ruined a good nite

7 May 2006

Hi all sorry to sound negative but went to a known spot nr caerphilly tonight where this guy who we have let watch before untill he tried to climb into the car and totally didnt care less was there again tonight we drove out and yes you guessed it he followed us for miles with his main beam on constantly we must have driven 10 miles before we lost him. as long as there are people like that around then the carparks are going to be full of single men as the couples are driven away. did manage to get back to xxxx and swopped addys with two cars to try and find a new location white van man you ruined it for the genuine peeps who know how to behave wont begoing back down there for a while sorry bout this but im fuming

8 May 2006

sorry to hear about your experience, unfortunatly there are some tossers out there and wish they would get lost as they are spoiling it for other non pushy guys.
take care and good luck, john

8 May 2006

i know john at the end of the day its meant to be fun not a car chase if we cant find elsewhere then might call it a day. as you say its the few that ruin it for the rest most men park just away from us and only approach if we switch our light on but lately (specially white van man) they think the women are there purely for their satisfaction.

8 May 2006

what a tosser,i hope he spends his life sitting in his van wondering why no-one wants to play with him mad

8 May 2006

hi all
there was a similiar case in the lmu the mods are saying its a no no to name and shame but theres nothing to stop you telling the other couples and good doggers that visit that location if you all stick together after several nights of nothing from anyone he will go forth and try to muliply else where.
good luck but most of all dont let one tosser riun it for you
if it ever happens again drive to a police station i bet hes got more to loose than you.

10 May 2006

yeah apparently we spoke to another couple that was plagued by him for mths in the end they changed their car as he followed them everywhere and they lived closer im telling you this guy aint all there if we see him again might take his reg number just in case

10 May 2006

ahhhrg, i did a really long reply to this, but got timed-out...oh well..short n sweet..
certain types of spirit thrive on fear..they induce it in various ways, then feed off it..why? because it briefly negates their perception of themselves as weak, which inherently, they are, if only in character..
this is also true, with the living (whats the xxxx on about now you ask)? lol

followers are more often than not, a case in point..relying on your perception that you are in part guilty, as to make repercussions unlikely..boy-racers and certain police officers use this to their advantage too, but more often with the dogging guys.
to be followed can be frustrating, annoying and scary..however, if the fear becomes apparent, it'll only fuel his kicks..far better to take the piss..kinda dissarms them..we were once followed into a forecourt..we didn't seek refuge there, i needed diesel :lol: the guy followed me into the garage, picking up a packet of crisps to justify his position in the queue..he probably thought he had us on the run :lol: he was 5ft 2 inches tall :shock: i asked him where snow white and the rest of the lads were hanging out? he didn't bother us after that..not saying white van man is in the same mould, but i'll bet if you look as if you're gonna call the police, or take his reg, he won't be interested in hanging around for long.

10 May 2006

Sorry to hear you had a bad time - the guy is an absolute XXXXXer.
At the end of the day we are all there to have fun - its people like him who spoil a good night out
and thers not too many places for us in south wales too

10 May 2006

Ok
I think we've had enough whinges about some of the tossers that frequent dogging sites. It's part and parcel of the game.
Can we put it to rest now and move on?
Mal
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