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Single Guys are spoiling it big time!!!

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Weve Finally decided to retire form dogging at the tender age of 26 would like to say thank-you to the peolple over the chase last night for everything you prob know who you are when you read this.
1,We put a show on letting peolple watch but theres always one who decides to follow you and at the traffic lights decides to get out and ask if youd like to go anywhere quitier were were half way home for gods sake.
2,Then peolple trying to open your doors while your putting a show on when we said no that meant a no.
Due to all the pushy males last night thanks its been wrecked for everyone one and the guy who followed us you are one sad man and the wife is scared stiff so this will never happen again
Thanks to the genuine peolple you know who you are
jenny and paul
Hi Jenny ande Paul
Sorry to hear you are retirinf from dogging. We know exactly what you mean.
We have been followed home on more than one occasion but fortunately we follow a routine to make sure we are not being followed. Also guys alwyas want more than that is being offered. This really puts Dee off.
Dee and Paul
We always go differant routes home but when someone gets out and knocks ur window its scared the mrs shitless no need for it we put a show on what else do they want
Hi Guys,
I don't blame you to be honest.. i gave up heading out ages ago due to the idiots that have no respect for others.
I know there is no offical set of rules for dogging but the No always means NO and it's just rude to follow someone after they have been out.. if a dogger of any sex or a couple decide to leave then thats normally them done for the night. If they wanted company or to go somewhere else then they would let the others know..
It's just not on for stuff like that to be happen..
Soon if it carries on like this the only people dogging will be blokes ffs.
So the pushy ones will have spoiled it for everybody... but guess they are too stupid to realise..
They wouldn't just get out of a car and walk up to any couple at the traffic lights.. what on earth makes them think it's OK under any circumstances..
anyway hope you guys are ok..
Player
Hi Jenny Paul take no notice of the comment above ours, they are always negative to dunno how they can be with such a stupid symbol on the replies lol
Sorry to hear about last night, but please dont give up. If you do then the idiots have won,have a brek from it but remember there are gen people out there its just a case of finding them.
Good luck and keep having fun.
Eve xx
We are profoundly sorry if we have caused you to think that about us LegsandDinky. You are right we should have been more positive with our comments in the spirit of the original posting. I am sure they will feel better about it all now that you have filled them with optimism after your detailed and positive comments.
Peace
Another couple giving dogging up spoilt by the hair brained idiots that get up there not knowing the rules and ruin it for the genuine ones. Have had good times up there in the past but I think the idiots have spoilt it now.
Sorry to hear that guys. Hope your ok!!
there's always one "knob" to spoil everything! mad
Ive met you a few times and had a great time the last couple of months and you are a genuine nice couple.
Take care and all the best.
max
DJ
So sorry to hear your bad experience, personally i have always been to scared to go dogging, but please do not leave sh. We have talked for so long and i would really miss both of u.
Love to both
Prinny
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This place is like something from High School Musical sometimes.
hi paul n jenny sorry to here about what happen lastnight im a single guy n i,ve seen it time n time again they just feck it up for every one i now just sit in my car n wait cos the cupls sometimes goto the good guy's if the guy's around them get pushy that's why dogging has gone its ashame when a cupl come out for some fun n some one has to try n get a bit more then other's no need for it....
ps you enjoy your retirement paul n jenny sad :cry: :cheers: for the fun you have given to the true dogger's
Quote by BIoke
This place is like something from High School Musical sometimes.

Lets do the show right here !
Quote by Silk and Big G
This place is like something from High School Musical sometimes.

Lets do the show right here !
1, 2 or 3?
I want Zak Effron... I mean I want to play Zak Effron... I mean I want to BE Zak Effron... although is he a single male.. hold on... confused
Surely you dont want to be Zak . You wouldnt wanna wear THAT much makeup!
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Surely you dont want to be Zak . You wouldnt wanna wear THAT much makeup!

Actually, this is true - apparently he wears more than his female co-stars on and off the set.
Can we still do HSM? I wanna be a Princess....
I wanted to do a more traditional show......was looking forward to the line
"NO ONE puts bloke in the corner !"
dj sorry to hear you had such a bad experience it seems the singlemle zombies are illing it off again i do understand when ive been dogging i have had a few frights but i always keep my doors locked you neve cn be to careful i went doggingin the southwest one evening was sat next to a nice couple in a car all going well they started to play and a bunch of guys jumped on there car wish i hadnt of been parked so close it scared the shite out of me and im a single guy sad
maybe our find a new place where the guys arnt goodluck
takecare have fun x
Why, oh why, do people not go into a site and when a crowd forms tell them you only want two, it's a show with no handling/fucking, and if they moan say "bye losers, fuck you" and then go ?
Standard pro for someone who isn't liking a fight is to lock your doors anyway....nobody hangs around in a layby or carpark at night with the doors unlocked...do they ?
You wouldn't drive through many areas of london at any time with the doors unlocked, would you ? (!)
When did being a dork become SOP in dogging ?
to right you wouldnt go round london without out the doors locked dodgy place but i was in the southwest of england in a rural place thou i know everywhere cant be 100 percent safe but how can you compare that with london security wise its a capital city....... confused
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to right you wouldnt go round london without out the doors locked dodgy place but i was in the southwest of england in a rural place thou i know everywhere cant 100 percent safe but how can you compare that with london....... confused

Cos I was there
HAving met you and i feel i know you reasonably well...i cannot knock your decision only say how sorry i am that you feel that you need to take this decision, yes we all know there are arseholes out there who do spoil things
This type of behaviour is whats killing dogging
But anyways if you like an arranged outdoor meet away from the traditional dogging sites i for one as you know but be more than willing
Good luck with everythin and hope to see you again soon
All i can say is sorry for the idiots who think that when you go dogging that the couples are after someone to shag they seem to miss out the fact that a show is proberbly the best side of it and no one is getting a shag unless the couple let them and should be left at that and not expected so guys grow up and take a hint
Look.
Most of the "guys" are there for a shag.
They do not want a "show".
So the best thing to do with a couple who only show when you want a shag, is to get them out of there.
JTS i think your wrong , there are that few couples knocking about now days that most single guys will be happy to take anything , most are respectful the ones that arent are over keen and soon get roped back by people who know how to behave.
did all the couples who play in carparks turn up an start shagging the 1st time they went out ??? no most of them started out doing shows an then things evolved
now all the new couples who are only showing are going to be outed by genuine doggers who only want a shag ? :cry: well thats f$%&£d that then
lots of diffrent things in dogging enough for everyone as long as idiots dont spoil it but i think the idiots are winning !
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JTS i think your wrong , there are that few couples knocking about now days that most single guys will be happy to take anything ....

:shock:
And THAT'S exactly the type of comment and attitude that gets single guys the reputation they have - desperate is NEVER attractive, which is basically what you are saying they are. So that's kind of a double insult.. to 'most' single guys and to the couples you describe as 'anything'.
I really wish people would think before they post this kind of generalistic shit. I'm a fussy bastard and am NEVER happy with taking 'anything'.
If you said 'most, ugly, overweight, smelly, unwashed, in need of social skills single blokes that only go Dogging as in a half-lit carpark at night they stand a better chance than in daylight as they'd scare the people they watch'... then I might agree with your comment :rascal:
PS: JTS is NEVER wrong lol
Firstly djduck22 we hope you too are ok and don’t let this experience stop you having fun outside.
We love outdoor fun and get out as often as the weather allows. So far we have only had one dogging experience, allowing some guy to follow us to a secluded spot. I am a Tae Kwon-do 2nd Dan, so felt that the situation was safe enough. It was all going well until the tosser decided to try and stick his hand up Kez’s skirt without an invite. Kez was scared stiff and we quickly left.
We still have an apatite for dogging but on reading this thread and others like it. We are quite put off by the whole dogging scene. For us it’s all about weighing up the fun of being watched against the safety of Kez.
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JTS i think your wrong , there are that few couples knocking about now days that most single guys will be happy to take anything ....

:shock:
And THAT'S exactly the type of comment and attitude that gets single guys the reputation they have - desperate is NEVER attractive, which is basically what you are saying they are. So that's kind of a double insult.. to 'most' single guys and to the couples you describe as 'anything'.
I really wish people would think before they post this kind of generalistic shit. I'm a fussy bastard and am NEVER happy with taking 'anything'.
If you said 'most, ugly, overweight, smelly, unwashed, in need of social skills single blokes that only go Dogging as in a half-lit carpark at night they stand a better chance than in daylight as they'd scare the people they watch'... then I might agree with your comment :rascal:
PS: JTS is NEVER wrong lol
Firstly bloke you can reply and try and be a smart arse all you like picking the pieces out of the comment taking exception to certain words exaggerating the point and making an issue out of a simple statement.
the fact of the matter is i was actually trying to say that we as a couple find %99 of all the single blokes we make contact with amiable polite and very respectful , obviously we havent met JTS who for want of a better word sounds like a complete prat.
Dogging is in fact and i have got this from the site a combination of voyeurism and Exhibitionism men being the former and women the latter now its different strokes for different folks but there still needs to be the respect shown from all.
when all said and done dogging without couples has no future.......
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Dogging is, in fact, and I have got this from the site; a combination of voyeurism and Exhibitionism, men being the former and women the latter, now its different strokes for different folks but there still needs to be the respect shown from all.
When all said and done dogging without couples has no future.......

The future is written on the wall (or road).
Dogging, along with cruising and cottaging, is regarded as anti-social behaviour.
Laws protect the gay community from being targeted with action, but they are circumvented by anti-social behaviour laws....which have no need for "proof" for action to be taken (no, no arrests Mr G....but it is being used to close down or limit opening of places).
And with the closure of places, other places become more crowded. And more "active" (as in movement-active).
As for single guys....anyone who stays in one place will miss the action in another (well-known "fact", which explains the amount of movement).
I can't be arsed to drive around, too much fuel used.
Oh, and he's right: I'm never wrong, except when I'm not right.
And the other is right too: I am a complete prat.
I must be, nobody except a prat would sit in a layby for 4 hours with two dozen cars racing up-and-down (and a naked guy walking up-and-down trying to get a wank or blow job.....with a temperature of 3%C......hypodickthermia)