Weve Finally decided to retire form dogging at the tender age of 26 would like to say thank-you to the peolple over the chase last night for everything you prob know who you are when you read this.
1,We put a show on letting peolple watch but theres always one who decides to follow you and at the traffic lights decides to get out and ask if youd like to go anywhere quitier were were half way home for gods sake.
2,Then peolple trying to open your doors while your putting a show on when we said no that meant a no.
Due to all the pushy males last night thanks its been wrecked for everyone one and the guy who followed us you are one sad man and the wife is scared stiff so this will never happen again
Thanks to the genuine peolple you know who you are
jenny and paul
Hi Jenny ande Paul
Sorry to hear you are retirinf from dogging. We know exactly what you mean.
We have been followed home on more than one occasion but fortunately we follow a routine to make sure we are not being followed. Also guys alwyas want more than that is being offered. This really puts Dee off.
Dee and Paul
We always go differant routes home but when someone gets out and knocks ur window its scared the mrs shitless no need for it we put a show on what else do they want
Hi Guys,
I don't blame you to be honest.. i gave up heading out ages ago due to the idiots that have no respect for others.
I know there is no offical set of rules for dogging but the No always means NO and it's just rude to follow someone after they have been out.. if a dogger of any sex or a couple decide to leave then thats normally them done for the night. If they wanted company or to go somewhere else then they would let the others know..
It's just not on for stuff like that to be happen..
Soon if it carries on like this the only people dogging will be blokes ffs.
So the pushy ones will have spoiled it for everybody... but guess they are too stupid to realise..
They wouldn't just get out of a car and walk up to any couple at the traffic lights.. what on earth makes them think it's OK under any circumstances..
anyway hope you guys are ok..
Player
Hi Jenny Paul take no notice of the comment above ours, they are always negative to dunno how they can be with such a stupid symbol on the replies lol
Sorry to hear about last night, but please dont give up. If you do then the idiots have won,have a brek from it but remember there are gen people out there its just a case of finding them.
Good luck and keep having fun.
Eve xx
We are profoundly sorry if we have caused you to think that about us LegsandDinky. You are right we should have been more positive with our comments in the spirit of the original posting. I am sure they will feel better about it all now that you have filled them with optimism after your detailed and positive comments.
Peace
Another couple giving dogging up spoilt by the hair brained idiots that get up there not knowing the rules and ruin it for the genuine ones. Have had good times up there in the past but I think the idiots have spoilt it now.
DJ
So sorry to hear your bad experience, personally i have always been to scared to go dogging, but please do not leave sh. We have talked for so long and i would really miss both of u.
Love to both
Prinny
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This place is like something from High School Musical sometimes.
Surely you dont want to be Zak . You wouldnt wanna wear THAT much makeup!
I wanted to do a more traditional show......was looking forward to the line
"NO ONE puts bloke in the corner !"
Why, oh why, do people not go into a site and when a crowd forms tell them you only want two, it's a show with no handling/fucking, and if they moan say "bye losers, fuck you" and then go ?
Standard pro for someone who isn't liking a fight is to lock your doors anyway....nobody hangs around in a layby or carpark at night with the doors unlocked...do they ?
You wouldn't drive through many areas of london at any time with the doors unlocked, would you ? (!)
When did being a dork become SOP in dogging ?
HAving met you and i feel i know you reasonably well...i cannot knock your decision only say how sorry i am that you feel that you need to take this decision, yes we all know there are arseholes out there who do spoil things
This type of behaviour is whats killing dogging
But anyways if you like an arranged outdoor meet away from the traditional dogging sites i for one as you know but be more than willing
Good luck with everythin and hope to see you again soon
All i can say is sorry for the idiots who think that when you go dogging that the couples are after someone to shag they seem to miss out the fact that a show is proberbly the best side of it and no one is getting a shag unless the couple let them and should be left at that and not expected so guys grow up and take a hint
Look.
Most of the "guys" are there for a shag.
They do not want a "show".
So the best thing to do with a couple who only show when you want a shag, is to get them out of there.
JTS i think your wrong , there are that few couples knocking about now days that most single guys will be happy to take anything , most are respectful the ones that arent are over keen and soon get roped back by people who know how to behave.
did all the couples who play in carparks turn up an start shagging the 1st time they went out ??? no most of them started out doing shows an then things evolved
now all the new couples who are only showing are going to be outed by genuine doggers who only want a shag ? :cry: well thats f$%&£d that then
lots of diffrent things in dogging enough for everyone as long as idiots dont spoil it but i think the idiots are winning !
Firstly djduck22 we hope you too are ok and don’t let this experience stop you having fun outside.
We love outdoor fun and get out as often as the weather allows. So far we have only had one dogging experience, allowing some guy to follow us to a secluded spot. I am a Tae Kwon-do 2nd Dan, so felt that the situation was safe enough. It was all going well until the tosser decided to try and stick his hand up Kez’s skirt without an invite. Kez was scared stiff and we quickly left.
We still have an apatite for dogging but on reading this thread and others like it. We are quite put off by the whole dogging scene. For us it’s all about weighing up the fun of being watched against the safety of Kez.