Hey all, I'm new here and looking to make friends and get into dogging, is there anyone what would like to show me the ropes and maybe tell me the best places or even come with me?
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Single male looking for dogging fun in portsmouth tomorrow
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Mtl, please dont take it personally that no one has replied or arranged anythng with you. It is really a numbers game.
Have a look through the dogging forum and just look how many single males are advertising, then look how many couples are wanting to meet single guys, and you will see that there is far more men than couples, and a lot of the couples only want other couples. You also have to remember that the couple doesnt always need to advertise. They can go out any dogging car park and there will always be someone around, so unless they are looking for a particular kind of person, then they dont need to post an advert.
Competition is also something else to consider. A lot of the doggers have spent hours and hours driving round, sitting about and doing some investigation to find the best places to go. They dont want to be giving details of these places out to others, as it is lowering their chances by increasing the competition.
So, how do you get round all this, well you need to stand out from the crowd. You need to be something special (and I dont necesarily mean physically special). You need to put in some effort with your profile and your posts. Make sure that YOU are the only male that any couple would ever want to meet, show your personality and most of all get some decent photos on. You may also be lowering your chances by being 'with someone' but playing alone, as alot of swingers dont play with people who they know are playing behind their partners back (however, some do think this is ideal as there are less complications).
So good luck with it all, and be aware that dogging requires lots of patience and dont believe a word you read in the papers
Have a look through the dogging forum and just look how many single males are advertising, then look how many couples are wanting to meet single guys, and you will see that there is far more men than couples, and a lot of the couples only want other couples. You also have to remember that the couple doesnt always need to advertise. They can go out any dogging car park and there will always be someone around, so unless they are looking for a particular kind of person, then they dont need to post an advert.
Competition is also something else to consider. A lot of the doggers have spent hours and hours driving round, sitting about and doing some investigation to find the best places to go. They dont want to be giving details of these places out to others, as it is lowering their chances by increasing the competition.
So, how do you get round all this, well you need to stand out from the crowd. You need to be something special (and I dont necesarily mean physically special). You need to put in some effort with your profile and your posts. Make sure that YOU are the only male that any couple would ever want to meet, show your personality and most of all get some decent photos on. You may also be lowering your chances by being 'with someone' but playing alone, as alot of swingers dont play with people who they know are playing behind their partners back (however, some do think this is ideal as there are less complications).
So good luck with it all, and be aware that dogging requires lots of patience and dont believe a word you read in the papers
Hey thanks for than 
makes sence now, really didnt look at it that way. I didnt mean any offence in my other posts, just wondered why noone had replied. also i take your point about couples, problem is getting to be a couple is hard lol hence the ad :)
makes sence now, really didnt look at it that way. I didnt mean any offence in my other posts, just wondered why noone had replied. also i take your point about couples, problem is getting to be a couple is hard lol hence the ad :)Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Mtl, please dont take it personally that no one has replied or arranged anythng with you. It is really a numbers game.
Have a look through the dogging forum and just look how many single males are advertising, then look how many couples are wanting to meet single guys, and you will see that there is far more men than couples, and a lot of the couples only want other couples. You also have to remember that the couple doesnt always need to advertise. They can go out any dogging car park and there will always be someone around, so unless they are looking for a particular kind of person, then they dont need to post an advert.
Competition is also something else to consider. A lot of the doggers have spent hours and hours driving round, sitting about and doing some investigation to find the best places to go. They dont want to be giving details of these places out to others, as it is lowering their chances by increasing the competition.
So, how do you get round all this, well you need to stand out from the crowd. You need to be something special (and I dont necesarily mean physically special). You need to put in some effort with your profile and your posts. Make sure that YOU are the only male that any couple would ever want to meet, show your personality and most of all get some decent photos on. You may also be lowering your chances by being 'with someone' but playing alone, as alot of swingers dont play with people who they know are playing behind their partners back (however, some do think this is ideal as there are less complications).
So good luck with it all, and be aware that dogging requires lots of patience and dont believe a word you read in the papers
Sex God
Your welcome Mtl, and I do hope you find what your looking for
