OK, so I realise the chances are very slim that the f-wits that I'm ranting about will actually read this post... but just in case you do...
Location: A well known north London site.
Time: Around midnight, Monday night/Tuesday morning.
For the attention of the prowling pack of single blokes in the car park...
1. Kindly wait until the sodding wheels have stopped rotating before pressing your faces up against the car windows.
2. When someone tells you to get thee hence and come back in ten or fifteen minutes, try to understand that "go away" means more than four feet away.
3. Give me enough room to open the car door without having to ram it against your 'nads before I can actually do so.
4. When you do return, redoubled in number, try to leave a bit of room around the car. Perhaps enough to slide a Rizla paper through maybe?
5. When I get out of the car a second time to inform you that we're leaving because my young lady is not happy with the situation, consider perhaps that the fault might lie very close to home and had you behaved with more decorum, you may well have had more of a show.
On the bright side...
We had a really good time somewhere else...
And... the look on exhibit A's face when I got out of the car was a picture. If you're going to stand that close, then there's just an outside chance that when someone twice your size gets out of the car, you're going to get loomed over. When that happens and you feel the need to step back suddenly, you really ought to watch what you're stepping in...
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Oh dear, doesn't sound like much fun RoadKnight although your retelling does sound like you saw the funny side of it later!! I couldn't help but laugh, the idea of a bunch of panting blokes moving a whole four feet away from you......conjures up images of the start of the marathon, the silly arses!! 
Glad you had fun somewhere else and there are still some of around North London and Herts with manners...I for one promise to be very well behaved if I ever spot you anywhere near here
Glad you had fun somewhere else and there are still some of around North London and Herts with manners...I for one promise to be very well behaved if I ever spot you anywhere near here
O/T one mo, I have to Serendipity are they your legs or did you steel them from someone?lol
back on topic now, i want to know what the last guy stepped in? im assuming doggers sh*t but i may be wrong :shock: . Maybe we could start defining types of doggers and watchers, for example im a type 23= sits and watchs and waits to be asked to play. what you reckon?
BBx
back on topic now, i want to know what the last guy stepped in? im assuming doggers sh*t but i may be wrong :shock: . Maybe we could start defining types of doggers and watchers, for example im a type 23= sits and watchs and waits to be asked to play. what you reckon?
BBx
my g/f won't come out with me anymore for that very same reason - what is it with blokes standing inches away? with no signals being offered out by us?
went out on my own last night though, and had a good chat... nothing more. i understand now how couples percieve the lurkers.
fellow guys who aren't already in the know, try a bit of friendliness :shock:
went out on my own last night though, and had a good chat... nothing more. i understand now how couples percieve the lurkers.
fellow guys who aren't already in the know, try a bit of friendliness :shock:
We arranged a meeting last Friday and the meeting took place OK
BUT we had arranged a meeting with 3 guys to come along of which 2 turned up. I spoke to the first one and he seemed ok, I went over and chatted to the second guy and by the time I had got back to the car the passanger door was open and he was stroking the wife's leg.
What is the etiquete for an arranged meeting, I told him he was a bit previous and told him there where rules to this game and he appologised.
I don't know you invite some people and they think they have been invited to do what they want.
Please advise anyone
BUT we had arranged a meeting with 3 guys to come along of which 2 turned up. I spoke to the first one and he seemed ok, I went over and chatted to the second guy and by the time I had got back to the car the passanger door was open and he was stroking the wife's leg.
What is the etiquete for an arranged meeting, I told him he was a bit previous and told him there where rules to this game and he appologised.
I don't know you invite some people and they think they have been invited to do what they want.
Please advise anyone
juneric,oh dear,ah,hope i can stop laughing long enough to finish this!!...never,ever,turn your back on a dogger!!they are like jack russels,and will be up that hole at the drop of a hat!!..its happened to us too mate, went to watch a show once,mrs dirty told me not to squeeze her arse so hard,i had me kin hands in my pockets!!..i take your point though,things can get silly,in this instance the guy got a little enthusiastic,then accepted your reprimand,but it makes you think doesn't it...out of interest,how did your partner react?
Sex God
Quote by JunEric
went over and chatted to the second guy and by the time I had got back to the car the passanger door was open and he was stroking the wife's leg.
Why didn't she just tell him to fuck off if she didn't want him to stroke her leg???
DirtDoggers.
Thanks for your reply ..................... as we are new to this seen the wife just let him carry on.
She thought that this was the normal thing to happen.
She did have her naughty way with him and she said he was very polite very clean and made sure she was ok with everything.
It turned out to be his first time at this ........... just wished people would follow the rules or at least read them
Thanks for your reply ..................... as we are new to this seen the wife just let him carry on.
She thought that this was the normal thing to happen.
She did have her naughty way with him and she said he was very polite very clean and made sure she was ok with everything.
It turned out to be his first time at this ........... just wished people would follow the rules or at least read them
Sex God
Quote by JunEric
DirtDoggers.
Thanks for your reply ..................... as we are new to this seen the wife just let him carry on.
She thought that this was the normal thing to happen.
She did have her naughty way with him and she said he was very polite very clean and made sure she was ok with everything.
It turned out to be his first time at this ........... just wished people would follow the rules or at least read them
Errrrrr.......... what exactly did the poor guy do wrong if she didn't tell him to stop and in fact enjoyed what he did? Have I missed something?
She didn't tell him to FUCK OFF as you put it .. . . . . . . as she is not so low as that.
There are two people in this relationship ............... dont forget about your partners idea's on how things should go. It would have been good if he had asked both of us if he could start to have fun.
There are two people in this relationship ............... dont forget about your partners idea's on how things should go. It would have been good if he had asked both of us if he could start to have fun.
Sex God
Quote by JunEric
She didn't tell him to FUCK OFF as you put it .. . . . . . . as she is not so low as that.
There are two people in this relationship ............... dont forget about your partners idea's on how things should go. It would have been good if he had asked both of us if he could start to have fun.
So she liked it but you didn't?
Well, that's your problem I'm afraid. The other guy did nothing wrong and as he was, by your own admittance, polite and clean, he was actually a good dogger. Perhaps it's you that needs to address what you actually want from the dogging scene.
bluexxx
I have read the rules and you should not approach another vehicle without being asked.
I don't want to fall out with you or put you down but I just wanted to be with my wife at all times to make sure she was safe.
He invaded her space in the car that had all the doors closed . . . . . . . if this is what you want to have done to you or your partner then taht is up to you. I want to make sure that my wife is safe.
Good luck to you
I have read the rules and you should not approach another vehicle without being asked.
I don't want to fall out with you or put you down but I just wanted to be with my wife at all times to make sure she was safe.
He invaded her space in the car that had all the doors closed . . . . . . . if this is what you want to have done to you or your partner then taht is up to you. I want to make sure that my wife is safe.
Good luck to you
Call me naive but I don't think the "rules" of dogging are much different to anything else in life, if you don't like it then say so.....being clear is definitely a better alternative to ending up in a situation you don't want!
From my point of view, I'd want a couple to set boundaries for me as I have no way of knowing what they do or don't want (of course, these can be changed during the event, in either direction).
Being new to something has its learning curve, definitely, but don't be afraid to be clear about what you want....I can't see how it can do anything other than make it easier and better for everyone involved
The good news is practice makes perfect :twisted:
Serendipity :color:
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You definitely need to tell others what your rules are, as early as you can
From my point of view, I'd want a couple to set boundaries for me as I have no way of knowing what they do or don't want (of course, these can be changed during the event, in either direction).
Being new to something has its learning curve, definitely, but don't be afraid to be clear about what you want....I can't see how it can do anything other than make it easier and better for everyone involved
The good news is practice makes perfect :twisted:
Serendipity :color:
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Quote by JunEric
I told him he was a bit previous and told him there where rules to this game and he appologised.
You definitely need to tell others what your rules are, as early as you can
Sex God
OK.... if she didn't want him to open the door and he did, he was in the wrong. If she didn't want him to touch her and he did, he was DEFINATELY in the wrong. You said that your wife enjoyed her experience with him, so why was the guy wrong for approaching or touching her if that is what she wanted? ... So herein lies the problem.... You and your wife may have different ideas about what you want to happen during a scene that you shoudl sort out before hand.
I can appreciate that you want your wife to be safe, but unless there is more to it than you're saying here, I can't understand why your wife was in any danger. My partner decides for himself whether he wants people to touch him. If someone touched him without his consent you'd better believe I'd react, but at the end of the day, there is no indication here that anything non consenting actually happened!
I can appreciate that you want your wife to be safe, but unless there is more to it than you're saying here, I can't understand why your wife was in any danger. My partner decides for himself whether he wants people to touch him. If someone touched him without his consent you'd better believe I'd react, but at the end of the day, there is no indication here that anything non consenting actually happened!
hi juneric,dirtydoggers back again,is it safe to come in yet?.......its all gotten a bit abstract hasn't it?......correct me if i'm point you were making is this,right?..actually,no,i will probably ramble on,as usual,getting all deep n stuff...have a peep at serendipity's thread,"conversation starter",we were having a natter about guys needing the power,that control and authority gives them in these come and lay on the couch,then tell aunty serendipity and uncle dirty how you felt about the can talk about it some more maybe?
