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"Newbie bites the dust"

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Just thought that I would reply to the two quotes which are obviously intended for myself.
Firstly "newbie"my wife and myself have been in the swinging scene for almost 20 years and have attended quite a few social evenings on this site.
We are not newbies in fact have as a couple been active on here for a good while but both have our individual names.
Thirdly what I stated was not if you read again about criticising bad grammar or spelling but the fact as we all know that some single guys try to come across as a couple when it suits I stress this is a small minority.A common problem I think with most sites.
My wife and myself go dogging occasionaly for the thrill of the occasion not to put ourselves in a possibly dangerous situation which could occur.
Some people as you must be aware especially in the dogging section try and come across as a couple.
This is not intended to insult or offend all the males because there are a lot of very courteous,honest and genuine ones on here as we have had the pleasure of meeting quite a few.
Single males as we have found and no doubt so have countless more people on here always tended to "slip up" somewhere along the line.
My point was if you read the persons letter again it clearly states "I DON'T have to prove I'm a couple.
What "I" am
"My" words
Just upset "myself"
And personally I think most people would be able to find a pic of themselves.
"Neigh Bollocks"
" Away silver away"
Perhaps if you posted them on the appropriate thread, people might have an idea of what you're talking about?
Quote by borerman7
Just thought that I would reply to the two quotes which are obviously intended for myself.
Firstly "newbie"my wife and myself have been in the swinging scene for almost 20 years and have attended quite a few social evenings on this site.
We are not newbies in fact have as a couple been active on here for a good while but both have our individual names.
Thirdly what I stated was not if you read again about criticising bad grammar or spelling but the fact as we all know that some single guys try to come across as a couple when it suits I stress this is a small minority.A common problem I think with most sites.
My wife and myself go dogging occasionaly for the thrill of the occasion not to put ourselves in a possibly dangerous situation which could occur.
Some people as you must be aware especially in the dogging section try and come across as a couple.
This is not intended to insult or offend all the males because there are a lot of very courteous,honest and genuine ones on here as we have had the pleasure of meeting quite a few.
Single males as we have found and no doubt so have countless more people on here always tended to "slip up" somewhere along the line.
My point was if you read the persons letter again it clearly states "I DON'T have to prove I'm a couple.
What "I" am
"My" words
Just upset "myself"
And personally I think most people would be able to find a pic of themselves.
"Neigh Bollocks"
" Away silver away"

Do you mean on this thread?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/577850.html#577850
If you do, I think you might find that the comments were not aimed at you.
However,
Quote by borerman7
In your post you state "aren't my words not good enough",
well actually NO.
You state me and not us,as you know me is singular.
You state I not us again singular.
What do you expect.!!! icon_

Reading YOUR signature, I'd also think that YOU are a single man, but you've just said that you are married. Maybe you need to be a little clearer yourself before criticising others for being unclear.
Your signature, at the time of this post, said:
HI all,
I am John aged 43,brown hair, blue eyes and 5'9"

I am looking to meet up with couples or single ladies for fun times of which size and age are not important.
I am totally straight,(like females too )
Also into voyeurism and dogging.
Mutual respect and discretion given and expected at all times.
Re:If you listen carefully and speak wiser you will succeed
Perhaps it should be if you READ carefully you will succeed.
If you read my latter letter properly you would note that I did state that my wife and myself do swing singularly and in doing so also have seperate id as well as our joint one.
Be at the next munch and we BOTH will explain it slowly to you.
well...if you wish to attend a munch you will have to wait 6 monthes..because based on your showing here, you only joined yesterday !!!!
There again maybe you know all about munches...you certainly think you know alot about a great many things..... Most new members try and keep a low profile early on...Maybe make a Hi I'm NEW" post...there again maybe you aren't so new after all. Maybe you are actually a banned member, trying to re-enter under a differant name? .... and therfore intent of coming along and trying to get up everyones nose.
Quote by borerman7
Re:If you listen carefully and speak wiser you will succeed
Perhaps it should be if you READ carefully you will succeed.
If you read my latter letter properly you would note that I did state that my wife and myself do swing singularly and in doing so also have seperate id as well as our joint one.
Be at the next munch and we BOTH will explain it slowly to you.

I have read both of the posts which I quoted. I have understood each one as it stands. My point is that you didn't state that you were swinging as a single until the post at the beginning of this thread. That post states that you are indeed a married man but your signature states that you are a 43 year old man, with no mention of a wife. What I was trying to say is that your 'single' signature and username do not indicate that you are married. You have also only had the separate ID on here as of yesterday. Would you like me to explain that slowly or was it simple enough that time?
Oh, and on the subject of reading, my quote says 'wisely', not 'wiser'.
My concern is that you have two id's .. one as a single and one as a married, I was of the impression that you couldn't have both? Perhaps a Mod could clarify please.
C x
Quote by Calista
My concern is that you have two id's .. one as a single and one as a married, I was of the impression that you couldn't have both? Perhaps a Mod could clarify please.
C x

Plus an ID for the wife.
borerman7 please read and reply to the pm I have sent you biggrin