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HIYA FEMALE GOING SHIRLEY HILLS 2NIGHT ON MY OWN . NOT WITH THE OTHER SURE IF ITS A GOOD IDEA OR NOT BUY IM GOING TO GIVE IT A TRY. HOPE TO MEET SOME MEN UP THERE. IM UP FOR MOST THINGS.
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HIYA FEMALE GOING SHIRLEY HILLS 2NIGHT ON MY OWN . NOT WITH THE OTHER SURE IF ITS A GOOD IDEA OR NOT BUY IM GOING TO GIVE IT A TRY. HOPE TO MEET SOME MEN UP THERE. IM UP FOR MOST THINGS.
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you must be mental. We may like having fun with women dogging, but a female on your own? A bit of common sense would say don't do it. Always have at least someone with you to prevent anything turning nasty and to watch your back. A single woman is really asking for trouble. I really hope you had second thoughts about this and I am concerned about your safety.
Can I also say if anyone goes up there tonight to keep an eye out for to make sure she is ok
Mal
lol
be safe, not silly, anyone going ensure the prats are dealt with.
A once in a lifetime don't fu** it up fpr all the good guys....... mad :x
See my comment in this thread
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/12406.html
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See my comment in this thread
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/12406.html

and also my reply lol !
Mal
:lol:
Being a veteran of Shirley Hills all I can say is although I saw a single woman ONCE, she didn't stay two minutes and simply flashed her tits and drove off without even looking around...
There is NO route of escape from this venue save for a 6 feet wide barrier and ALL the way around are thick trees and hedges with no possibilty to drive through them. So when you CAN escape from the boy racers who park up there and taunt you, should you run into a real nutter you are done for.
But my views on this venue are well known by now...
Hxx
Good point Heather. Escape routes are very important. When I discover or am told about a new location, I always check it out first, in day light, and then when I do go there to play, I have a mental map of the immediate surroundings, and a possible escape route planned already. This may seem silly to some, but it's just common sense. I do prefer to play at locations I know very well. In fact, the local spot near me, I've known since I was a kid and I could walk round the woodland there blindfolded. There are certain places I know that are very busy with cruisers, temptingly so in fact, but are just too dangerous due to the amount of nutters that go there to queer bash and rob people. I would not go to these places on my own, or with a partner, not at night at least. Who I'm with is irrelevant really, if I don't feel safe somewhere, it doesn't matter if I'm alone or in company, if the potential for trouble is high, it's no go. Dogging is all about common sense, whether you're single or a couple, male or female.
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HIYA FEMALE GOING SHIRLEY HILLS 2NIGHT ON MY OWN . NOT WITH THE OTHER SURE IF ITS A GOOD IDEA OR NOT BUY IM GOING TO GIVE IT A TRY. HOPE TO MEET SOME MEN UP THERE. IM UP FOR MOST THINGS.
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He is Mental!!! rolleyes
you must be mental. We may like having fun with women dogging, but a female on your own? A bit of common sense would say don't do it. Always have at least someone with you to prevent anything turning nasty and to watch your back. A single woman is really asking for trouble. I really hope you had second thoughts about this and I am concerned about your safety.
Can I also say if anyone goes up there tonight to keep an eye out for to make sure she is ok
Mal
thanks for all your replys. i did'nt manage to get up there last night but i will go up there 2night on my own, i can handle myself but thanks for your concerns. xxx
I agree with the dangers above, but boy i would love to see it :!: :!: :!: :!: :!: :!:

Erm... can anyone else tell what im thinking?..AHEM!!
rolleyes
To Incomplete,
I would like to ask you to read through this thread, think about the reaction you have received from your posting that you will be going alone to this dogging venue, then have a little word with yourself.
To announce that you are a single female going alone to a venue is maybe irresponsible; to ignore the advice of people like blue, Heather and mal609 is madness.
Please be aware that you do not have to be a member of this site to read the ads in the forum, any tom dick (excuse the pun) Harry or axe wielding psycho can access them and you have told them where to go.
Please do not think I am writing this to have a go at you, I am genuinely concern for your safety. If you are going to go alone to a venue, try arranging to meet people first through the forum and let somebody know where you are going.
As they say, be safe not sorry.
why should it be different for a women? then a man going up there. i am going up there 2night on my OWN and im not worried.i have had no problems going up there on my own as of yet. xx pm for details single men welcome
Good luck, bearing in mind that you have been going up there for a while, you may feel as comfortable as i do where i go, been going there since i was 14 :!:
If i know the majority of doggers like i think i do, from being alone and with my wife, then you should be ok. I have never encountered any probs, had a few wierdos, but they were quickly moved on by the rest cool
The only concern i would have if it was my wife would be someone wanting you all to thenselves, and going to any means to see if they can get their way :!:
Not that i would let my wife do it, i would go with her, but be in the background so i could keep an eye out (one of my fantasies lol)
went up there friday saw nothing
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went up there friday saw nothing

because in my opinion shes talking nonsense!.
but thats my opinion rolleyes
come up there and i will proove im for real. iv got people on this site you can ask. guys that have met me up there. maybe your not looking harder enough as there are a few car parks and roads surounding shirley hills that i like to shouldnt make judement when you dont no what your talking about
where is shirley hills guys??
It's very close to where you say you are from on your profile - hang on, you haven't said where you are, so we cannot say whether it's close to you or not!
Mal
lol
Hi there incomplete. I'm a 22yr old bi guy & I'd love to see you there. I'll certianly be down this early evening.
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come up there and i will proove im for real. iv got people on this site you can ask. guys that have met me up there. maybe your not looking harder enough as there are a few car parks and roads surounding shirley hills that i like to shouldnt make judement when you dont no what your talking about

I can understand why dogging regulars should feel protective of "incomplete" (strange handle) or any woman going dogging on her own, but as another poster's said, any single person, M or F, is vulnerable out in the dark on their own, and to be blunt men can be too. I think there's a wider issue here, of the freedom, or not, of women to do what they want. If a woman wants to have dogging fun, why should she have to drag a bloke along? Similarly, if a woman wants to have a drink in a pub on her own (something men take for granted being able to do), why shouldn't she? Yes, there are nutters and misogynists out there who can be a danger, but "incomplete" sounds pretty street-smart and savvy to me, and I believe her when she says she can handle herself (tho' I'd much prefer to do the handling myself, yuk, yuk wink )
Yes, I'm a bloke, but my sister in her 'wilder' days was usually up for it and had a very active sex life with lots of one-nighters with men, any of whom could have been a nutter. She enjoyed it then and doesn't regret it even though she's 'settled down' now.
Just my 2 Euro's worth as a dogging virgin....
Mr LIckingham
Your pic looks a bit scary to me .... lol
and is thatthe shirley nr croydon - if it is i may be game -email with a pic and what time yr goin and wot car to look out for (dont wanna approach the wrong person!!!!!)
Good on ya girl for givin it a go and hope u enjoy yrself
Good luck and have fun
Paul
let me no if anyone would like to take part again
im pm me when your next up their . biggrin
i'm going up tonight from 10-11pm onwards