Question ...

16 Jan 2004

Was just wondering if dogging went on during the day at all? Also do people expect to join in or is it more of a spectator thing?
Totally new to this but I was out today, and, well am rather curious about it. Being fairly shy tho, would just curl up with embarrassment if approached before I was ready. Once brought up to the 'ready' point tho, the whole thing is a huge turn on smile

Saying that tho, I am presuming it is more a voyeur thing. Grrrr evil

its taking me ages to write this lol, I can't seem to explain what I mean!
What is traditional dogging? and does it still happen in the not so well known sites?
sorry about this - I have read some stuff on it, but a tad confused as to whether it's a voyeur or participation thing?

16 Jan 2004

there are rules that should be should not expect to join in,some locations are good,some are full of dickheads who drive round and will sit with there headlights on those will only learn by experience you do not say if you are male or can email me for any info you

16 Jan 2004

Thanks for that Rjay ...... so if they shouldn't expect to join in - do they mainly expect it?
Also, how do you know its not the police pulling up in the carpark .... have had that happen to me lol, which kinda makes me wary redface

17 Jan 2004

have only ever seen the police arrive in marked cars,and unfortunatly some do expect to join in as a divine to talk to people on here and you should meet the right ones,learn who knows who and what cars and couples to expect,if a single lady lock your doors and dont open windows unless you invite participation.

17 Jan 2004

Ereryone should keep their doors locked, not just single women.
I always have mine locked, and when I'm out of the car I leave it unlocked for a quick getaway !! (JiC)

17 Jan 2004

Spot on (again) Jomu. Whilst dogging EVERYONE should keep their doors locked, even if you think you are just going to watch. Only open your door or window if you are SURE you want participation from the person/people who have approached.
Misschief, I haven't much more to add to the advice already on here, except be careful about dogging in the day for legal reasons. Many spots are indeed used in the day, but some aren't because they are just too public (full of dog (realdogs!) walkers etc) until after dark. Having sex in public is only illegal if someone complains, which I guess is more likely in the day (but don't quote me on that), so be careful where you go!
Good luck!

17 Jan 2004

I have had problems with the police in unmarkd cars in the past, but i was not dogging at the time, only taking the hounds for a walk while dressed up.
One of these guys therted to run me in because my dogs took a dislike to them.
TS

17 Jan 2004

Just goes to show that some dogs do have brains.
I just say to them that they look really nice in uniform.
I asked one law-woman if she'd ever thought of being a dominatrix, said she'd look nice in leather. No sense of humour though.

17 Jan 2004

Thank you for the advice .... hope it is only illegal when someone complains, the scramble for clothes is just so awful lol
I wouldn't want participation just yet, but dont the widows get rather steamed up if shut, thus defeating the object of being watched?
Thanks again for the advice - Jomu, you're a gem, I owe you a drink for the PM advice too biggrin

Oh and cute new avatar Blue, very sweet disguise for the real minx lol

17 Jan 2004

This is the latest Sexual Offences Act if you want to check out what you REALLY can and can't do by law:
Yes, windows do get steamy - take a cloth to wipe them, or just use your sleeve wink

That avatar is cool, isn't it - a kind gift from Fred Flintstone 8)

17 Jan 2004

Blue, from what I can see you're right!
I can't find any place illegal other than a lavetory! Excellent boink

17 Jan 2004

Quote by bluexxx
This is the latest Sexual Offences Act if you want to check out what you REALLY can and can't do by law:

This is the basic jist of the law, however, having spoken to a member on this site who is a police officer (name remains secret for obvious reasons!!), you can be prosecuted under the law if you are seen to commit an act 'which a person or persons on viewing you in the act, may consider to be offensive or upsetting'.
This complaint can be made by the police officer himself if he claims to have been upset by what he has seen, even if there is no other complaint from a member of the general public.
So be aware of any cars pulling into the park. If they have a blue light on top - get dressed quick lol

Jess & Dan

17 Jan 2004

Quote by Cutechick
So be aware of any cars pulling into the park. If they have a blue light on top - get dressed quick
Jess & Dan

What, like we did several weeks ago - arranged meet in the back seat of car with me - Jon outside watching.
Saw the blue light coming into park - Jon shot off and hid in the bushes whilst our friend and I played it cool when the coppers checked our number plates and details etc.
When asked why we were there, told him we were lovers - 'Oh you won't tell my husband will you? fluttering eyelashes redface

while still trying to get dressed :shock:
Young PC was very scathing of such behaviour (if only he knew!!! :shock: ). Older guy couldn't have cared less - prob seen it a million times before wink

T-J & Jon

17 Jan 2004

Good point, Cutechick - if they can't do you for a sexual offence (and they usually can't), they'll do you for a public order offence instead :shock: , so make sure you don't outrage those nice PCs with your indecent conduct - getting dressed quick is about all you can do, but we all like a bit of danger now and again, don't we wink

:wink: :wink:

17 Jan 2004

Ok seems I have a starting point .... learn the art of speed dressing before venturing anywhere lol.
Trying to round up a pair of boobs that dont want to be squeezed in a bra is bad enough but doing it in a panic is near on impossible. Bit of practice required there.
Then on to step 2 ......

18 Jan 2004

Most seem to get-by with putting the least amount on to guarantee legality.
In my case, a pair of underpants (or knickers, if they come to hand first)
A BIG sweat shirt would do for you !

18 Jan 2004

Brilliant idea, so simple yet effective rolleyes

Ok, now prepared for police intrusion :thrilled:
On to step 2 .........
Thank you so much xxx

18 Jan 2004

SO, what's step 2 - or shouldn't I ask? :twisted:

18 Jan 2004

Blue - after seeing you posting in the warnings, I thing Step 2 is go and learn kick boxing or karate!
Hope you're other half is OK!
Alex x x

18 Jan 2004

If you want self-defense, Ju Jitsu is the martial art to go for - ooooohhhhh, I've still got the scars wink

18 Jan 2004

Step 2 .... not sure yet lol, thought I was gonna be stuck on step 1 for a few more weeks/months than that!
Actually, you're right Alexandra - Step 2 could be find martial arts/kick boxing expert for dogging partner - anyone spare in your posse Blue :mrgreen:

18 Jan 2004

You'd be safe with me, I can kick ass (and beer glasses wink

) when I need to - shame you're so far away sad

18 Jan 2004

Phew I did say Posse! :giggle:
Had to come back and check then!!! lol

18 Jan 2004

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18 Jan 2004

Which is what to do when you pull a hamstring while performing oral sex in a confined space suggestions on a postcard please, dont laff it did happen to me last week and she tasted so good too lol

18 Jan 2004

oooooo yeouch! confused

LOL...but rgfromhtfc, did she care more about your hamstring or more about the fact you had stopped! :twisted:

19 Jan 2004

hiya
we px'd an ( almost ) perfectly good bmw sad

for a frontera confused

to enable more in car manouvers hump

without injuries.. (i can recomend an excelent chiropractor)..also to tow the caravan of love to nice secluded sites biggrin

...we still hav'nt been able to find any couples in essex to join us though :cry:

6 Dec 2005

Just for you Missy!! :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2: :lol2:

6 Dec 2005

You, you, you, you ...... why you lousy rotten git!!! smackbottom

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So naive :lol2: and I still haven't plucked up the courage to go confused

:lol2:

6 Dec 2005

was that really bluexx in 2004 :shock: