Recognised Out Dogging!!!

14 Jan 2005

The last time we went out (which was last year :shock: ) we found that our normal place was a lot busier than normal with four other couples and few new single guys. We had a good time and came home at a reasonable time (for a change) The following morning we had a pm waiting on Swinging Heaven for us.
The pm was from a guy who said he had thought he had seen us out and about that night and described where he had seen us, and what he thought we were wearing. The guy had arrived just as were were leaving and wanted to come over and say hello but wasnt 100% sure it was us. When I read this I was very flattered that someone had actually recognised me from the site and was not really worried cause the guy was there for the same thing as us and we have spoken (via pm) in the past he is a very nice guy.
However, as time as gone on, this has worried me a little and I am now starting to think that if he recognises me, who else could recogise me? I really dont know how I feel about this.
Also my car is also quite distinct (obviously not saying how it is distinct) and as I do a lot of driving out on my own, I could be recognised from someone who has seen me out in a car park! Is it just me being paranoid?
How do other peole feel when they are recognised? Does it worry you or are you flattered by it?
Just wondering!
(This also relates to Serendipity's thread about admitting you go dogging)

14 Jan 2005

Well hopefully our pics don't show enough of my face for me to be recognised. I don't mind so much about other members on here recognising me, but if they do, then so could my family members too and that wouldn't be good :shock:
I look totally different during daylight hours anyway, office style clothes, and specs, which give me a totally different appearance.
One night about a year ago, we met a guy whilst out dogging, whom I know through my job. At first I started to panic. If he recognised me, it could have been difficult at work, but as it was fairly dark, I played it cool and hoped for the best confused

He watched me giving a guy a BJ and then I gave him one and he never gave the slightest hint that he knew who I was, because I look so different without my specs and prim clothes cool

He is not one to beat around the bush, so I know for a fact, if he had recognised me, he would certainly have said something either at the time or the folllowing week at work.
He's never mentioned this incident at all, even when the subject of dogging arose one day. He certainly never admitted he indulged in the past time, and of course neither did I redface

:grin:
Tracy-Jayne

14 Jan 2005

wont recognise me! te he! i'll keep me helmet on! lol

unless of course some lovely lady asks to suck me elmet off!!!!!!! cool

14 Jan 2005

my vehicle is,lets say,individual...once i was parked up in town,a couple of guys came over,one of them said,"excuse me mate,do you go to carparks"?,great opener that!!!..it was obvious what he was getting at,so i trumped him with "yes mate,i'm a dogger",at which he replied,"you take your missus don't you,i was telling me mate here,i'd pay good money to fuck that",..ooh the charm of the dogging gentleman,dont ya just luv em?

15 Jan 2005

Nice, I bet Mrs DD (sorry, I mean THAT) is beside herself with excitement!!
Personally, I don't think I'd approach someone that I thought I'd seen out dogging unless it was someone I'd talked to before or knew from SH e.g. I've seen pics of a couple on this site who I could bump into as they're not a million miles away from me - I might say a very discreet hello but not in the company of other people. But surely most people would prefer not to acknowledge others outside of the dogging itself or it would take away some of the anonymity and excitement?
Having a distinctive car (me too) is a bit worrying though, I don't think you're being paranoid. Whilst most people are respectful and polite it doesn't hurt to be aware and cautious. Bumping into someone you know when you're out dogging must be awkward, but it's not like they can tell without letting the cat out of the bag about their presence at the scene!

15 Jan 2005

ive been reconised only cause of my tattoos tho lol
bent over in car and sum 1 said is that gingerjo off the net hehehehe
its happened twice now
so come on any more im sure it will happen again
cya soon jo xx

15 Jan 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Also my car is also quite distinct (obviously not saying how it is distinct) and as I do a lot of driving out on my own, I could be recognised from someone who has seen me out in a car park! Is it just me being paranoid?
How do other peole feel when they are recognised? Does it worry you or are you flattered by it?
Just wondering!

We started dogging about 11 years ago and in the first year met up with some great guys, however, our favourite dogging site was about 4 miles from home, probably a bit too close to home! Anyway after severeral visits to this car park we met one particular guy who was tall slim and very handsome and never ever did anything without asking first.
The problem I experienced happened one lunchtime when I had been into the city with my 3 month old daughter to do some shopping, on terurning home I'm driving along the dual carraigeway minding my own business when all of a sudden a police traffic car pulls along side me, i look to my right and the driver looks at me and smiles! I look back and think to my self "He looks familiar" but think nothing of it. The police car roars off up the road.
Some 10 minutes later I return home to find a police patrol car sitting outside of my house! The same car that had overtook me some 10 minutes previous, I pull up in front and before I can even get my door open the policeman is out of his car and at my window, naturally I panic wondering what i've done wrong or if something terrible has happened to a member of my family, I nervously open the window and the policeman bends down to face level and says " Hi I recognise you from the beach car park" Panic immediately sets in! "Sorry beach car park? I dont know what you mean?" says I even though I now recognise him as the handsome young guy from the beach.
He then says "Oh I think you do, Are you going to give me some of what your hubby gets at the beach" Again I protest I dont know what he's talking about, at the same time my stomach is churning. Now I'm a pretty strong willed person but he was terrifying me, so I turn to him and say " Look I think you have the wrong person here I dont know anything about any beach ok?" thinking this will put him off, but no he then goes into great detail on how he has watched me several times putting on a show at the beach and now he wants some of the same. Luckily for me my daughter who has up to know sat patiently in her car seat begens to get restless and starts to cry. I turn to him sternly and say " Look I dont give a fuck wether your a copper or a dogger, If you dont stop harrassing me I will report you to your Inspector! His mood changes and he aggresively says " Oh I dont think so"
Although by now I'm absolutely shitting myself I think "no he's not going to badger me, so I say "Ok Well this is what i'm going to do, firstly I am going to report you and I'm going to tell your Inspector that my husband and I were parked up in a secluded corner of the beach car park making love when we realised we were being spied upon, we then stopped what we were doing and left, but this guy then tried to follow us home. I will then tell your Inspector about this confrontation and say you were badgering me for sex and we will see what happens then, But! My husband and I will then go back to the beach car park every weekend from now on and every time you turn up we will tell fellow doggers wgo and what you are and see how much attention you recieve then!"
He stood for a moment thinking then bent back down and apologised! I couldnt believe it I had frightened him off! He said he was sorry for approaching me and that he knew he had overstepped the mark both as a policeman and as a dogger! And would I forgive him and please not report it to his Inspector as he could get into serious trouble!
Well as you can imagine I was livid and all I could say to him was "Fuck off now and If your Inspector hauls you in you know what it will be for and never ever come anywhere near me again no matter where I am" He got back in the car and drove off, I climbed out of the car and in a nearstate of collapse got in the house and waited until hubby came home. He arrived in from work and before he could even get his coat off I blurted the whole story out. His reply was to say that was the end of our dogging sessions.
It did put us off for about 9 months in that time we moved house and bought a different car. I was very nervous about returning to dogging but in the end thought "Why the fuck should a cunt like that stop me from enjoying myself?"
We did see him in the car parks a few times from then on but must admit as soon as he realised it was me he was off like a shot, speaking to felow doggers I always pointed him out and told them this story so that they could be aware of what he was like, to my knowledge he never did approach another female outside of dogging and we did speak to a few couples that regularly used the same car parks as us,so I suppose although I had to endure the ordeal, I through my strength and stong will came through it all and probablt stopped the same thing happening to others.
Ann Marie
P.S I did have another experience some years back with a garage mechanic when I took my car in for service and the mechanic immediately recognised me as being in Fiesta Magazines Readers Wives section silly

hwoar: (Something I enjoyed doing when I was younger) and took great pleasure in showing me the pages pinned up on the workshop wall! The cheeky bugger even got me to autograph them for him. redface

15 Jan 2005

Flipping eck Anne Marie, that is real scarey stuff. At least my recognition was nice and the guy was very polite in his pm! When I got it, I felt really pleased and it did wonders for my ego, it was the thinking about it afterwards! I think I am more worried what people will think if they recognise me "Thats her that goes in carparks for kinky sex with strangers" etc etc, judging me, and also guys thinking that cause I do go out dogging, Im up for anything!
I must have some very mixed standards though, cause I am not willing to take my photos off, so I suppose I just deserve to be recognised! Can always say something along the lines of "nuaghty wigan couple, who are they, have they done something naughty I should know about" lol

15 Jan 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
I must have some very mixed standards though, cause I am not willing to take my photos off, so I suppose I just deserve to be recognised! Can always say something along the lines of "nuaghty wigan couple, who are they, have they done something naughty I should know about"

Lol Same here NWC I wont take my pics off either silly

hwoar:
I often walk round my local supermarkets and when I catch guys looking me up & down start to wonder if they have either seen me out & about or seen photo's of me on the Internet or wether it's me being a little paraniod :bs:

16 Jan 2005

Given your policeman story, who would blame you for feeling paranoid? That's horrendous and not what you expect from a police officer. I don't swear in writing often but what an arsehole!!! What was he thinking?!! evil

16 Jan 2005

Hi
glad to hear your not going to stop dogging, that would be a shame for us those involved
I too have recognised people from dogging and i have a very distinctive car indeed
more caution definately needs to be taken but keep up the excellent work and maybe il get to meet u dogging soon
Anne Marie what a shame you stopped your worldwidewives website that was a feast to be hold i only wish i lived in the north east

16 Jan 2005

given your police story annemarie i understand why you would be the other incident with the mechanic its pretty obvious that not all men are goin to think yeah its her so i will get myself some for the mechanic in his eyes you are nearly agoddess to the policeman its not because he thought you were easy it was pure abuse of power he thought you would give in hats off to you you called his bluff.i can safely say ihave never met you but from your avatar you certainly look a dish and so on behalf of all the always respectful males regardless of situations i apologize for the ordeal that you went through we want you to always enjoy yourself cause it through your enjoyment that we get our goes for all the women here thank you worship

you

16 Jan 2005

Quote by jjkay3
Hi
glad to hear your not going to stop dogging, that would be a shame for us those involved
I too have recognised people from dogging and i have a very distinctive car indeed
more caution definately needs to be taken but keep up the excellent work and maybe il get to meet u dogging soon
Anne Marie what a shame you stopped your worldwidewives website that was a feast to be hold i only wish i lived in the north east

Hi jjkay3, As I said before I'm a strong willed person not easily intimidated thankfully! Yes I did stop for a while after, but eventually i thought "Why should that arsehole stop me from having fun?" If anything it made me more determined to enjoy myself!
As for my website, well sadly it had to go, I originally set it up again as a bit of fun, not meant for profit, although the monthly cheque was nice, hover it became too much of a chore, I didnt have the time to get all of the photo sets required to keep the site alive, and eventually I had to give it up. I still get messages from ex members wishing me well and I do still correspond with a very small number of them, but again time is always against me and keeping in touch with everyone would be impossible! Glad you liked it while it lasted tho!
Love,
Ann Marie silly

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16 Jan 2005

Quote by trix
given your police story annemarie i understand why you would be the other incident with the mechanic its pretty obvious that not all men are goin to think yeah its her so i will get myself some for the mechanic in his eyes you are nearly agoddess to the policeman its not because he thought you were easy it was pure abuse of power he thought you would give in hats off to you you called his bluff.i can safely say ihave never met you but from your avatar you certainly look a dish and so on behalf of all the always respectful males regardless of situations i apologize for the ordeal that you went through we want you to always enjoy yourself cause it through your enjoyment that we get our goes for all the women here thank you you

Thanks Trix,
There really is no need for you to apologise for any single males, honest This incident happened many years ago and if anything it learnt me to be a stronger person, I dont take no shit from no-one anymore! As you will have read from the previous post I even went on to set up my own web site and have had many great nights out in the company of male doggers, who on the whole I find very respectable and respectful!
One bad experience in 11 years cant really be bad! I also realise by not hiding my face in any photo's of me leaves me open to a certain ammount of unwarranted attention and at times critism, but again my motto is life is for living! Thankfully I have always found more guys to be like the mechanic than the policeman!
P.S Thanks for the comment on my Avtar silly

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16 Jan 2005

Quote by Serendipity
Given your policeman story, who would blame you for feeling paranoid? That's horrendous and not what you expect from a police officer. I don't swear in writing often but what an arsehole!!! What was he thinking?!!

Oh I think we both know what he was thinking Serendipidy blast

:spit: The truth is, he would probably have gotten what he wanted from me by behaving like any normal dogger at the right time in the right place silly

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16 Jan 2005

good story ,now can we see single males reading this take in why we need to know things about ya, we cant go out and just meet any one ,and need to be fussy about who ya meet,there are a few moaners who cannot understand why they cant get meets because they dont have no profile and very little post about them selfs. our first time out we were followed by a car on the way home for a few miles ,so i slowed down ready to stop and get out of car,any he must have sussed it cause he turned away. sercurity b4 fun ,then no one misses out. :cry:

16 Jan 2005

shudders run down my spine at that experience .......
the police freak me out after the experience i had just last week
hi jjkay3 ;)

16 Jan 2005

Quote by MrT
shudders run down my spine at that experience .......
the police freak me out after the experience i had just last week

Do Tell More Mr T :shock:

16 Jan 2005

hi anne marie smile

yes just last week i was at my usuall location
a cple was parked about 3 car spaces from me i noticed the fem was drinking from a coke bottle (looked like she was having a nice tipple) so i waited i saw another dogger parked on the other side of the cples car so i waited then i saw a dogger approach the car so i discreetly walked on over she was butt naked in passenger seat her husband was playing with the fem ....all of a sudden there was like 6-7 doggers 4 of whom were at the passenger window it was a joke... after a bit i managed to have a play with the fems nipples whoa!!! (she had nipples to die for) at this time i just happened to look round and saw a few more doggers stood near my car i thought nothing of it but then i saw a set of headlights say 10 feet away but couldent make out what it was so i carried on watching then 10 secs later i heard "whats going on" when i looked it was 2 coppers (at this point i thought "oh f**k" i just seen doggers running everywhere.. i just turned to face my car and walked towards it to a voice saying "come here or you are going in the back of my van" at this point i thought i was going to get arrested... me and another dogger were stood at the van i noticed one copper go over to the cples and he said to them "do you think this is appropriate behaviour for a car park" the other one said to me "would you like me to report it to you employer what you are doing on car parks" at this point i thought it was best to stay polite and calm and i replied "no" he then said i advise you to "fu**off" which i did
my ass fellout....
next time however i will be staying put :)
havent the police got some criminals to catch ?
or do you "the boys in blue" devote tax payers money to harrassing decent people ?
p.s srry for the language

17 Jan 2005

he said to them "do you think this is appropriate behaviour for a car park" the other one said to me "would you like me to report it to you employer what you are doing on car parks" at this point i thought it was best to stay polite and calm and i replied "no" he then said i advise you to "fu**off" which i did
WHOOAAA!!!!! No offence to anyone about my language, but what the fuck does your employer have to do with any of this??? Isnt that blackmail? Harrassement? Abuse of position? As far as I know they are not allowed to swear either as it shows a lack of control and therefore proffesionalism. All they are entitled to do is move you on, however if youre dealing or generally being a prat then of course youre going to attract attention. Next time an officer threatens you make sure you get the numbers off their shoulders and remember them. We pay for them to stop crime like burglaries, gbh, theft. real crime, not people litterally socializing, effectively trying to pull.
mad

17 Jan 2005

Quote by MrT
after a bit i managed to have a play with the fems nipples whoa!!! (she had nipples to die for) at this time i just happened to look round and saw a few more doggers stood near my car i thought nothing of it but then i saw a set of headlights say 10 feet away but couldent make out what it was so i carried on watching then 10 secs later i heard "whats going on" when i looked it was 2 coppers (at this point i thought "oh f**k" i just seen doggers running everywhere.. i just turned to face my car and walked towards it to a voice saying "come here or you are going in the back of my van" at this point i thought i was going to get arrested

PRoblem here seems to be you were banged to rights if the actually caught you playing around with a naked female!
I do believe you could be arrested for committing a lewd act in a public place. so I suppose given the circumstances I would rather end up being told to fuck off and leave with a red face than end up in the police station!
I agree however about the "Employer" Bit, what would happen if you were on the dole or self employed!
silly

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17 Jan 2005

anne marie lol i am self emplyoed ..... haha
im a chippie so id have to tell myself off punishment = good old spitroasting session

18 Jan 2005

Mr T if you did't do as you were told would you get a good grilling

sorry just could not help myself :rotflmao:

18 Jan 2005

19 Jan 2005

kissing k id like to giveu a good grilling smile

19 Jan 2005

D+M babe i thought of you biggrin

Mr T i wish i was a nice golen brown all over :giggle: k.

19 Jan 2005

ok i have been thinking to be recognized out dogging for the fact you are dogging is one thing but to be recognized when out dogging for being that one on the forum that keeps missing the keys and cant spell , well i would be so ashamed and embarrassed so if anybody wants to give me a hard time "DON'T BOTHER" i can do that myself. k.x wink

19 Jan 2005

Golden Bown coming up
With a generous helping of cream all over your face cool

19 Jan 2005

and a hard time was had by all kiss

and this is for you MR T smackbottom

and take it like a man :grin:

19 Jan 2005

hehe
yeh baby yeh ! gimme more :arrow: :P
kissing k lol screaming K lol