hi chunky,
Not sure if it helps at all but me and my wife feel that there is very little response from people at the moment in the north east, but we are new here and want to set a good impression and don't want to speak out of term. We are certainly dissapointed there are many more males wanting to get in on the act of watching couples and not enuff couples to go round, while me and my wife don't mind another bloke watching us, it's also very dissapointing to find too few couples for our liking... while it's not boring being watched by another male it sure would be nice if all these single lads at least made an effort to bring a girl themselves.... just my opinion ofcourse ;)
You only have to look ahead and see yourself that too many males per female is gonna be a little intimidating, also i might add that couples have a lot more to loose than a single bloke getting his satisfaction from other genuine couples. I just want to add this is certainly not a dig at any single blokes ;)