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Reluctant farewell

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I am unfortunatly going to have to say farewell to everyone on Swinging Heaven.I have decided that tonight was the last time I'm prepared to go to a pre arranged meet with a couple and be left there like a t@@t due to another 'no show'.
I have arranged at least 8 meets via the chatroom and never had a show so I reluctantly bow to the inevitable and will pack in this dogging lark.
Unfortunatly as GingerJo will testify too many single men give the few who are genuine a bad name with no shows,acting lick pricks etc.
Bluexx I know i didn't show when i said but i genuinly got lost and wish i hadn't but i did explain.
I hope all you genuine people out there have many more hot n horny times and wish you well in the future.
I also think Mr Collymore has only encouraged more idiots to waste peoples time.
Good luck to you all
Brian
:cry: Sorry to hear that - but I do understand. We have all been under siege the last few days too.
Hope things work out for you.
x x
33 posts dont give up keep lol :boxing:
hiya
come babes ive been let down more than that and im a woman lol
as u know i keep trying
cya soon jo xxxxxxxx
Dude, if you give up, it means all the losers and timewasters are winning. Don't give up!
I've been let down before - I once travelled halfway across Scotland to meet a couple who never showed. That was two years ago! I will never give up, nor should you!
I really don't think i want to carry on, there's only so many times you can feel a tw@t and i've reached my limit,shame as i'm sure many many of you are genuine
Been here a year and a half and never met anybody !!!! Wife thinks im addicted to the site and we are all a bunch of tossers? Had loads of emails from ad answers trying to sign me up for summit but NO SEX??? PITY FOR MARK I KNOW BUT HE CANT KEEP THE MEDIA OUT OR THE TITS ( sorry girl???)Even the local doggin sites have gone loopy or QUIET!! I KNOW FROM PAST EXPERIENCES AT SITES THAT SWINGERS ARE OUT THERE but how can we publiize them without the REDNECKS jumping on the bandwagon? I might pop back anon to post some more stories of my exploits and experiences over the years in the swingers stories. Wot to do at nites will be a problem? WOT THE >>>> do u give a toss any way? Turrah folks. KEEP YER PECKERS UP< I CANT STAND THE CRAPP ANY LONGER sad
Maca - hope you do stay and that you can make Thurs lol
Fit4u2use however, I'm sure you're talking about the scene generally and not attacking Swinging Heaven, but hey - 9 posts - not exactly given us a chance have you?
Y'know its odd.I haven't joined this site to be an avid hunter of the funstuff.....and perhaps thats why I got lucky as many times as I have.I just relax,chat when needed and let the forum or chatroom do the rest.
Perhaps if some of you stop trying TOO hard you may geta better response,rather than looking like a desperate jackoff.(which I'm not saying you are...just perhaps what you come across as)
Biscuit,
You post on the site, you get a reply ans send a PM, you arrange a meet and they don't show. Why does that scenerio makes you a desperate jackoff?
Maybe you need to rethink your logig, or you may start to sound like a jackoff) not saying you are one, just sound like one).
I think what Biscuit is saying is that the way some people phrase their posts makes them sound desperate, not the fact that they experienced a no-show...
Oh shut up Blue, let Biscuit explain for himself rolleyes :roll: :roll: :roll:
Why explain it for myself when the blue did it so well for me!
Cheers Blue...Oh,and I agree,perhaps I did begin to sound like a jackoff...to which I apologise if I caused you now you're just starting to sound man,we all have time wasted one way or another in our at me!..most of my teenage years spent studying literature,history and I wind up running a bloody shopping centre!.still eh
Biscuit,
You're right I am starting to sound bitter! Not that I am, just thought it was a bit harsh to suggest someone who has had enough after 8 no shows might be a desperate jack off. Although there may be a few out there I think there are also a lot of genuine single guys out there who are having a hard time due to all the boy racers/press/police/morons who are interfering with the dogging scene.
Trying to organise a meet in Kent( or at least anywhere in South East Kent) at the moment seems to be near impossible. Glad you are having some luck but that's no reason to look down on those of us who aren't being so lucky.
By the way Blue, I know some posts aren't exactly great literature( mine included) but if you have a secret formula for writing the perfect post to get a response please PM me the details!!
Sorry Mike, I don't think there is a secret formula for writing successful posts really, some just sound desperate and off-putting that's all. There is advice about writing good posts in several thread scattered about the forum, I can't really say more than has already been said elsewhere.
Did I come across as looking down on you?
Soz pal,totally accidental,I don't look down on anyone who loves good fun,great friends and fantastic women!
Biscuit,
Don't worry, didn't think you were looking down on me, as I'm not the one who has had no luck in 8 meets. Just thought this was meant to bhe a friendly sight and I think some of the posts from the regulars on here can sometimes be a little unfriendly( intentionally or not). Calling anyone a desperate jackoff isn't particularly friendly, even if it is meant in the best possible way!
Anyway, enough of this time to move on I feel.
Mike