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Another night out dogging... and we went to two locations around stoke, n yet again, there was just a couple of cars parked up, and yes u guessed it single men in!!
it seems me and my partner have to come relise dogging is getting to the point where its just single men hoping for a couple to turn up so he can shag her n forget it!!
like tonight for example, at one car park there were 3 other cars. each had a single man in it... and before we knew it there was one outside my pessenger door peering right in, as i put down the window to tell him to f :censored: k off, the other two blokes were standing in front of the car trying to get a bit!! i mean ffs we were only sitting there n had only been there for a couple of mins!! so after telling them all to f :censored: k off home, i drove off at high speed and tried to knock one off them over!!
tonight has really put my gf off this!! and pissed me off!!
i mean we are both young early 20's and want some fun i dont mind letting some men occasionally have a bit!! but there never seems to be anything extra in it for me!! so now ive bored u all, good night and god bless. xx
so is doggin all down hill from here?? i think so
Yes, but that's what you GET in car parks.
If you don't want single guys you put an ad in "lets meet tonight" etc...
Something like:
"Young couple want to meet other couples for sex and a chat about decorating and cars
would meet in hotel but car parks gives us a good moan, so we'll meet there"
Or maybe some other format.
Lets face it, your chance of NOT getting watched by single guys is so small that there's more chance of Stan Collywobble dancing a jig on your bonnet while balancing Jordan on his dick.
Yes, but that's what you GET in car parks?? we we used to get a couple of couples!! but it seems all the men have scared them on!!
put an add in lets meet tonight?? not much point in this doggin section the really is there??
we dont mind getting watched just wud be nice to see another couple now and again!!
and my point is dip shit... that there single men everywhere just out for a shag as previsouly stated
Stan Collywobble dancing a jig on your bonnet while balancing Jordan on his dick!! well the papers wud love that one eh!!
If all you were doing was just sitting there and they came over to your car, they would soon realise there isn't going to be a show !, rather than telling them to F*** O**, wind your window down, have a chat with them, its surprising what you can find out. We did this in stoke the other night, and we found out which carparks are more likely to have couples in, and at what time of night. PM us and we'll let you know!, It can be off putting for the female when they come to your car un-invited, but let her know that not all car parks are like this. We think we know which one your talking about, and is always full of eager males!!, we try to avoid it, and stick to the quiter locations where they don't come over until invited.
As a single male dogger there are males out there that think if they go to an area known for dogging that they are guaranteed a shag. Unfortunately after the Stan Collymore publicity I think dogging in Staffordshire is dead at the moment or just full of young men who don't know the rules. I have dogged for a while now & treat couples that turn up with the utmost respect if they don't want to put on a show or let you join in that is there right & you must respect that. There are couples that still enjoy dogging but I think they are thin on the ground because of the bad publicity recently & usually arrange to meet off this site first. Unfortunately as a single male this means it is very hard at the moment for genuine people like myself.
Bridgette - now ive calmed down, i relise maybe we shud of just had abit of a chat, but i just saw red!! i guess!! and i am sorry to the people who i had ago at!
Alan - HI, well it was nice hearing from u, a genuine dogger whoes got some respect. its just now we mainly see car parks full of young single men!! who think they can do wat they want!!
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If all you were doing was just sitting there and they came over to your car, they would soon realise there isn't going to be a show !.

It aint necessarily so! Rob and I were at a site the other night getting amusement from a guy circling our car for FORTY FIVE MINS in the pouring rain.
No, we hadn't invited him over...
No, we weren't giving him a show...
No, we weren't doing anything to encourage him.
See - we could taken offense to this; being having his face in the window for so long... but really - what's the point. We know the score, we know that there are idiots around and it's not worth getting heated over.
It's a shame that dogging has come to this, but I think we should just accept it and maybe find it amusing. And a little sad!
yeah maybe we should just do it to take the piss!!
let them stand out side for ages, hoping they will get abit, when we r in the car nice and warm with the heaters on laughing at them!! hehe sounds good!! even better if it was raining!!
whats up now brigette?? explain ur self women!!!! xx
That will upset the genuine doggers, we all need them !, i know its annoying when your just wanting to find another couple, but they are out there ! honest, just take a bit more finding. sounds like you need to find another site where they aren't so eager.
Actually, the single MEN are the doggers, not the couples.
"Dogging", originally meant following couples to WATCH them shagging.
Now "dogging" has become couples shagging and "doggers" are the watchers.
Which you'd know, except you're a 2 week vet of shit-all not a 30 year dogger.
Or else you're another dickhead news-rag waster after another "true" story.

As for "signs"...yes...the newer entrants to the game don't bother about them.
If you're waiting for another couple, why not ask the guy wandering about if there are any there....or just tell him you ain't showing ?
Or is it just too simple ?
I could go to a layby tonight out northants and guarantee that there will be two couples just waiting for each other....but since neither bothers with "signs" and neither gets out of the car....they ain't going to find each other are they ?
As I said, "dogging" is now couples putting on a show.
Couples looking for couples is swinging...at least until someone changes swinging to mean something else.
I couldn't have put that better if I tried Jomu. I'm that fed up with the newbies around here I've given up dogging, at least for a few months.
Harry0
One of the oldest doggers around. wink
right maybe it wud be easy for me to agree... but like times change so does doggin... and u need to keep up with it.. alot poeple on the dogging forum are couples seeking couples, u can clearly see this when u read other posts...
seems now adays the idea of dogging is gone tits up!! then, cause different people think different things about it.
n about it being single men watching?? well how it was the other night they wanted to do alot more then watch!!
the idea of dogging now just seems to be sex in a car
Quote by harry0
I'm that fed up with the newbies around here

wells thats a good atitude.. we all have to start some where, and learn the ropes... or if us so called newbies werent interest.. one day wen ur past it. dogging will decease. so without us newbies, dogging one day will be no more
Quote by RobandMarie
It's a shame that dogging has come to this,

couldnt agree more!!
Quote by gregisthegod
I'm that fed up with the newbies around here

wells thats a good atitude.. we all have to start some where, and learn the ropes... or if us so called newbies werent interest.. one day wen ur past it. dogging will decease. so without us newbies, dogging one day will be no more
My previous post referred to the newbies in my 'dogging area'. I have been a dogger since the early 1970's and there weren't any problem until just over a year ago when the press cottened on to it. Several press invasions since then, with the attendant publicity has brought in many newbies who aren't prepared to learn or follow the rules, have spoilt it for most, if not all those, who did obey the rules.
As Jomu said couples looking for couples is Swinging whether indoors or out. Dogging is a couple putting on a show 'al fresco' for anyone who wants to watch, and possibly participate.
New definitions placed on dogging by newbies isn't going to change the way true doggers act and work their areas.
Harry0
well thopic think this topic has enlighted me some what, seems alot of new single men have become involed in dogging just cause they think they r allowed to have a shag. i didnt mean to offend anyone!! might even start going out on my own n do some watching insead of always putting on a show!!
id just thought id say that i agree with jomu, about the male is the dogger and they watch the show.. but its not the point!! it dont give them the right to jump out there car and walk right over to my car and peir right through the window!!
The couples are on here because the press say dogging is couples.
When they've been in the game longer than 10 minutes, they get into the swinging scene.
You'd be surprised how many start dogging then disappear into the swinging underworld (!)
Dogging won't change, it's been around for decades and it'll be around for decades more.
I still see the same guys about that have been doing it for over 10 years, and I know some that've been doing it for over 30 years..
You're never going to get a car park without doggers. And if you think you are alone, you aren't.
Quote by jomu
And if you think you are alone, you aren't.

arrrhhh im scared now!!
Now this is why i said i was going to said jump in, and it seems the singles have. Im asingle voyeur lover, but is waiting till fuss dies down.
yeah i dont blame u roger!!! ive had a fair few pm's after about this post, sayin at the moment is bad for dogging, due to the press n all that, so it seems like loads of single blokes have joined up for the wrong reasons!!
As yet ive been to none, My time will come, unless the masses spoil it for me. When the heat dies down, i will join the fun,Till then i will try and get to my friends in holland, have been promised a tour of their finest in eindhoven...They KNOW how to party... biggrin
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They KNOW how to party... biggrin

yeah and so does we brits!!