Hey guys
Rob and I (Jayne) went dogging again last week and had a great time (eventually after sorting out the boy racers from the doggers!). Dogging etiquette is a wonderful but distinctly vague thing and we wondered if any 'watchers' would be able to help us with a question.
Obviously, we love to be watched by guys who are wanking and we'd love to see the guys cum. For some reason this has never happened when we've been dogging. Maybe the guys in Suffolk are shy, or maybe they are waiting to be invited to join in, or maybe there's another option we haven't thought of. Should we make it clear whether or not we intend to invite guys in? We don't open the windows or doors and we don't engage in conversation as it's mostly spur of the moment and we haven't made contact previously.
Any comments would be appreciated!
Rob and Jayne
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I dont want to sound too obvious.. but Persoanally.. I think it's because once you've done your thing and drove off, the watchers are still left there.. Some of them hoping that another couple will turn up and do it all over again, and maybe invite them to join in, It would be very embassessing if that happened and the watcher couldn't get it up because he'd just spent his load down the side of your car.
Just my thoughts
Just my thoughts
good post guys..its variable, and i'm sure its not a "suffolk" thing 
i'm sure donkedik's explanation is one valid option, and you're suggestions are equally true..nowadays there does seem to be more emphasis and expectation of interaction, but that in itself doesn't preclude the guys having a token spank as a warm up exercise..i'm equally sure that shyness plays a big part too, especially amongst the newbies..normally it takes and old hand to lob, then there becomes a sort of collective beastliness mentality..i recall my first ever show, then, to my left, i could make out some strange shuffling..i hardly dare look, but when curiosity got the better of me i was shocked, and could hear myself thinking in a southern irish accent "jeeezus, tis the divil himself"..i couldn't believe it man, the guy had taken himself to hand and was rattling one off..now of course, its all part and parcel.
we too prefer to not communicate with the guys if possible..our favoured approach is to "show and go"..for us, on many levels, its far the guys will wank spontaneously as to them, its the whole point, then, once spent, they leave..like the "wank booths" in soho :lol: other guys prefer to revell in the hornyness, then take it out on the missus when they get home, others are just too shy and the rest might not want to waste their only load of the night on a "show"
although you prefer to not speak to the lads, and i do know where you are coming from, if your desire is to see the enthusiasm in liquid form, you will have to voice the preference..if your good lady is not too bashfull, then winding down the window and saying "we aren't doing join ins, but i'd really like to see you boys playing with your dicks" would almost certainly guarantee a mass formation sychronised weasel whipping frenzy, because now the emphasis is on them increasing your sexual pleasure, which in turn, makes them feel part of the party so to speak..
i'm sure donkedik's explanation is one valid option, and you're suggestions are equally true..nowadays there does seem to be more emphasis and expectation of interaction, but that in itself doesn't preclude the guys having a token spank as a warm up exercise..i'm equally sure that shyness plays a big part too, especially amongst the newbies..normally it takes and old hand to lob, then there becomes a sort of collective beastliness mentality..i recall my first ever show, then, to my left, i could make out some strange shuffling..i hardly dare look, but when curiosity got the better of me i was shocked, and could hear myself thinking in a southern irish accent "jeeezus, tis the divil himself"..i couldn't believe it man, the guy had taken himself to hand and was rattling one off..now of course, its all part and parcel.we too prefer to not communicate with the guys if possible..our favoured approach is to "show and go"..for us, on many levels, its far the guys will wank spontaneously as to them, its the whole point, then, once spent, they leave..like the "wank booths" in soho :lol: other guys prefer to revell in the hornyness, then take it out on the missus when they get home, others are just too shy and the rest might not want to waste their only load of the night on a "show"
although you prefer to not speak to the lads, and i do know where you are coming from, if your desire is to see the enthusiasm in liquid form, you will have to voice the preference..if your good lady is not too bashfull, then winding down the window and saying "we aren't doing join ins, but i'd really like to see you boys playing with your dicks" would almost certainly guarantee a mass formation sychronised weasel whipping frenzy, because now the emphasis is on them increasing your sexual pleasure, which in turn, makes them feel part of the party so to speak..
Warming the Bed
i agree your gonna have to indicate a bit what ya want, i would never just flop it out without an invitation, so a little jesture, not to subtle though remember we are blokes!!!
mike
mike
I must say that I do get my old boy out and beat him up but I also agree that you tend to hold fire on cumming just in case you get lucky later on.
I tend to stroke him and then stop before cumming.....the nice thing is when I do cum later there is nearly always about 50% more cum!!!! So its a positive thing, in a way!!!
I tend to stroke him and then stop before cumming.....the nice thing is when I do cum later there is nearly always about 50% more cum!!!! So its a positive thing, in a way!!!
thanks for your replies guys. 'Dirtydoggers' you had us lol with your colourful descriptions!
We get a lot of guys wanking happily away, it's the cumming in particular that we'd like. We end up whispering to ourselves about whether or not we're gonna finish off, or whether we should wait, whether the guys are having a good time, etc, in frankly a faintly ridiculous manner!
I guess we just wondered if there was a signal, flashing of lights, indicators, brake lights and god knows what else,that was used to tell the guys that the show is coming to an end .
We get a lot of guys wanking happily away, it's the cumming in particular that we'd like. We end up whispering to ourselves about whether or not we're gonna finish off, or whether we should wait, whether the guys are having a good time, etc, in frankly a faintly ridiculous manner!
I guess we just wondered if there was a signal, flashing of lights, indicators, brake lights and god knows what else,that was used to tell the guys that the show is coming to an end .
It is sometimes awkward letting the person know what you want as quite often people are affraid of saying/doing something that will offend or spoil the situation.
Bear in mind the bloke will probably be more nervous of this than you are, which is why he hasn't cum over your windows yet lol!
Maybe saying "cum with us" during your moaning and groaning may help.
Definately don't think its a suffolk thing, its just a dogging thing!
chris x
Bear in mind the bloke will probably be more nervous of this than you are, which is why he hasn't cum over your windows yet lol!
Maybe saying "cum with us" during your moaning and groaning may help.
Definately don't think its a suffolk thing, its just a dogging thing!
chris x
sorry jayne, i misread your post on two i responded as if the post had been written by rob, whereas it was yourself..also i misunderstood the question..now i've re-read it, i see it quite clearly..its the "pop shot" you wish to see, the guys are priming their cannons, but not firing..ummm, i think in most cases they are holding back for more..i also understand their predicament if, having popped their corks, you throw open the door and demand a sausage ram raiding..the guys need to be made aware that you ain't involving..they'll still wan't to save themselves, but you can better your odds by going out later..that way, their optomism of a playing couple turning up after you've left will be rapidlly fading, and they will use you as a target of oppertunity, unload and return to base..either that or they'll turn their attentions to the trannies 
:lol:
:lol: All the sites(locations) i used last year seem to be bare!, It's very slow out here in east suffolk, need some of you guys to venture out a bit!
Just out of interest.... so far since the first of june i have seen no couples since the 1st of june, at any, and only 3 fellow watchers/wankers at the 3 locations that were buzzing last year....shame really!
Take care all
Just out of interest.... so far since the first of june i have seen no couples since the 1st of june, at any, and only 3 fellow watchers/wankers at the 3 locations that were buzzing last year....shame really!
Take care all
Warming the Bed
I am always pleased to see an interesting, sensible question on the forum, and to read the replies.
I am always amazed at how the threads usually end up discussing something competely different, this one is now discussing fish and chips!!!!
My question here is......
Should you put the salt or vinegar on first?????
I am always amazed at how the threads usually end up discussing something competely different, this one is now discussing fish and chips!!!!
My question here is......
Should you put the salt or vinegar on first?????
hiya dpmguyuk...yeah, i'll certainly vouch for you mate, one of the dogging gents..in fact, the last time we met dpmguyuk, we were chasing a load of boy racers out of the carpark, great night that was, must do it again sometime
alan, if you had sat outside the chipshop on dunwich beach, with a large plate of lemon sole, chips and all the trimmings..the little finches perched on the edge of the table, looking to gain a crumb from your buttered roll..a dash of lemon and a pot of tea..you would not question how it takes presidence over dogging, eh jayne
alan, if you had sat outside the chipshop on dunwich beach, with a large plate of lemon sole, chips and all the trimmings..the little finches perched on the edge of the table, looking to gain a crumb from your buttered roll..a dash of lemon and a pot of tea..you would not question how it takes presidence over dogging, eh jayne
dirtydoggers: you are absolutely and unequivocally right with regard to the joys of dunwich beach. The only thing that could enhance the experience would be maybe watching a couple shagging whilst eating said lemon sole. Alan: easy question; vinegar, then sea salt then lovely pepper corns. Add a dollop of mayonnaise and hurrah, life is good. Thanks for your post Steve, it seems that the answer is to communicate what we want. It actually takes a bit of courage to do that when it's dark outside, they can see us clearly with the interior light on but we can't really see them too well and we've no idea who the guys are. I think we're gonna try a bit more forward planning with guys from this site. With complete strangers there is always the danger of some pillocks behaving like pubescent wankers.
thanks again for the comments.
Jayne & Rob
thanks again for the comments.
Jayne & Rob
