Not an ad!: Are there single lady doggers?

3 Jan 2005

Okay theres a fair few couples on here looking to please plenty of people! enjoy being watched and such.
Theres also a plentiful supply of single males willing to offer their bits or pieces to fill any holes in pleasure that may be there...
But so far i dont think ive seen any ads for any lady doggers out there looking for meet-ups or going out wanting to watch some action?
I know theres bound to be not as many of you out there, but there must be some of you?!
*This isn't going to turn into a "well we might as well meet up then ;) " thread! just curious!*

3 Jan 2005

hey you must be driving round to much, where we go there are a least 3 single ladies looking for fun with single guys....
if you are from notts then you will know where to go and start looking....
plus a car that has 4 ladies in it that travel around together looking for much the same thing wink

:wink:
its out there.....

3 Jan 2005

lol thats what i like to hear!
Nah the girlfriends been all flued up so ive been on duty looking after her!
As ive mentioned in another thread i know of a few places that would be ideal for dogging, just never encounted any action - bit of a newbie so not too keen on jumping straight in on a 80 car action place straight away!
But i think i'll definantly be keeping my eyes open for a car with 4 pretty ladies in driving around at night now ;)
Sounds like they are defiantly out there then, perhaps just doesnt seem like it because single females dont need to advertise their services on here, because theres a much higher chance that they will get plenty of offers when they are out at night?

4 Jan 2005

how rare indeed! i dont think that kind of thing exists in newcastle! :P

4 Jan 2005

it doesn't! i have only seen one man and woman having fun in their car, all other times it's been single males. i wanted to go over to the couple, drove past twice but no signal....

4 Jan 2005

There are two or three girls on the forum who are into dogging in a solo capacity wave

4 Jan 2005

we know of 3 single ladies in our area too....................hello serendipity,nice to see you back,things sorted themselves out now?

4 Jan 2005

holy mosses....I wish I could find one in leicestershire (or 2 but I guess that would be pushing it) cool

4 Jan 2005

If I were single, I dunno if I would do the doggin thing....
I mean, there's all the elements of potential danger involved. What if things were to get out of hand? Someone gets a bit too pushy or upset because you didn't fancy giving him a gobble? Also, I could see perhaps having a fiddle while blokes watched, but Im sure the novelty for me or them would soon wear off. So the ratio of single men/women doggers kind of explains itself. I mean, dogging excites me in ways I have never been turned on before, but Im not sure if going at it alone would conteract the danger involved.
Silky x

4 Jan 2005

Yeah true i guess the danger element is a huge factor in this, although im sure if a lady was really into it, she could easily find a "minder" so to speak - a good friend who will keep an eye on her, but isnt going out with her!
Its a shame, im sure if the *some* males were better behaved, some of these ladies would feel more comfortable going down on their own, and everybody could have lots more fun!

5 Jan 2005

D+M are you sure about the single ladies ? apart from 3 girls in a van who you know all the single women ive seen tend to be blokes know what i mean

5 Jan 2005

iv spoke to 2 single ladys from north east but not met them in person yet

5 Jan 2005

Quote by D_M
plus a car that has 4 ladies in it that travel around together looking for much the same thing :wink:

Wow, not seen anything like that in my neck of the woods. Not sure if I did whether I'd trust it to be true either...sort of instinctive feeling of what looks too good to be true usually IS too good to be true. Just goes to show eh?
I'm intreagued now, have any of the guys here met them? Assuming that you got to play...how did you pick out who to play with without upsetting the others?

5 Jan 2005

Quote by paulyblade
D+M are you sure about the single ladies ? apart from 3 girls in a van who you know all the single women ive seen tend to be blokes know what i mean

paulyblade the best thing i can do for you is this, the next time you are out and about and the ladies are there is introduce you to them ,as they are four very lovely ladies to wink

:wink:
be carefull though.....you never know what might happen to when they get there hands on you......
that will be one story i do not want to miss... keep us all posted on that one :wink: :wink:
as you know this lady keeps her word :wink:

5 Jan 2005

yep a minder is the way to go - esp if you are interested in showing and watching only - as it is nearly always assumed that you will be there for a free for all fuck fest mad

having said that, i have now on a couple of occasions found a small group of guys - obviously to shocked at the sight of a lone female that they behaved with the upmost respect, and at one location they warned another guy off - who is known for being too pushy. biggrin

safety wise - i have a friend who i phone and tell them where i am, then i phone them when i leave - makes sense.
now night time on my own for me would be a complete no go - unless i had a very big minder with me (height not cock size lol

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now please - dont start pm me - its taken a few days for me to decide whether to post a reply on this subject or not, dont spoil it for me. i have changed my signature in honour of this post, but will change it back after lol

5 Jan 2005

Hi norty_forty,
Have to say I was tempted to send you a pm until I read your closing paragraph.....I will respect your wishes.
Anyway thanks for your input.

5 Jan 2005

Quote by norty_forty
.if you are interested in showing and watching only - as it is nearly always assumed that you will be there for a free for all fuck fest

There has always been a concern in the back of my mind that others will make those assumptions about female doggers. My interest is in watching others but I've said before that some people find this hard to believe. I admire women like Norty Forty and Gurl who have the guts to show alone and it's great to hear that other doggers are showing them courtesy and care.

5 Jan 2005

thanks D+M i look forward to meeting them biggrin

as soon as work allows i will be out and about and if and when i will let you know what happens wink

if i have any strength left lol :cheers: . well done norty forty its nice to know there are single females out there who like to play be it to show, watch or what ever i think a lot of us aren't pushy and i for one like to think that people think im a perfect gentleman as hopefully one or two people on here will agree with me

5 Jan 2005

Quote by Serendipity
There has always been a concern in the back of my mind that others will make those assumptions about female doggers.

Deepest respects for the liberated ladies who are on the dogging scene, either to watch or to perform. All power to your elbows, er, or whatever :P
As for making assumptions, I think that is only natural and is to be expected. No offence meant here, but doggers have sometimes to live by their wits, trust to their experience, and make judgements accordingly, for their own sakes. I think they do it every time they see an 18 year old behind the wheel of a car, every time they see a car full of lads, and sadly every time they see single females.
As yet I have never known any teenagers who have been anything other than "boy-racer" types, so I (and I'm not alone in this respect I'm sure) avoid them. OK, it means that I might miss out on a cracking show, but on the other hand I won't get myself into trouble and my car won't get a brick through the window either.
The only single ladies I have ever seen on the car parks in my part of the world have asked for money, and been told where to go in no uncertain terms by the doggers. (after all we get enough Police attention already without attracting more of it) There are also a number of TV's tryiing to trick single guys by their appearance. So you can appreciate that the appearance of real single female doggers will be ttreated with caution as an instinctive / experience led reaction. Nothing personal or more educated than that. Just the way that the human mind works I suppose. That's not to say that they won't get accepted when they become known by the "residents", just it may need a bit of effort to gain the trust and most importantly, the understanding by the guys of what you are into and what your limits are.
That said, please do say hello if your travels ever take you over to Birmingham, as at least knowing who you are from here speeds the getting to know you bit up a lot.

5 Jan 2005

Ahh, what am i to do if dogging is really as dull as this?, i'll probably feel like the "first time cottager" on Monkey dust, only with more dissapointment XD
Back to good old casual sex from internet personals sites for me...

5 Jan 2005

Quote by norty_forty
yep a minder is the way to go - esp if you are interested in showing and watching only - as it is nearly always assumed that you will be there for a free for all fuck fest

Obviously it varies from person to person, or in this case, lady to lady, but since your the only single lady dogger that has made herself known i hope you dont mind me aiming these few questions at you - by all means nobody is forcing you to answer them!
Just, is your mentality like most of the single males who go to watch? by that i guess i mean, your going down to see a good show being put on like youve said, but then also perhaps looking for a little bonus of noy excatly joining in, but be chosen to have a little play too?
Sorry i had a few more questions but my minds gone blank!
Seems an interesting subject though, and will obviously remind some of the pushy lads that if they want female company there, then giving them some space to feel comfortable and let them do what they feel up to, will give them a far better chance of seeing more pretty ladies like yourself then jumping upon them will!

6 Jan 2005

Quote by partyman
The only single ladies I have ever seen on the car parks in my part of the world have asked for money, and been told where to go in no uncertain terms by the doggers. (after all we get enough Police attention already without attracting more of it) There are also a number of TV's tryiing to trick single guys by their appearance. So you can appreciate that the appearance of real single female doggers will be ttreated with caution as an instinctive / experience led reaction.

Neither of those thoughts had occured to me! redface

It does explain a couple of the "are you female?" PMs though.....which did puzzle me a bit when I got them as I thought it was obvious! This is why I like coming here, you always learn something :!:

7 Jan 2005

Quote by Serendipity
It does explain a couple of the "are you female?" PMs though.....which did puzzle me a bit when I got them as I thought it was obvious! This is why I like coming here, you always learn something :!:

And of course on the web, anyone can pretend to be anything, so yeah, I'm not surprised at the caution being expressed.
It's damned hard proving that you are genuine in this modern world :cry:

7 Jan 2005

Single female Doggers are as rare as hens teeth, at least that's my experience in the NE of England.
I did meet one, once about thirty years ago, it was her first time. We teamed up as a couple and had many a happy weekend in a variety of Dogging Sites, but alas, all good things come to an end, and she got married to someone else.
So if there are any single or married ladies who want a partner to go Dogging in the NE, just drop me a P.M.
Living in Hope,
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk, Naturalist and Dogger of this Parish.
hump

:taz: :borg:

8 Jan 2005

So who exactly ARE the single female doggers on SH ? Are there any single female doggers on this thread ?

8 Jan 2005

pin droppin

12 Jan 2005

Quote by harry0
Single female Doggers are as rare as hens teeth, at least that's my experience in the NE of England.
I did meet one, once about thirty years ago, it was her first time. We teamed up as a couple and had many a happy weekend in a variety of Dogging Sites, but alas, all good things come to an end, and she got married to someone else.:

As a couple who have been dogging in the North East for the past 10 years we can honestly say we have only ever met 2 single females into dogging, both of them got started by firstly advertising on the Internet (One who actually advertised on this site) And unfortunately neither lasted very long, needless to say why! Yes u got it! over eager guys stifling them and harrasing them to death! to the point where they felt they could no longer go out without instantly being recognised and swamped. We actually took one single girl out with us one night a few years backand within 10 minutes of arriving at a certain layby we could not get moved for guys swarming around the car, unfortunately making it impossible to even arrange to meet a couple of guys at a more secluded car park, we eventually managed to shake the last of them off some 10 miles up the Motorway!
So I must agree with Silk and say that even though I'm a seasoned dogging female I doubt I would ever dare venture out alone!

13 Jan 2005

There was one in an area near here, (about 18 miles away), a couple of years back, but she's the only one I ever knew to have the guts to go out alone... and it was an out alone situation, not a single girl, she was married, but hubby didn't understand her needs.
To my knowledge she performed her show for about 6 months quite regularly, then vanished from the scene... She did actually say that she wasn't in it for ever and as soon as her hubby suspected anything, she was out of there, so I guess he might have cottoned on that something wasn't quite right in the marriage.
A mate of mine told me about her, and asked her on my behalf if I could attend one evening, she agreed when he assured her I was safe and discrete... having cleared it with the boss at home, I duly did so... This young lady, and we'll call her Jane was heavily into facials... Jane would park her car in the pre determined private place, (wooded area), and when the guys were in position she would invite all to her car and perform a blow job on each guy in turn, (4 guys max per session, one, my mate acting as her security guard as well), on the stipulation that it was unloaded over her face, not in her mouth... It was fun while it lasted... and I have some lovely photo's of her, she wasn't at all shy about the guys taking pics, strange as she was cheating.