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Sexlightened
There are a few mate but it doesn't quite work like that. You won't get the info that easily. You need to get known in the area first.
Sex God
Or at the very least just read the list ! 
Sexpert
but where do you go to get known lol
Sexlightened
Getting known is just a matter of time and patience. Not just using the websites because that doesn't prove anything. Anyone can post a thousand threads and seem genuine. Get out there and get round some sites. Be patient, respectful and talk to people. It will take time but the friendships you develop are well worth it.
Dave
Dave
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well i did all that in 2004 and early 05 went to several counties particulary gloucs/ wilts regular and didnt get to see muchaction watched a few cpls im always respectful i didnt get out of my car neither do i park to close to others cars but in oxon ive yet to see any action 
Sexlightened
Must be very unlucky then rob. Don't buy a lottery ticket mate!
Dave
Dave
Sexpert
yes i guess i must be :cry:
Other doggers normally don't mind sharing information after they see you around a few times.
More a case of putting in the hours and law of averages to get to know the scene
you won't get any action by sitting at a pc as it all happens in dark lonely secluded cp's.
just when you are about to leave is when the action will happen
and other cliches!!!!
having said that who is your tip for the derby tommorrow cos i'll avoid placing a bet on it
SC
More a case of putting in the hours and law of averages to get to know the scene
you won't get any action by sitting at a pc as it all happens in dark lonely secluded cp's.
just when you are about to leave is when the action will happen
and other cliches!!!!
having said that who is your tip for the derby tommorrow cos i'll avoid placing a bet on it
SC
Sexpert
i have put in the hours last year i went every week for several months thou i havent done it in mid summer which is probably more advisable put plently of time in i did see a little action but just watching im not sure if i want to get actively involved if they lots of guys abouts thats been very off putting ........ dirtydoggers i do know east anglia abit ive not tried dogging up there but i m sure it good in summer thanks for the offer ill have a think about it
offer? what offer? 
:lol: you were probably reading our signature :lol: :lol: yeah, the dogging is good in these parts..huge swathes of forest, ahh you can't beat it..sweaty sex under the canopy of leaf and stars. 
you must get out of the car though
if you wait for US to signal, you'll be sat there all night :lol: and the girls often duck down beneath the windscreen these days, just to avoid the stampede :lol: quick show for four fellas, then away..the boys don't half like to gloat about those encounters :lol: :lol: you need to be thinking on yer feet in this malarky me old mucker, most couples prefer to have their doggers showing their colours so to speak :wink:
:lol: you were probably reading our signature :lol: :lol: yeah, the dogging is good in these parts..huge swathes of forest, ahh you can't beat it..sweaty sex under the canopy of leaf and stars. you must get out of the car though
if you wait for US to signal, you'll be sat there all night :lol: and the girls often duck down beneath the windscreen these days, just to avoid the stampede :lol: quick show for four fellas, then away..the boys don't half like to gloat about those encounters :lol: :lol: you need to be thinking on yer feet in this malarky me old mucker, most couples prefer to have their doggers showing their colours so to speak :wink: Sexlightened
Rob are you sure dogging's for you? You don't want to get out of your car and your not sure you want to get involved. That's what it's all about mate. How will you meet anyone sitting in your car??
Dave
Dave
Sexpert
i do want to get out of the car but not with lots of guys around thats what i ment if i found somewhere quiet and park nearish to them could chat with window down then if they wanted me to join in they would ask or signal i dont like the like idea of standing outside the car 
Quote by rob-oxford
i do want to get out of the car but not with lots of guys around thats what i ment if i found somewhere quiet and park nearish to them could chat with window down then if they wanted me to join in they would ask or signal i dont like the like idea of standing outside the car
Rob - to be honest mate, if you don't like the idea of there being 'lots of guys around' then Dogging may not be for you
Sexpert
yes im starting to think that way but maybe there might be away round that if i can find couple or couples pre aranged the weather is on the up want to make this summer a good one : : :
rob mate..i kinda understand where you are coming from, but the fellas are right, dogging, the way the majority of us understand it, ain't really for you..i haven't got time to explain all my thoughts because the website has a time limit before spitting ramblers such as myself out and asking to me to log-in again :cry: currently i'm losing about 70 percent of my posts due to getting carried away
one small area to look at..currently you are pre-occupied with your feelings of insecurity and danger..ok..look at it from our perspective as a couple..we want to get out of the car for a play over the bonnet, a photo shoot or some fun in the open doorway of our vehicle..five cars are in, and four fellas hovering about..fine, except we are left wondering..the guy sat in the renmaining car, is he alone? is he into the game? is he filming us, taking details on a reporter's notepad maybe? maybe he is on a radio, or phone...you see where we are coming from? its kinda hard to be sexy whilst having to watch our backs..five guys in close proximity, unknown to eachother and with their dicks out is far less intimidating :lol: :lol: of course, the alternative would be to show from within the car, but then you'd miss the fun anyway.. :lol: parking door to door in the hope of a chat through the open window ain't really a great idea though :lol:
one small area to look at..currently you are pre-occupied with your feelings of insecurity and danger..ok..look at it from our perspective as a couple..we want to get out of the car for a play over the bonnet, a photo shoot or some fun in the open doorway of our vehicle..five cars are in, and four fellas hovering about..fine, except we are left wondering..the guy sat in the renmaining car, is he alone? is he into the game? is he filming us, taking details on a reporter's notepad maybe? maybe he is on a radio, or phone...you see where we are coming from? its kinda hard to be sexy whilst having to watch our backs..five guys in close proximity, unknown to eachother and with their dicks out is far less intimidating :lol: :lol: of course, the alternative would be to show from within the car, but then you'd miss the fun anyway.. :lol: parking door to door in the hope of a chat through the open window ain't really a great idea though :lol:
Sexpert
no its not just the dangerous aspect it quite a turn off having guys lerking about
and you not liking pre arranged meets thats fare enough but im not going on any more wild goose chases wonderingwho and who isnt doggers or sat in empty carpark i accept there no garantee of fun but at least i can narrow it down a bit if ive chatted to them on here breaks the ice a bit and then nature can take over and where they going to be roughly at what time thats not so bad is it?
and you not liking pre arranged meets thats fare enough but im not going on any more wild goose chases wonderingwho and who isnt doggers or sat in empty carpark i accept there no garantee of fun but at least i can narrow it down a bit if ive chatted to them on here breaks the ice a bit and then nature can take over and where they going to be roughly at what time thats not so bad is it?
rob rob :lol: i haven't got any issues regarding the way you play your game :lol: i'm not your keeper, and you must follow your heart on this one..if you feel that arranging to meet with a couple over the internet suits your needs better, then that is what you must do..of course, that route might sometimes appear less problematic than it actually is :lol:
to be fair mate, if you don't want to mix it with the fellas or get out of your vehicle, then i'm sure the boys would feel better for you not being there either
look, nobody really wants to apply labels to the game..kinda like punk rock in the late 70's where it was meant to be about freedom of expression, then everyone became sid vicious clones with peroxide spikey barnets..regimented anarchy :lol: but a dogger is a guy, or more rarely a girl :wink: that looks to "dogg" couples..that involves a lot of waiting around, getting to suss whats what..its a game that really suits only a small percentage..the rest get dissillusioned real quick..personally, if i want a fish, i go to the fishmongers..i couldn't be doing with all that sitting under umbrellas and hauling loads of gear over slippery grass at god knows what hour..dogging is the same..you either enjoy the whole deal, or else you'll be a very discontent dogger..like the other 85 percent or so :lol:
:lol: i haven't got any issues regarding the way you play your game :lol: i'm not your keeper, and you must follow your heart on this one..if you feel that arranging to meet with a couple over the internet suits your needs better, then that is what you must do..of course, that route might sometimes appear less problematic than it actually is :lol: to be fair mate, if you don't want to mix it with the fellas or get out of your vehicle, then i'm sure the boys would feel better for you not being there either
look, nobody really wants to apply labels to the game..kinda like punk rock in the late 70's where it was meant to be about freedom of expression, then everyone became sid vicious clones with peroxide spikey barnets..regimented anarchy :lol: but a dogger is a guy, or more rarely a girl :wink: that looks to "dogg" couples..that involves a lot of waiting around, getting to suss whats what..its a game that really suits only a small percentage..the rest get dissillusioned real quick..personally, if i want a fish, i go to the fishmongers..i couldn't be doing with all that sitting under umbrellas and hauling loads of gear over slippery grass at god knows what hour..dogging is the same..you either enjoy the whole deal, or else you'll be a very discontent dogger..like the other 85 percent or so :lol:
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Quote by rob-oxford
no its not just the dangerous aspect it quite a turn off having guys lerking about
and you not liking pre arranged meets thats fare enough but im not going on any more wild goose chases wonderingwho and who isnt doggers or sat in empty carpark i accept there no garantee of fun but at least i can narrow it down a bit if ive chatted to them on here breaks the ice a bit and then nature can take over and where they going to be roughly at what time thats not so bad is it?
It's not dogging, either, Rob! DoggingIS sitting in car parks for hours on end. It IS getting bored when no-one turns up. It ISthe thrill of wondering if the next car that comes in will be the one with the horny couple in. ItIS the case of meeting other guys in the same situation and talking with them about what Sites to use for the best results, less timewasting, etc. What you are wanting is outdoor sex, not the same thing.
It's like someone watching a football match. They don't know the end result, they don't know who will win, they don't know if anyone will score and they don't know if it will be a good game or not, but the enjoyment comes from the game itself, win or lose. You are just wanting the result and not the game.
Mal
hate it when that happens Quote by Mal
no its not just the dangerous aspect it quite a turn off having guys lerking about
and you not liking pre arranged meets thats fare enough but im not going on any more wild goose chases wonderingwho and who isnt doggers or sat in empty carpark i accept there no garantee of fun but at least i can narrow it down a bit if ive chatted to them on here breaks the ice a bit and then nature can take over and where they going to be roughly at what time thats not so bad is it?
It's not dogging, either, Rob! DoggingIS sitting in car parks for hours on end. It IS getting bored when no-one turns up. It ISthe thrill of wondering if the next car that comes in will be the one with the horny couple in. ItIS the case of meeting other guys in the same situation and talking with them about what Sites to use for the best results, less timewasting, etc. What you are wanting is outdoor sex, not the same thing.
It's like someone watching a football match. They don't know the end result, they don't know who will win, they don't know if anyone will score and they don't know if it will be a good game or not, but the enjoyment comes from the game itself, win or lose. You are just wanting the result and not the game.
Mal
Oooo Sir Mal
....and it is, er.... fog! :rascal:
Sexlightened
Superbly put Mal.
Was out last night Rob for 4 hours and saw nothing mate but had a good crack with a couple of lads in the car park. Just as we were leaving aroung midnight a couple came in and gave a little show. Not a complete waste of an evening and have some new contact numbers and some ideas for different places to try as well as having a show to round it off. If I worked the amount of hours I've put in in car parks I'd be a millionaire by now but I wouldn't have had half the fun!
Was out last night Rob for 4 hours and saw nothing mate but had a good crack with a couple of lads in the car park. Just as we were leaving aroung midnight a couple came in and gave a little show. Not a complete waste of an evening and have some new contact numbers and some ideas for different places to try as well as having a show to round it off. If I worked the amount of hours I've put in in car parks I'd be a millionaire by now but I wouldn't have had half the fun!
my mate "the master" copped a right result on saturday night too..deciding that the big venue might be a little too competitive, he opted for a dinky little carpark and prepared for a long night..just a couple of hours into his vigil, he saw the tell tale sign of headlights bouncing down the track..
turns out it was a couple..ooh err :shock: moments later, who should arrive, but another male female partnership :shock: even more ooh errr..quickly figuring it must have been an arranged meet, he waited for events to unfold..
upshot was, he was treated to a boning display by a bloke with the biggest knob he's seen in yonks and his fantastically gorgeous sidekick, whilst in the company of an equally appreciative duo of voyuers..all harmonious and mega sexy..i used to think he was lucky, as he attracts results like that frequently...but then i did the calculations, and figured that these guys that consider a dogging stake-out to be a fifteen minute session would have to dogg an average of 157 years to get the action he finds in an average month ok, he might be a tad over the top, but what a fucking dogger :shock: :lol:
oh, and as it was obviously arranged, if the participants happened to use this website, "the master" would like to express his appreciation for being tolerated so welcomingly and for being invited to give the lady a demonstration of his excitement :lol: and would like to extend his compliments to the young lady, who's form he will envisage with a tingle in the loins for months to come..
unfortunately, i was too pissed to join him, but had the tale recounted by text with great enthusiasm
turns out it was a couple..ooh err :shock: moments later, who should arrive, but another male female partnership :shock: even more ooh errr..quickly figuring it must have been an arranged meet, he waited for events to unfold..
upshot was, he was treated to a boning display by a bloke with the biggest knob he's seen in yonks and his fantastically gorgeous sidekick, whilst in the company of an equally appreciative duo of voyuers..all harmonious and mega sexy..i used to think he was lucky, as he attracts results like that frequently...but then i did the calculations, and figured that these guys that consider a dogging stake-out to be a fifteen minute session would have to dogg an average of 157 years to get the action he finds in an average month
ok, he might be a tad over the top, but what a fucking dogger :shock: :lol:oh, and as it was obviously arranged, if the participants happened to use this website, "the master" would like to express his appreciation for being tolerated so welcomingly and for being invited to give the lady a demonstration of his excitement
:lol: and would like to extend his compliments to the young lady, who's form he will envisage with a tingle in the loins for months to come..unfortunately, i was too pissed to join him, but had the tale recounted by text with great enthusiasm
Sexpert
yes i suppose waiting about to see who turns up is ok but not when the weather is bad excitement soon wears off end up falling asleep with the radio on lol i think maybe i should try other areas there are big well known dogging sites if im going to go on the off chanceagain .... and sample your way of doing it not that im knocking it just where i live its crap not much goes on i have nothing against the guys that lerk around i just wish there woudnt do it in the dark its the way they go about it..... i would be willing to chat to poeple but getting of of the car and having your bits hanging with other guys around out does nothing for me goodluck in your search for fun stay safe i wish you happy swinging summer
goodluck in your search for fun stay safe i wish you happy swinging summer 
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Quote by Bloke2005
having your bits hanging with other guys around out does nothing for me
:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:Rob
You really haven't got it, have you?? :grin:
Never mind, I'm sure you'll find something better to do at nights, but I bet it wont be dogging!!
Mal
Sexpert
well im glad you had a crack with the lads.............. and no maybe i havent got it but would i want it if it included doing that i dont mind just watching i dont expect anything
im just happy to be there in this weather but it would of been nice to went a step further
if possible this year
im just happy to be there in this weather but it would of been nice to went a step further
if possible this year
