My apologies to those people out at Salcey on friday night who ended up disappointed, but if you don't obey the rules, I'm not playing. There were far too many people hovering around the car even before we had given the signal that they could approach, and pushy people worry me. And being followed when we decided to drive off for a while to see if the numbers dropped is definitely NOT playing by the rules. I don't know if I am even going to go back to Salcey after this, or find somewhere else. It's a pity that some people have to spoil things for everyone else.
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I'm as sad to hear about this situation as I have been to hear about the others that people have posted this week. There seems an awful lot of pests about lately 
. It's a shame that potentially good situations are ruined by the few selfish individuals that are about. If those selfish people are reading this, they know who they are, and I hope they feel ashamed of themselves. I hope they also realise that pests ruin the fun for everyone, including themselves. No-one wants to have fun with pests - EVER! :x
I have to say that what has been posted lately about pests discourages me from discussing with others on the open forum when I will be going out, just in case loads of pests turn up - this is a shame, but true. If only the pests would calm down a bit and we'd all have a lot more fun :x :x :x
. It's a shame that potentially good situations are ruined by the few selfish individuals that are about. If those selfish people are reading this, they know who they are, and I hope they feel ashamed of themselves. I hope they also realise that pests ruin the fun for everyone, including themselves. No-one wants to have fun with pests - EVER! :x I have to say that what has been posted lately about pests discourages me from discussing with others on the open forum when I will be going out, just in case loads of pests turn up - this is a shame, but true. If only the pests would calm down a bit and we'd all have a lot more fun :x :x :x
What really annoys me is that there were a lot of guys there, we could have had a really good time, but it was obvious that the minute we turned the light on they would all rush the car at once. We both decided that it would become an out-of-control situation very easily. Guys need to realise just how intimidating that can be for a woman who is still fairly new to dogging.
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Hi Lissa,
I must admit that I was one of the guys at Salcey on Friday but was invited. I arrived at as you had said and could not believe the number of guys parked up and that kept driving around. Some of the cars had more than one guy in so I could see what was going on and why you was put off. I would still like to have some fun with you but can I suggest that it is a weekday night when Salcey is less busy, as it is a popular place at the worst of times or alternatively another venue. Also instead of advertising the time and place it would be better to post a message without details to stop any tom, dick or harry turning up. Then you can PM or e-mail those that you want to invite and hopefully avoiding the problems of last Friday. Hope this helps and that you are not completely put off.
Mark
I must admit that I was one of the guys at Salcey on Friday but was invited. I arrived at as you had said and could not believe the number of guys parked up and that kept driving around. Some of the cars had more than one guy in so I could see what was going on and why you was put off. I would still like to have some fun with you but can I suggest that it is a weekday night when Salcey is less busy, as it is a popular place at the worst of times or alternatively another venue. Also instead of advertising the time and place it would be better to post a message without details to stop any tom, dick or harry turning up. Then you can PM or e-mail those that you want to invite and hopefully avoiding the problems of last Friday. Hope this helps and that you are not completely put off.
Mark
I must admit on reading this i felt a bit of deja vu.
Now I will only visit on personal invites done via pm or by email.
That way, if the odd person is around, fair enough.
I have also had the situation where someone posts a fake location and lets the genuine ones know the real one. Its better that way
Hopefully this will all die down, its just the press's latest fad, within the month it will be getting a bit cold and everyone will start on the government or soemthing.
Lets hope anyway
Now I will only visit on personal invites done via pm or by email.
That way, if the odd person is around, fair enough.
I have also had the situation where someone posts a fake location and lets the genuine ones know the real one. Its better that way
Hopefully this will all die down, its just the press's latest fad, within the month it will be getting a bit cold and everyone will start on the government or soemthing.
Lets hope anyway
Well, I was at salcey.
I didn't find it intimidating, but then I'm used to it !
I introduced myself to Lissa (sorry about that....but I could see it wasn't going to be a good night) ....and the "regulars" were *NOT* the ones driving about....they were the ones *STANDING* about....in fact, the two frequent regulars were not even there that night....there were two couples there....Lissa and companion and another couple in a new motor who drove through twice...then Lissa went to the other car park and the procession followed...and a new lot of drive-byes arrived and then went down to the other park....at the height of the carnival there were around 10 cars parked and 4 regular drive-byes...not to mention the large white van which did the rounds.....there was one car with two men in....both regulars....and both ok guys.....I went at and met the procession going BACK to the main car park from the satellite car park....as I said, the ones driving about and many of the others were not regulars...I know most of their cars....
It's the price of fame Lissa....that and the fact that when someone does show up, some of the people there phone to others....next time, pick a few from here and arrange it for a time and place after closing time !!!...
Have fun ?(!)
jomu
I didn't find it intimidating, but then I'm used to it !
I introduced myself to Lissa (sorry about that....but I could see it wasn't going to be a good night) ....and the "regulars" were *NOT* the ones driving about....they were the ones *STANDING* about....in fact, the two frequent regulars were not even there that night....there were two couples there....Lissa and companion and another couple in a new motor who drove through twice...then Lissa went to the other car park and the procession followed...and a new lot of drive-byes arrived and then went down to the other park....at the height of the carnival there were around 10 cars parked and 4 regular drive-byes...not to mention the large white van which did the rounds.....there was one car with two men in....both regulars....and both ok guys.....I went at and met the procession going BACK to the main car park from the satellite car park....as I said, the ones driving about and many of the others were not regulars...I know most of their cars....
It's the price of fame Lissa....that and the fact that when someone does show up, some of the people there phone to others....next time, pick a few from here and arrange it for a time and place after closing time !!!...
Have fun ?(!)
jomu
