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Poole Bournemouth Dogging on Friday?

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Hi all
new to this scene and want to join in a little (ie; watch only) wink - I know I'm asking alot but, is there anyone out tonight who would be prepared to share the watching experience with me? confused: I don't know what goes on where or how to start joining in (and don't fancy getting my collar felt at the better known sites around Poole...)
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pls someone PM me with a clue - be criptic if you like and add an extra dimension to the game biggrin
So, with the absence of any tips or sugestions I went off to the New Forest and picked a well known spot, lovely evening what with the big full moon and all and the clouds skudding past,
But no action/activity tonight where I was, except that is for a regular procession of cars driving in, some stopping and lights off for a minute or 5, then off again, only to reapear 5 minutes later to do the same again! confused It was pretty busy.
My night wasn't all that I had hoped for but was pretty chilled anyway cool - and I know that I would have been ridiculously fortunate to be in the right place at the right time on my first outing. But will I ever now if i'm going to the right places? :?:
i was probably one of those poppin in and out lol,
absolutely no shows in all areas, it is hit and miss like that im afraid, never mind stick at it time will prevail.
stick with it wink if there were cars "in and out" then take it as a sign the place IS used..trojan should be ashamed of himself lol ..its the driving "in and out" that prevents couples "showing" or "playing"..its hard to get down and dirty with the constant movement..we'll walk around trojan's bedroom when he's trying to perform :wink:
doggers (i use the term loosely) are too impatient..when there are one or two smaller sites in the catchment area, then it gets plain silly..usually a dogger will turn up, see now't..then assume its all kicking off up the road, so he'll go there instead..see now't, so assume its all crept into the origional venue in his absence...we see it all the time, and often the same guys will play the game of carpark ping-pong all night. rolleyes AND they'll miss most of the action as a result..usually when the doggers are onto something worthwhile, they'll leg it back to their vehicles at the first hint of approaching headlights..often the female will duck below the dash to avoid being "caught" in the arcing headlight beam as it sweeps off their wing :wink: most of the time, the circuit rascals are oblivious to whats really going on in a particular carpark..if they sat still for a moment, the action would resume..but then there is always another set of headlights coming down towards them..do the couples know they are doggers? no, of course not..and if they are stark bollock naked, it takes more time for them to make themselves "decent" than it takes for a dogger to pull his fucking flies up :lol: i've had so many of mrs dirty's dildos and vibrators flying around the cockpit in her panic to re-assemble herself, i thought i was in a warzone..only for it to be a van with an AMBER light on top :lol: not blue..but that kinda mayhem happens.
a proper dogging stake-out is measured in hours, not minutes..and we've seen couples in and out in less than ten minutes..shows are sometimes short but very sweet, and most doggers "cum" like rockets.. :lol:
my best advise..enter..park.....take a drink and a bite to eat..then wait..between 9pm and 2am wouldn't be unreasonable if you are pressed for time :lol:
Quote by trojanf1
i was probably one of those poppin in and out lol,
absolutely no shows in all areas, it is hit and miss like that im afraid, never mind stick at it time will prevail.

no shows in all area's? are you sure? just must of been the lucy few then lol
thanks guys smile - I must be on the right track now then, yes there was 'activity' albeit lots of ins and outs (the driving kind!) so yes I guess you're right re the location, and yes, I thought that staying put and settling back with the radio and a pkt of nicknacks (such simple pleasures I have) was the best plan, but you know? I still have the nagging feeling that pitching up at any site listed within this site (or others) is asking for a; dissapointment, and/or b; trouble ! and yet this seems like a means to an end - ie; get known, get trusted, get to chat to others, get to know where to be, get involved... or am I making this more complicated than it actually is?? confused
happy hunting
Just re read that - one sentance! my English teacher would be proud of me :!:
Quote by outlaws2001
i was probably one of those poppin in and out lol,
absolutely no shows in all areas, it is hit and miss like that im afraid, never mind stick at it time will prevail.

no shows in all area's? are you sure? just must of been the lucy few then lol
lmao, u lucky bugger if you saw action, or has events moved to new locations? seems that usual parties are not out any longer, or like mentioned has venues move?? if so stop keeping them to yourselves :lol:
anyway good luck to all who have a show!
I think your find it's plural
"Buggers with style" a phrase from plunkett and maclean (film) lol
morning phil..our busy carparks attract action..guys are constantly "in the circuit" too..often the couples at our busy sites are regulars..they aren't shy..guys driving around, queues, boy racer attention and police, although undesireable, are considered par for the course and to a greater degree, ignored..we have seen three couples caught in the police spotlight whilst entertaining..they were "spoken" to, but not arrested lol one such site runs along a busy road, cars entering can be onto you in seconds, yet it doesn't detter some 'd not believe how blatant some are :shock:
newbies make these carparks their first port of call..you are such an example..old hands dogg such places too..but the old hands will have many more locations in their dogging armoury..the old hands visit such places, because, as with yourself, newbie couples will make for them also..they are the obvious starting point..however, get the timing wrong, and the newbie couple will drive into a wall of doggers..we've seen groups of twelve standing, talking and joking amongst themselves..peering into the window of every passing vehicle without even breaking mid harder for them now..two heads seen through the rear window against the light used to mean a couple..now its often two an easy mistake..huggy bear headrests used to be the object of confusion :lol: ...the "strong" couples don't bat an eyelid..such assemblies are often convenient :lol: a bundle of cock is easier to grasp than a carpark full of isolated appendages :lol: ..newbie couples leave..usually..the guys, thinking they've moved "up the road" follow..i've seen fifteen cars leave in persuit..three old hands and twelve newbies thinking something's kicking off :lol: :lol: ..its pretty harmless, but the newbie couples won't be seeing it like that..they'll think they were "chased away" :lol:
another aspect is this..most "strong" couples are players..and trust me, some of these girls can single handedly clear a carpark..at one of the tables the lads have a fire extinquisher on hand in case of a "fanny flare-up" :lol:
you might think to yourself, "well, if its that extreme, and many of those couples are regulars, why do the old hands bother with it"?..okay..the old hand dogger is a craftsman..thats why he's been in the game so long..enduring doggers are often successfull doggers, no such thing as an experiences loser in this game..the average lifespan of a newbie would- be dogger's shafting career is three short visits followed by a "dogging dead" thread on the internet boards....the old hand will have registered details of the car and the couple..some such couples give up their ambitions there and then..some are more enduring..we ourselves often bump into "showcouples" that having vowed never to revisit what they see as the dogging circus, now use the smaller, unadvertised and infrequently dogged carparks..the veteran, or thinking dogger will keep his options open..he'll maximise his potential..when most of the newbies have assumed the fleeing couple has been lost to the night, the old hands will not surrender so easilly..the couple came out to shag in the car..for an audience..he'll have a mental map of the local "hotspots" places where such a couple might pause..places where couples might "show" given an audience of one, or two wink ..watch them..you'll learn from it :lol:..sometimes the doggers will be too busy talking about "the good old days" they'll not even notice the couple enter and leave..watch the "craftsman" creep away..drive out too fast and he'll alert the carpark..he might follow the couple at a distance, for a while..but he'll know where the couple might stop before they do..he'll go the short route and will sometimes be there waiting before they even arrive :lol: :lol:
we ourselves ventured out last night..we were to visit the busy site, we like the vibe..events prevailed, and our plans were scuppered..by the time we could venture forth, it was getting very late..instead, we opted for a very quiet carpark closer to there we sat..for two hours, only one car entered, and left..then the police..instead of a "dogging couple", they saw a courting couple..smirked, and left..then another set of headlights..a dogger..he knew our vehicle from the bigger site, and spoke..he'd been to the big site too..sat it out for a couple of hours, and came away..several couples about, but he'd read the vibe..experience :wink, the potential there was good,but not immediately so:, he'd return later..but meanwhile, he was touring the "niches"...we've had some of our very best and most erotic encounters that way..and hand on heart, have seen our most memorable shows that way too :wink: .
you will see more at the bigger sites..thats for sure..what you see at the bigger sites when the crowds have subsided, or indeed in the "lover's lanes" will be different..it'll be more subtle and there will be less chance of interaction..thats not to be read as "no chance".just less chance..we are saddened when the big sites get closed..they act as a safety valve :lol: :lol: they are fun, and we still use them..you'll see some eye-popping stuff...(remind me to tell you the story of the guy with marigold gloves one day) :lol: :lol: .keep the options open..do some groundwork and before long, the "action" that escapes you will become less and less :lol: .there would have been stuff going on last night..right under the noses of the newbies..and they still wouldn't have seen it :wink:
just to say this.."the master", a close dogging buddy of mine..has been a couple's "first sexual encounter" many many times..is that likely to happen in a carpark of 50, half of which are driving in ever decreasing circles, some driving straight at the couple several times just to be sure its a couple and not two guys..pushing eachother away so as to "get in first" (i actually saw a fight between two guys over who was going first..and this was before either of them had spoken to the couple to acertain wether involvement was on their agenda) :shock: and four carloads of kids in the far corner shouting abuse?...................i think not :wink: the big carparks, at peak times are but a highly visible tip of the erotic iceberg. :wink:..the "shows" we remember best, aren't the one's where 15 fellas are clinging to "her" door in case it opens..nor are they the one's where you can't "hear" the sex for dogger's shouting amongst themselves "does she fuck" :wink: ..and if the couple want one guy to have sex with the female whilst the partner does some video, well that ain't ever gonna happen in a carpark that resembles a scene from "mad max 11" :lol:
thing is phil..you don't really need me to tell you this..you know already, deep down :wink: you just want us to confirm your feelings :lol: so maybe we did that? you'll be fine, i'm sure of it :wink:
Quote by Phil_dorset
staying put and settling back with the radio and a pkt of nicknacks

MP3 player is much better, your car battery wont go flat, you don't find you in a radio blackspot and you wont get stuck with crap on all the stations.
I had mine on last night but batteries went dead so I went home after 45 minutes (but did manage to get a woman to shout fuck off at me and just miss seeing her peeing lol )
Regards
Harry Jones
Quote by HarryJones
(but did manage to get a woman to shout fuck off at me and just miss seeing her peeing lol )
Regards
Harry Jones

at least she spoke to you harry, its more than most would have got last night wink "peeing"? redface :lol: ..i was going to delete my reply to phil as it was a little "long" :lol: and i didn't like it..now you've replied, i can't rolleyes :lol: :lol: .if i had a window, i'd shout "fuck off" at you too :lol: :lol:
glad we didn't get you down to the smaller carpark last night harry..it was oh so very quiet..but it was magical..absolutely beautifull..the owls were really close..you could not only hear the geese calling overhead, but you could actually see them against the moonlit sky..i've been trying to upload a panoramic photograph, but its not having any of it :cry:
Well my Friday evening started with a BJ over looking the sea from a lovely blodie laby called ?, while her other half watched.
Then I drove a greener spot near the town centre and waited for about 1/2 hr before a courting couple came in. Then where unaware that i was in the car, so when i get out and wandered over to there car he was pounding into her good and proper. He was a over a bit quick and off then went.
To finish the night i popped over to a wooded area in the poole area, where after about 3/4hr wait, i managed to get couple he wanted to play, Nice fuck was had by all.
saw the police 3 times patrolling
Thanks Uncle, keep trying with that photo, sounds magical.
Good work Wayne, sounds like you had more last night than I have had in the last year (I've not been out much but am far richer than I was this time last year biggrin )
Regards
Harry Jones
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Well my Friday evening started with a BJ over looking the sea from a lovely blodie laby called ?, while her other half watched.
Then I drove a greener spot near the town centre and waited for about 1/2 hr before a courting couple came in. Then where unaware that i was in the car, so when i get out and wandered over to there car he was pounding into her good and proper. He was a over a bit quick and off then went.
To finish the night i popped over to a wooded area in the poole area, where after about 3/4hr wait, i managed to get couple he wanted to play, Nice fuck was had by all.
saw the police 3 times patrolling

fucking hell wayne mate, right result..the dogger's full set, show, blow and backscuttle..tripple whammy..what a dogger, but what a greedy fucker lol :lol: :lol: seriously though, well done..and all without advertising..a true tradesman....bet the ole PM box will be full to brimming with pleas for times and locations? usually the downside of broadcasting a successfull expervdition rolleyes
tell you what, your profile is well thought out too..nice one...the couples should look out for this lad, he's got style wink
Quote by wayne_z12
Well my Friday evening started with a BJ over looking the sea from a lovely blodie laby called ?, while her other half watched.
Then I drove a greener spot near the town centre and waited for about 1/2 hr before a courting couple came in. Then where unaware that i was in the car, so when i get out and wandered over to there car he was pounding into her good and proper. He was a over a bit quick and off then went.
To finish the night i popped over to a wooded area in the poole area, where after about 3/4hr wait, i managed to get couple he wanted to play, Nice fuck was had by all.
saw the police 3 times patrolling

Git wink smile
Well it is interesting reading peoples posts
I am live in Dorset and Surrey so divide my time between the two locations and get out when my work allows me.
I must say i have become disillusioned with teh scene at this time, not due to teh genuine doggers but the people that turn up drive round lights on full blast and then disappear, a classic example of this happens most friday and saturday nights in a spot in surrey. I arrivel and set up for a wait, and a couple will enter the car park and park up, after about 10minutes of watching cars driving round and round with there lights on full beam in to there car there drive off only to be followed by a stream of cars and the game of follow my leader beginnings, whilst i am remain in my spot. The couple get worried about this and are never seen again, they may be a straight couple not interested in dogging, or first timers what sort of message is this sending out to first timers. The other example is when you approach a couple and start talking about things in general when all of a sudden you are inundated with males coming at you from all angles yet again this scares of the couple and away there go, if you luck enough to arrange a meet further down teh road you spend 30 mins trying to loss the blokes that have not bothered to chat and are just following on.
With that said there are a large amount of genuine people out there who respect couples and there wishes and desires, i am glad to say i am one of those, for all of you people that driev round with lights on, playing follow my leader please STOP, think for a minute how would you feel, if it was your first time, you will get to see something if you stop and wait.
In regards to locations a number have been burnt out by boy racers up in teh surrey area, or as there become more well known, teh follow my leader group arrival and scare the coupels off. The best time to go locations is during off peak times in teh week you may get a surprise, as there are couples out and about and most of teh follow my leader group are at home.
I be out this saturday eveningno doubt watching the parade of high beam headlights, for everyone esle out have fun and be safe.
hi we were down the well known dogging location last sat evening had a great night infact it was that good we are going again tomorrow night with another bifem cple so it will be even better love jane xx
ps/Hi Harry and air xxxx