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Could someone please tell me if etiquete is correct in this case.
Went to dogging location and got flashed by couple to follow,which I up slowly to one side of there car,she starts giving bj to him,me watching in my car. She sits up after a while puts interior light on smiles and they drive of? Was this an invite to join in or follow just sat there like a prat not knowing what to let me know,Thanks. biggrin
hi
when i go dogging.
guys know when me and my partner start to play it means they can come and watch.
then if we open the window it means they can join in, and we always open the window wink lol
even better if we open the door and let 1 guy in :lol:
Quote by dan7766
Could someone please tell me if etiquete is correct in this case.
Went to dogging location and got flashed by couple to follow,which I up slowly to one side of there car,she starts giving bj to him,me watching in my car. She sits up after a while puts interior light on smiles and they drive of? Was this an invite to join in or follow just sat there like a prat not knowing what to let me know,Thanks. biggrin

Sounds like they just wanted a watcher for a while. Don't follow people when they leave, it is rude and likely to get you into trouble if they are like me and don't take kindly to it lol :lol: :lol: :lol:
hi dan i'm nw and new to this do u fancy a chat i would like to find some i think u cant post on here can u send me a pm if phil
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hi dan i'm nw and new to this do u fancy a chat i would like to find some i think u cant post on here can u send me a pm if phil

That's right. Don't post exact locations on the forum. Only discuss locations in PM with people you know are genuine.
There are some locations on the dogging list on the left of your screen.
Hey,
We're new to the NW - can anyone PM me some good locations to check out....?
Thanks!
Me too please, preferably for the South Manchester area. City centre would be cool too.
Thanks
Quote by bluexxx
There are some locations on the dogging list on the left of your screen.
Hi Dan,take note of what cuddly catlin and blue says,on this occasion you did the right thing by not following them,they will possibly remember that for future you're sat there and they pull up by the side of you,they may just be having a look to see if they like you or not,I only follow if I'm asked or gestured to,if you're not sure ,stay put,if they want you they will come back for you,if not they won't,some couples will park next to you,some will park as far away from you as they can get,if your new,they will not know you or your car so be very patient and just you park near a couple,don't park so close that they can't open their door,leave 4-5 car spaces in between,wherever possible kill your headlamps on entering the car park,the last thing they want is to be 'lit up'.Some couples prefer only 1 or 2 at a time,some prefer lots,just watch and see what doggers may give you tips on what certain couples prefer(from previous experience of or with them).If you approach and your told to leave,apologise and walk away to your car,they may want to play 1st,they may just not want you there because they don't know you,if lots of other doggers approach them 1st and the couple don't drive off it may mean they're happy with the situation,you can then tentatavely meander over and if your not told to leave then you may be in luck otherwise there's always next 's not an exact science as you may have gathered and I've used the word 'may' quite a lot. Always remember NOTHING IS even if you have had fun with that couple in doubt,stay in your car,the couple could be Police Officers on duty in a plain car.I hope this helps you,john
Maggotbrain,City centre Manchester might be cool to you but remember to smile ' you may be on camera '.CCTV is everywhere and the likelihood of anythin occurin there is at best NIL,No locations should be put in this forum or any other,Big Brother may be watching,
Oh I'm very much aware of this, hence why I'm asking for people to PM me. I've had a quick scout of the forum etiquette and realised listing places was a no no, so rest assured, I shan't be asking for details to be posted here.
And the Manchester section of the "Dogging sites" section is a little sparse, I was just wondering if anybody could PM me some sites which aren't on the listings.
Thanks anyway.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/38841.html
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maggotbrain, richie1976 and nw-curious-male, have you thought tha as you are all very new and people dont really know anything about you, that they may not feel comfortable sending you details of dogging sites? Think about it, if you met someone for the very first time in a pub, would you be willing to tell them that you were going to be sat on your own in car park in the middle of no where? I know I wouldnt. I would want to find out a little about the person, I would want to know that I am not putting myself in danger and I would want to know that the person could be trusted, they were genuine and not some raving idiot! Not that I am saying you are any of the above, but we dont know!
Why dont you all take a bit of time to get yourselves known, join in the conversations and be prepared to give rather than just take! To be a successful dogger you need loads and loads of patience and you must be willing to sit around for hours and hours waiting for something to happen. When you finally get to the point where you just cant be bothered any more, then you will start to wonder if dogging is really for you.
I really hope you all have fun but just dont expect it to happen overnight!