If people do arranged meets, dogging or otherwise, they can invite who they like. Me and Satin never invite straight guys to our meets. Why do you think this is an original idea anyways? Jeeez, just about every cruising area in the world is a guy only zone ain't it :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
I wasn't talking about gender, i was talking about orientation.
Maybe i didn't make it quite clear... What i was looking for here was to see if a meet could be set up (by anyone ) where it wasn't important what gender you "copped off with " was.
My impression at the moment is that the current setup "as is " is a selective environment for bi women and straight males. Any straight males at these do's would have to meet my friend Ben Dover and Strapon Sally.
It's not a case of inviting, it's a case of who turns up.
So could I attend one, and if not , why not ?
Hmmmm...... Let me put it to you again. As far as i am concerned , if a Bi-only meet went out, and only men turned up ( no women) i wouldnt have a problem with that ... neither should anyone else. after a few meets, it becomes a selective environment for bi-onlys (or gays )
If women then started turning up for some action , pretty much everyone will know everyone else , at least by first name. And anyone who dosent like a bit of muff diving is going to look out of place.
This goes towards the thread Rainbow had on her forum topic about bi's being marginalised .
venusnmars said that maybe bis should form their own group ( and not depend on Lesbian/gay or Swingers groups) . Well, maybe they should, and have it as open on the free sites as the " normal" dogging and swinging meets.
I get the impression you may be hostile to such a group.... is this a power/domination issue on your part? 200 miles is NOTHING to me !
Ok..... sorry about the rant ...... The request for an invite was purely rhetorical , as i'm sure you can have guessed on mature recollection.
I apologise for the tone of the previous comments as much as i can do,
All i can say is that if bis cant make it here, no matter what gender they are, maybe they would be better off elsewhere
Maybe I am totally wrong.
Apologies if this thread caused so much heated debate.
My intentions were to organise bi's (especially those in the SE) into some kind of grouping that they may be happier with. I know that life is a set of compromises, some cut deeper than most . All i can say is that bluexxx is right . all is serene . if she wants to organise meets for people 200 miles away from her, it's her call. All i wanted to do was find who was amenable to the idea.
I dislike events that are invite only. Although there are security problems with this, there is the problem that good people may be excluded.( good = 9 in or more ...i've seen them)
A lot of people share this view.
So, its up to everybody else ... do you want separate bi only dogging events or not?
I've read it ....I didnt see what was so objectionble about the post...
I've apologised for the whole thread in general..... What more can I do?
Just lock this off.
Just lock off the whole topic....
please.
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