always slow to go to another car.
So to all N Bucks couples (and there doesnt seem to be many) please be careful and remember there are some good guys out here too.
By the way - i drive a silver people carrier
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Sorry you guys had a bad 'un. Like the previous, I too am quite shy and would not know what to do, so maybe we need lessons in etiquette?
that, I reckon, for every guy that reads or posts on this Forum, there are fifty that don't......in fact, the character you mention probably can't read at all
So for everyone that knows the rules, there are lots more that don't and, coupled to the bad manners I've seen displayed on a number of occassions,what you say doesn't come as a great surprise.......apart from the driving at you bit
Having said that, there are lots of good humoured well mannered guys and couples that I've been lucky enough to of the posters are right when asking that we're not all tarred with the same brush.
It can also be said that some couples behave oddly, rudely or badly at times and, either way, it spoils the fun for everyone.
Politeness costs nothing.
For example, I've seen people behaving badly towards TV's & , it's not my cup of tea, but everyone to their own and as long as people are civil to me, I'll be civil back.
It just makes life easier for everyone and we can all, as consenting adults, get on with our own thing.
So for everyone that knows the rules, there are lots more that don't and, coupled to the bad manners I've seen displayed on a number of occassions,what you say doesn't come as a great surprise.......apart from the driving at you bit
Having said that, there are lots of good humoured well mannered guys and couples that I've been lucky enough to of the posters are right when asking that we're not all tarred with the same brush.
It can also be said that some couples behave oddly, rudely or badly at times and, either way, it spoils the fun for everyone.
Politeness costs nothing.
For example, I've seen people behaving badly towards TV's & , it's not my cup of tea, but everyone to their own and as long as people are civil to me, I'll be civil back.
It just makes life easier for everyone and we can all, as consenting adults, get on with our own thing.
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Quote by pete5052
Everyone we had an eperience to day that gives single males a bad reputation .
My self and female friend were at a quiet site in North Bucks this afteernoon when a guy walked past seemed to take no interest and we carried on.
He then sneaked up the other side of the hedge and started taking pictures uninvited.I went to challenge him he ran off got in his car and then drove straight at me.
Look out for a old type mercedes estate with what looks like building material in the back he has a shaven head about 35 wearing dark glasses.
I think he is on this site.
Males have always been well behaved around us and respected our wishes we do not allow pictures and will only provide them to genuine couples who we would like to meet this behaviour is in our book totally unacceptable and for the single guys can only cause distrust.
Guys you should always seek permission and no means no.
Well done Pete
In one fell swoop you condemn ALL single guys. Total bollocks. How can the actions of one guy tell you ANYTHING about all single guys? If I saw a 'show' but there was no 'action', can I condemn ALL couples for not 'playing'? No - so don't condemn all single guys. You are preaching to the converted here, we do advocate 'guidelines' to enable all to enjoy dogging if they follow them, but there are thousands and thousands who
a) Don't even know what dogging is, they just come across it (perhaps this guy!)
b) Know what it is, but have never heard of Swinging Heaven, so are unaware of our guidelines.
We can sympathise with what happened to you, but that's as far as it goes. You have condemned me, a single guy, and you've never even met me.
To save this turning into a "he said this, but meant this........" thread, I'm locking it.
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