Why is it that there seems to be a epidemic of people who cannot keep theire mouths shut about naming placers in this area, is this a local disease or a national one?
How long is it going to take for it to sink in that is what pms on this site are for?
We live in this area and nearly all the dogging locations are now ruined by people who do not put the brain into gear before the mouth, all this is doing is confirming the saying "Yorkshire born, Yorkshire bred, strong of arm and thick in the head!
What with press and BIB intrest in this way of life, surely the time has come for people to button it with the naming of places here and on other sites.
It seems to us that these people will be the first to moan "this place is ruined" "police activity" and best of all "we got busted" this is after telling the BIB where they are going to be! FFS
Please use the head, that is what it is for.
your all lucky i cant find anywhere to go full stop might have to put a dogging spot in my back garden if this carries on lol
Hey how are you
I totally agree if you have half a brain all locations would be kept very secret
the thing is locations are posted on several sites all over the internet...
and all the high profile stuff in newspapers hasent done it any favours at all
if you look under dogging,and the areas they even mension the road numbers and the names of the places,or is it just me who can see them. :shock:
I'm very sorry if I have taken this Thread the wrong way and I dont mean to be offensive or insult anyone but it seems to me that we have a few new members to the site, some for a few weeks, others for one day only and they are already pulling the site to pieces!
Why bother using it if is so bad?
The other option is to do it the old fashioned way . Where doggers just use word of mouth . Which with many of them translates to plain old lies . The number of posts complaining about over crowding of sites is probably fairly equal with those complaining of not enough people around . As the mods have stated its the people ' arranging ' meets on the board that spoil the sites . If you tell two doggers youve told a hundred , and by the time the information gets to number twenty dogger it wont just be you there it will be seventeen couples in a no holds barred orgy that everyones is expecting .
The site list here is by no means the only one on the net , and isnt anywhere near the most comprehensive .
Dogging has never really been about arranged meetings , and as such what kept the numbers down was the chance that no one would turn up . The shit doggers , and impatient couples wouldnt sit and wait long enough to crowd the site , they would drive off and leave the sites for those that had the real fun . Many couples now desire fame and noteriety and whilst they complain , in fact they love the feeling of power that too many doggers gives them . Many love nothing more than to attract lots of doggers to a site by regular visits then come on here and complain about it .
If you want arranged guaranteed meetings , have a party , do a hotel or a club , but it isnt what dogging is for . Put simply if it isnt arranged in advance then no advertising is required , so no one will find out anything except where the site is .
Thats how we see it anyway
all i was saying is the list of dogging sites on here is just as bad as mensioning them on threads,it isnt rocket science for the bib to make a list from there and just visit them,if the list wasnt there on any of the sites it would have been better,as for new members on here,yes we are but not too the swinging and dogging scene,it dosnt make people perfect because they are members of a swinging site on comp.
some months ago,a new,young couple announced their intentions to "show" for the first innocence,they posted both the location and exact time on the public board. jomu was straight onto it,followed by myself,but alas the damage had been done. guys were throwing references to the venue faster than the moderators could wipe them off. the couple apolagised,and announced the cancellation of the proposed event.........................................................................................................................................................................the cancellation was a next day,there was a follow up post from the couple,and some of the guys,apparently,it had been like the M25 that night,whereas,the usual compliment off doggers would amount to 4 or 5,on this occasion there were bodies upshot was,the couple announced dogging wasn't for them after all. the point is,thats what happened when the guys thought the show had been cancelled!!.......................................................................................................................................................................the venues we use are well publisised,they are not secret locations,and have been featured in the press on more than one ,i for one,wouldn't want to announce to the world that we would be there at pm on thursday,lets face it,nobody would turn up!!
No one said we thought we were perfect, but I just cant understand why you want to use a site that you are saying is causing you problems. Surely if Swinging Heaven is that bad, you wouldnt want to be members?
The boys in blue were visiting these sites long before they were listed on here and on other sites. Does this mean that they do have a bit of common sense and know where to go to find the dogging? You will also find that in the majority of cases the police do not really bother with the doggers, they just ask them to move on, the ones they do bother with are the boy racers.
Perhaps we should also ban newspapers who report on dogging?
Anyway as I said, this is just my opinion. You were quick enough to say what yours was, so surely I am able to say what mine is!
Anyway, end of argument, cant be bothered with it!
'sitting for hours?'
thats what we used to do in the days before the internet sites started up with this, We were quite happy to do this, it seemed much safer then than it does now, the internet has certainly changed things!!!!
Silk & Big G not a truer word said. Your explanation is absoulutly spot on.
We have seen over the past three years dogging degenerate from having loads of good times and loads of action, into what it is in this area, a bloody tea party.
hi wrek
went out saturday night to four locations saturday night including the one you pm'd me about and saw a grand total of three cars so all i got was cold no action and no bloody tea party i would have settled for the tea
Hi Pauly
We went to a party Saturday, was a bit cold for us.
:shock:
now now paulyblade you know very well where to get the action and the tea, sorry that is coffee in this case two sugars if i remember right 
kxx 
and a hot body that'll keep me as warm as toast 
