I read some posts on here ( it is a minority i do stress, and now understand why dogging has died off, Pushy Pushy Pushy... whether it's meant in jest or otherwise, it summarises what i saw at a nice quiet spot last week. Parked up on my own, car pull sin, parks a reasonable disatnce away and starts putting on a show.
within 2 mins, 3 cars turn up. to make it clear, i do not expect to keep this show to myself but for christ sake fellas, show some common sense. 2 cars park in the gap, so close to my car and the couples car that they needed to be contortinists to get out then number three parks facing with full beam on.
No suprise that they drove off!.
I said to the gathered collection of morons " well done lads" i don't know how you do it! and they still didnt get it.
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I read some posts on here ( it is a minority i do stress, and now understand why dogging has died off, Pushy Pushy Pushy... whether it's meant in jest or otherwise, it summarises what i saw at a nice quiet spot last week. Parked up on my own, car pull sin, parks a reasonable disatnce away and starts putting on a show.
within 2 mins, 3 cars turn up. to make it clear, i do not expect to keep this show to myself but for christ sake fellas, show some common sense. 2 cars park in the gap, so close to my car and the couples car that they needed to be contortinists to get out then number three parks facing with full beam on.
No suprise that they drove off!.
I said to the gathered collection of morons " well done lads" i don't know how you do it! and they still didnt get it.
That kind of behaviour occurs all the time now and is the main reason we have stopped going out.
I know and its quite sad. Another thing i find annoying is that when the couple drive off to a different location to get away from the idiots, there will be three or four cars following them. Why do they do it!! All they achieve is just to piss everyone else off and ruin what could have been a good evening.
Sex God
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I know and its quite sad. Another thing i find annoying is that when the couple drive off to a different location to get away from the idiots, there will be three or four cars following them. Why do they do it!! All they achieve is just to piss everyone else off and ruin what could have been a good evening.
Unfortunately, it is not just the singles who can behave like this, on friday we had a couple park so close they nearly took the wing mirror off, when we drove off they decided to follow and just would not take the hint.
As for pushy doggers, unfortunately, it has become the norm in a lot of dogging spots and it does not seem to be getting any better. There are still loads of decent doggers and couples out there, but unfortunately it is the pushy ones who leave their mark and often ruin a show for the others.
But not a lot we can do, so you either learn to live with the plonkers or you give up
Sex God
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Out of curiosity, is it the same when dogging during the day or is it predominantly a night thing? Not having done any daytime dogging i can't compare.
Never done daytime dogging so cant really comment on it (our photos outside were actually taken at 10pm at night, it just looks daylight and it is in a private location, not a dogging spot).
I would be too worried to go out during the day incase someone who was not into dogging, accidentily stumbled upon us, or worse still, children may be around.
Warming the Bed
...exactly the same with the idiots at the Dike in Brighton - now the whole scene has collasped in the area
Thanks for the comments folks, not sure who to blame, the doggers, the press from when they were all over it with Collymore.
Having been on both sides of the fence as a single male and a couple, it certainly went downhill after the Collymore incident. As a single male i used to go to that whole area regularly and it was a nice social scene. If a couple or three turned up then great they would be respectfully treated. If not we had a good laugh.
At least it not just me that thinks this way now. I/we will stick to clubs for the forseeable future.
Keep up the good works anyway
Having been on both sides of the fence as a single male and a couple, it certainly went downhill after the Collymore incident. As a single male i used to go to that whole area regularly and it was a nice social scene. If a couple or three turned up then great they would be respectfully treated. If not we had a good laugh.
At least it not just me that thinks this way now. I/we will stick to clubs for the forseeable future.
Keep up the good works anyway
Sex God
We didn't go dogging prior to the Collymore incident/publicity so cant comment on the impact of that, but we have recently (last 2 years) that the number of single doggers out there has increased, but at the same time, the number of couples seems to have decreased. Also the crack down by police and local authorities seems to have impacted on the number of places available, with more and more dogging locations being locked up at dusk. Boy racers seem to have an increased interest is causing as much bother as they can in the car parks which are used by doggers, and this limits the places people go to. The result, more doggers in a lower number of car parks, trying to watch a decreasing number of couples.
I am not trying to defend the pushy guys but perhaps it is just a case that the 'competition' has increased and the first one at the car is more likely to get a show (or whatever else is on offer).
No defence I know, but it could be an explanation.
I am not trying to defend the pushy guys but perhaps it is just a case that the 'competition' has increased and the first one at the car is more likely to get a show (or whatever else is on offer).
No defence I know, but it could be an explanation.
Sex God
OMG, we are just finding our dogging feet....... Not sure we should bother :sad:
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We didn't go dogging prior to the Collymore incident/publicity so cant comment on the impact of that, but we have recently (last 2 years) that the number of single doggers out there has increased, but at the same time, the number of couples seems to have decreased. Also the crack down by police and local authorities seems to have impacted on the number of places available, with more and more dogging locations being locked up at dusk. Boy racers seem to have an increased interest is causing as much bother as they can in the car parks which are used by doggers, and this limits the places people go to. The result, more doggers in a lower number of car parks, trying to watch a decreasing number of couples.
I am not trying to defend the pushy guys but perhaps it is just a case that the 'competition' has increased and the first one at the car is more likely to get a show (or whatever else is on offer).
No defence I know, but it could be an explanation.
Do you find that going to some of the better know sites, but later on, is a good way of keeping thr numbers lower? We have been to a very well known site, late on, when the weather was shit and there were only two guys there, quite respectful too. Any ideas guys?
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OMG, we are just finding our dogging feet....... Not sure we should bother :sad:
It's not all doom and gloom Blue.
Sex God
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OMG, we are just finding our dogging feet....... Not sure we should bother :sad:
It's not all doom and gloom Blue.
Very true, if it was that bad, we wouldnt go out. I think the bad side of dogging, along with the bad side of most things are what people often talk about. Dont give up on it Bluefish, give it a go and see if it is your thing. I know we have had some fantastic nights out dogging and have more good ones than bad.
Mattsuzie, I had not really thought about it until you mentioned it but I think you have a really good point here. We dont like going to the very busy places (because they are too busy) but we have been to one local to us in the early hours of the morning and have never had problems with kids. Also, due ot being middle of the night, there was only a small amount of others around (possibly because the single doggers had gone home to their wives)
The problem with this is that Im a lazy sod and I like my bed too much to be waiting round to the small hours of the morning 
im 100% none pushy only go bolton spots but this really get my back i get there everyone is parked next to the couple or right across from them as soon as thay get in the car i always park me van a good distance away the next groupe of parking just view from there then if i fancy having a closser look i'll walk over to the is the bit that annoys i fancy just sitting in me van looking from a distance chillaxing i start to get gay and bi men CREEPING up to i have nothing against gay or bi men (dont get me wrong)but im just chilling on my own i dont really need blokes creeping up on me especially when there is a gay cruzing layby only a matter of half a mile away.
im not moaning im just curious if it only happens to me?
thanx for finding the time to read this.
im not moaning im just curious if it only happens to me?
thanx for finding the time to read this.
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im 100% none pushy only go bolton spots but this really get my back i get there everyone is parked next to the couple or right across from them as soon as thay get in the car i always park me van a good distance away the next groupe of parking just view from there then if i fancy having a closser look i'll walk over to the is the bit that annoys i fancy just sitting in me van looking from a distance chillaxing i start to get gay and bi men CREEPING up to i have nothing against gay or bi men (dont get me wrong)but im just chilling on my own i dont really need blokes creeping up on me especially when there is a gay cruzing layby only a matter of half a mile away.
im not moaning im just curious if it only happens to me?
thanx for finding the time to read this.
In reply to the bit in bold, no it isnt just you this happens to, it happens to virtually every couple who go into a dogging car park, only it isnt just gay or bi doggers who do this, the straight (cough, depends of anyone is around) doggers do it as well
:lol: We love the Bolton spots too but as we previously stated, very late on and midweek, never weekends. This way you ensure that there are very few guys there and no boy racers.
At our level of experience about two cars is comfortable for us - any more than that and it's a bit off-putting.
We have turned up a a Bolton Spot once to see some sort of 'conference' going on! Seems like all the guys there thought that there weren't any couples going to turn up so they all got out of the cars for a chin-wag! Now that too was off-putting and a little bit comical.
The way we like to work is that if there is one, max two, cars there we'll park up in line with the vehicles facing the same direction. Matt will then put the headlights on main dipped beam and Suzie will get out of the car. She be wearing a coat and high heels but she'll be naked underneath. She will then walk to the front of the car and then into the actual car park a bit more so she can be seen by the occupants of the adjacent cars. She will then turn with her back to all the vehicles, drop her coat and bend over showing off her ample, shapely backside and shaven protruding pussy lips. She will then walk back to the car.
Now this kind of fun relies on the guys working out that it's best to take things slowly and, for a little bit of time at least, remain the their cars - however, there are those that have come bounding straight over to the car, some even had video cameras with night vision scopes! Needless to say, we just leave at that point!
However, what we'd like to move on to is Suzie then getting out of the car again and putting more of a display on. Then, slowly the guys will approach and then, with Matt's invitation, touch her and caress her ass, boobs and pussy.
Ultimately, we'd like Matt to be able to lead her out of the car on a leash attached to a collar with her blindfolded. She she'd go to her knees and suck cock. Those selected could then also fuck her.
All this requires guys that are switched on to the scene and realise that couples have to be comfortable and moce along at their own pace.
Well, here's wishing.
At our level of experience about two cars is comfortable for us - any more than that and it's a bit off-putting.
We have turned up a a Bolton Spot once to see some sort of 'conference' going on! Seems like all the guys there thought that there weren't any couples going to turn up so they all got out of the cars for a chin-wag! Now that too was off-putting and a little bit comical.
The way we like to work is that if there is one, max two, cars there we'll park up in line with the vehicles facing the same direction. Matt will then put the headlights on main dipped beam and Suzie will get out of the car. She be wearing a coat and high heels but she'll be naked underneath. She will then walk to the front of the car and then into the actual car park a bit more so she can be seen by the occupants of the adjacent cars. She will then turn with her back to all the vehicles, drop her coat and bend over showing off her ample, shapely backside and shaven protruding pussy lips. She will then walk back to the car.
Now this kind of fun relies on the guys working out that it's best to take things slowly and, for a little bit of time at least, remain the their cars - however, there are those that have come bounding straight over to the car, some even had video cameras with night vision scopes! Needless to say, we just leave at that point!
However, what we'd like to move on to is Suzie then getting out of the car again and putting more of a display on. Then, slowly the guys will approach and then, with Matt's invitation, touch her and caress her ass, boobs and pussy.
Ultimately, we'd like Matt to be able to lead her out of the car on a leash attached to a collar with her blindfolded. She she'd go to her knees and suck cock. Those selected could then also fuck her.
All this requires guys that are switched on to the scene and realise that couples have to be comfortable and moce along at their own pace.
Well, here's wishing.
In reply to the bit in bold, no it isnt just you this happens to, it happens to virtually every couple who go into a dogging car park, only it isnt just gay or bi doggers who do this, the straight (cough, depends of anyone is around) doggers do it as well :lol:
well i might just be a big softy then cos thay sometimes scare the shit out of
:lol:well i might just be a big softy then cos thay sometimes scare the shit out of
Sex God
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All this requires guys that are switched on to the scene and realise that couples have to be comfortable and moce along at their own pace.
Well, here's wishing.
Very true and it is getting the message across which I have the problem with. A few times when we have been surrounded as soon as we park up, I have opened the door and asked them to leave us alone for a while and we will let them know if we want them to come over, but that just results in a group of ever increasing doggers waiting behind the car. We have also tried the ignoring tactic, but again they seem to hover or bang on the window and ask if anything is going on. It is hard for the couples trying to get across what they want from the doggers, but it must be even harder for the dogers to work out what the couples want from them.
Have to say Mattsuzie, your show sounds amazing and I do hope you get some really nice, patient doggers to come along and watch but after seeing the photos of Suzie, I can well understand (rightly or wrongly) why they rush over when she gets out the car
Good luck to you both and if we ever do manage to get out mid week, promise not to spoil your show :wink: Quote by twlight
well i might just be a big softy then cos thay sometimes scare the shit out of
And me
Have to say that it takes some guts on behalf of the doggers to walk over to any car, especially if it is a new one in the car park. They have no idea who is in there or what will be waiting for the, so although it scares the life out of me when they do it, it must be very scarey for the ones doing it :wink: I didn't mean to start a negative thread. It's still a great thing and teh good times are amazing for al concerned.
Twilight i'm with you on this one mate it happens to me and scares me to death but a number of sites have the gay community as a problem. I am a believer in whatever floats your boat but i know of at least two sites near me that have been ruined because the gay community are there in broad daylight and full view. I take my young family cycling through local woodland and i have had to go on ahead and clear them out! ( i am not exagerating !)
Why not wait until dark!.
Also agree with the pushy side of it, i have been both as a single male and as a couple ( same with the clubs now, we only go on couples nights now), quite a few singles seem to think they have a right to a s**g.
It will get better so keep on smiling!
Twilight i'm with you on this one mate it happens to me and scares me to death but a number of sites have the gay community as a problem. I am a believer in whatever floats your boat but i know of at least two sites near me that have been ruined because the gay community are there in broad daylight and full view. I take my young family cycling through local woodland and i have had to go on ahead and clear them out! ( i am not exagerating !)
Why not wait until dark!.
Also agree with the pushy side of it, i have been both as a single male and as a couple ( same with the clubs now, we only go on couples nights now), quite a few singles seem to think they have a right to a s**g.
It will get better so keep on smiling!
Hmm
The last few weeks I have great fun at most locations near me..
Especially last thursday when a very very sexy botty popped out the passenger window for me to perform oral on her gorgeous pussy.
Nearly mushed up when a guy turned up but lucky he knew how to behave and left us to it until I had finished. WOW, what a lady, left there and 10 mins later at another location nearby, car pulled in.. Interior light on and another very sexy lady on all fours with no knickers and a mini dress.. on the back seat..
Finished off twice at this stop and decided to head home as I always think best to leave while the goin is good and dropped into another location only to find yet another couple waiting got fun... On went the interior and down with the windoe to a very nice sucky sucky..
If any of you guys are reading this, thanks for a fantastic evening and would love for you to get in touch if you want a re-run
It just dont get any better!!!
The last few weeks I have great fun at most locations near me..
Especially last thursday when a very very sexy botty popped out the passenger window for me to perform oral on her gorgeous pussy.
Nearly mushed up when a guy turned up but lucky he knew how to behave and left us to it until I had finished. WOW, what a lady, left there and 10 mins later at another location nearby, car pulled in.. Interior light on and another very sexy lady on all fours with no knickers and a mini dress.. on the back seat..
Finished off twice at this stop and decided to head home as I always think best to leave while the goin is good and dropped into another location only to find yet another couple waiting got fun... On went the interior and down with the windoe to a very nice sucky sucky..
If any of you guys are reading this, thanks for a fantastic evening and would love for you to get in touch if you want a re-run
It just dont get any better!!!
Hi All, I have experienced it too , but not so much with bo racers than old single guys!!
we went to the newforest on Sunday ( myself and my f/b) hoping to have a relaxed chilled out evening of fun , only to find that after parking in a known place , a couple of cars drove in , both with older guys driving , they drove round having a good look (not that we were doing anything then and could of even been out for purely innocent reasons!)
When we decided we didnt like the look of them and drove off , we were very obviously followed to the next car park we went to , this happened 4 or 5 times in a row with the same cars .
you would of thought that after the second time even the most thick skinned bloke would get the hint. We eventually mannaged to loose them all and ended up in a nice quiet spot and had a very nice time , but if they haddnt been so pushy they may well of got a decent show.
Ive been on both sides of the fence , and have always been respectfull and polite.
Come on guys out there , if the couple wants to play they WILL let you know . It is getting sooo fraustrating
we went to the newforest on Sunday ( myself and my f/b) hoping to have a relaxed chilled out evening of fun , only to find that after parking in a known place , a couple of cars drove in , both with older guys driving , they drove round having a good look (not that we were doing anything then and could of even been out for purely innocent reasons!)
When we decided we didnt like the look of them and drove off , we were very obviously followed to the next car park we went to , this happened 4 or 5 times in a row with the same cars .
you would of thought that after the second time even the most thick skinned bloke would get the hint. We eventually mannaged to loose them all and ended up in a nice quiet spot and had a very nice time , but if they haddnt been so pushy they may well of got a decent show.
Ive been on both sides of the fence , and have always been respectfull and polite.
Come on guys out there , if the couple wants to play they WILL let you know . It is getting sooo fraustrating
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Hi NW, Hmm is the right word, do these evenings really exist?. I hope they do, but experiences both personal and feedback on the forum would suggest that they are few and far between.
Knowing how naughty and very cheeky (in a nice, sexy, naughty way) that NWFunmale can be, yes it probably happens to him all the time
We have been lucky enough to bump into him a few times and he is one of the old school, non-pushy doggers. Right cheeky little sod though :lol: :lol: Dogging isn't dead and unfortunately, as with most things, it is the negatives aspects which get discussed, but you cant let it put you off. Very few really bad incidents do happen, and most of the time the negatives are more frustration that someone has not behaved how you/me want them to behave. But as far as I am aware, most doggers are not mind readers and the only way the find out what you want or what is going on is to walk up on the car. I don't care what anyone says, it must take one hell of a lot of guts to walk up to a car in the pitch black
he he i agree with wigan doggin is still masive in our brough(northwest)you just need to go the right do not i repeat DO NOT be impatient sit back chill relax open a bud if need be and enjoy the show and only approach if them few simple rules and you will be fine.
drive on to carpark drive off carpark sixteen billion times you wont be pushy and impatient well im sorry go find a new hobby because dogging isent for might as well stay at home with the fire on a can of strongbow 20 fags and youporn on ya laptop.
and if you are one of them strange blokes in the northwest leve the man in the van he dont wanna
drive on to carpark drive off carpark sixteen billion times you wont be pushy and impatient well im sorry go find a new hobby because dogging isent for might as well stay at home with the fire on a can of strongbow 20 fags and youporn on ya laptop.
and if you are one of them strange blokes in the northwest leve the man in the van he dont wanna
