Hi, my wife has a thing about being watched and I am a little aprehensive...... I dont mind but we have tried dogging only to either confronted by a whole load of men at a location, or people who get way to close and pushy.
I am not after swinging or swapping but would be interested to meet up with a more experienced couple somewhere in Northants next weekend (1/2 Oct).
Like I said Im a little apprehensive as people knocking on the car window asking if they could join in really pissed me off!
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Dogging can be great fun..............my partner and I are off out tonight.................but it can be intimidating to start with. We've even had a scenario where we have driven off because people don't obey the rules, only to have some of them follow us. Yeah, like that's REALLY gonna make me want to know them!
My best suggestion is to maybe arrange to meet another couple and go together in your own cars for mutual support. If people become too persistant, tell them to back off or you will leave. If they don't back off..................leave.
Maybe for your first time, choose a weeknight, as they tend to be quieter. Post that you will be going out, and ask people to PM your for details. That way, you can select as many as you want to be there, and only those you contact will know when and where. Make sure you spell out your ground rules...........watching only, some touching, full bodily contact...............so that people are aware of the limitations before they turn up.
Above all.................remember that you will find some great, genuine people out dogging. I love it!!
My best suggestion is to maybe arrange to meet another couple and go together in your own cars for mutual support. If people become too persistant, tell them to back off or you will leave. If they don't back off..................leave.
Maybe for your first time, choose a weeknight, as they tend to be quieter. Post that you will be going out, and ask people to PM your for details. That way, you can select as many as you want to be there, and only those you contact will know when and where. Make sure you spell out your ground rules...........watching only, some touching, full bodily contact...............so that people are aware of the limitations before they turn up.
Above all.................remember that you will find some great, genuine people out dogging. I love it!!
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Can i just try to say that the majority of us single men are willing to follow which ever rules are layed down and if i were to sit and watch it would satisfy me.
I have met lissa on a few occasions and would like to say that never have i seen anything which would put anyone off.
As Lissa says she puts down the ground rules and i am happy to obey and hopefully we have all went away happy at the end of the night.
I would be happy for the newbies to im me and would travel to meet up if they wished.
Could anyone confirm the rumour that the well known reservoir past northampton is in the process of being gated off at night times
I have met lissa on a few occasions and would like to say that never have i seen anything which would put anyone off.
As Lissa says she puts down the ground rules and i am happy to obey and hopefully we have all went away happy at the end of the night.
I would be happy for the newbies to im me and would travel to meet up if they wished.
Could anyone confirm the rumour that the well known reservoir past northampton is in the process of being gated off at night times
