Pretty much says it in the questions.
All you lady doggers out there, how long do you like your sessions to last with the single males out there that you share yourself with?
Im assuming that unlike when at home with your partner, you dont like the whole hour long build up of teasing and foreplay, then the making sure your fill each others needs?
Obviously your not always in the same mood everytime you go out, but, does that mean you just want it hard and frantic for a damn good few minutes, or do you still expect as reasonable show?
Does it change depending how many men you have cueing up for you?
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Also when your sharing your services, do you want to see that your needs are met, or do you see yourselves there give these lads what they desire (Within reason!)?
having just looked through some of your previous postings, i see that your partner accompanies you on dogging excursions, so, how does she feel about the sexual duration thing? naughtywigan's point is correct, increasingly, guys on this forum, and at venues, imagine that dogging is going to involve sexual contact. whilst this does happen, it should not be the assumption that it all too often it has become...
Dont think you are in the minority Tracy-Jayne, think it is more like an even split between couples who play and those who show, but what does annoy me is when some people automatically think that everyone who goes out dogging wants someone to play or join in. And they very often think they are going to get more than just a grope, but want the full monty! I am not saying we would never want to take things further, I really dont know. If the time/person/surrondings were just right, then maybe we would go further.
Its each to their own and surely there is room for everyone in the car parks but please can the guys remember that not every lady dogger wants a quick shag (sorry to be so vulgar but dont know how else to say it)
Its true , theres no judgement made by those that dont want contact . Though we dont do it ourselves we say good luck to anyone who wants a quick grope to a full carpark gangbang ( and would happily watch it LOL hint hint ) . However as The Naughties and the Dirtys say it has become something of an expectation . As weve mentioned before its very insulting when having dressed up and braved the cold , half your audience walks off after ten minutes because " it doesnt look like a join in " .
Theres room for everyone and theres always someone who enjoys what you do , in fact there are many dogger who actually prefer the watching alone . We dont mind doggers being uninterested unless theres contact , if thats all they are there for fine , but they should bear in mind that they should NOT approach the car unless its obvious contact has been invited implicitly- or they risk being called names (or worse ) by me when they walk away . Doggers should also remember that new couples may often only show off for a long time until one evening they decide participation is what they fancy . Bet your boots those that walked off when they were showing wont be front of their list for players when they decide that .
Anyway so as not to completely hijack the original thread , we quite like our doggers to be reasonably quick . Dont for get that for couples the foreplay starts when they first get in the car and drive to the site . Anticipation is often half the fun , and Silky likes to SEE the appreciation of her audience before she gets lost in the sexual haze . On top of that it always feels a bit selfish when we are both finished and Silky is 'wearing' the evidence all over her and there are still two guys who havent ' popped their corks' . So spare us the guilt and if you ever see the SilknGmobile , whip the cocks out and get the elbow working as quick as pos :-)
Sorry yeah im fully aware that a large number of doggers out there dont "Swing", i just assumed that since the question was aimed purely at those that do "swing" (if thats the right word to use) then those that didnt wouldnt feel the need to answer.
And i completely appreciate that dogging isn't just about the lad getting a quick seeing to - hence my second question - "Also when your sharing your services, do you want to see that your needs are met, or do you see yourselves there give these lads what they desire (Within reason!)?"
Anyway i apologise - i really should read my posts again and again as more than once i have failed to see how it could be took to be offensive or selfish of me - when thats the last thing i am aiming for!
Edited to add: having read through all of the posts, rather than the first two, i really must express i seriously wasnt assuming that its all about going down to a car park and getting some action!
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