I cruised a few locations around Northampton tonight but was disappointed to see nothing. Is is too cold!?!
I am a single, early thirties male looking to view (perhaps participate if I have the courage) any tips please pm me.
Thanks.
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To be honest 9/10 time you do go out on the scene you will see nothing. Be patient, non-pushy and allow others to know your there and you will see something.
It took me a whole month before i saw my first show.
It took me a whole month before i saw my first show.
Quote by ntonmale
I cruised a few locations around Northampton tonight but was disappointed to see nothing.
You already have your answer in what you posted........did you stay for 15-30 minutes before moving on to the next site? Unfortunately, that's the worst way to approach it - if that's the case then you need to stay longer in one spot. Think of it as a stake out rather than a trolley dash
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Thanks.
Im certainly not pushy, quite the opposite in fact. I will try again with more patience.
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many couples, depending on their desires, will enter a venue, do their thing, then leave..the process might be, from beginning to end, 15 minutes, or less
maybe the fastest example we've witnessed was when the couple arrived, the lady partner of which, was already naked under a duvet :lol: , presumably having gotton undressed, and even warmed up, some way down the road..then it was lights on, and getting down and dirty..most of the fellas were still sprinting across the carpark, when, with a little wave, they departed, she still as naked as she was on arrival..well, that is an extreme example, but more oppertunities have been lost to restless doggers than gained. the only way to ensure you don't miss any action, is to simply sit it out..one fella remarked that on a visit to a certain venue, the only other guys that were there were the fishermen..well, take them as an example, cause those fellas are far more enduring than the average dogger, and probably get to see a whole lot more too.
oh, and don't assume that because the carpark, if known for dogging, is empty, it won't be worth hanging around..empty carparks are worth their weight in gold, because the only couple of the night, week or month, may be driving down that very moment, and when they arrive, you'll get everything on offer..we've seen it loads, "the master" has got it loads and we've given it loads.
otherwise empty, or near empty carparks and polite doggers are the ideal combination as far as the guy is concearned, as the couples that were hoping for more will often settle for less, and those that desire less, rather than more, will have their ideal scenario :lol: i'll tell you about the stormy sunday night with my mate "the master" one day :lol: 