God - the site near the services you're going on about is rubbish. Ive been about 8 times in the last 3 weeks and haven't seen a dickiebird - other than a load of sad single men (yes, just like me), where one of which occasionally saunters over to ask if you're gay.
The only time its worth going there would be if you've pre-arranged to meet some like minded souls from these very pages. I did that once and ended up going to Warringtons OTHER site. That's ultra quiet, but again, that makes it better if you pre-arrange a meeting.