Surrey; single fem watching... where did I go wrong?

6 Aug 2008

Im pretty new to the dogging scene but totally intrigued by it. I have been going out for a couple of weeks & had much fun... but as a single female it gets a bit, er, busy!
<<Im not taking it personally, I realise that any single fem with a pulse will get more than her fair share of attention at most dogging sites>> wink

However, Im a bit of a voyeur & wanted some advice...
I went to a local dogging spot in surrey on sunday afternoon, it was a bit grim & rainy so I hoped there wouldnt be many people about so I would get the opportunity to watch others play, rather than being watched.
After a while a couple drove around the carpark then pulled up next to me... I was delighted! I could just about see them, they were in a 4x4 so pretty high up tho.
The guy kept looking at me & I maintained eye contact, so he knew I was up for fun. As I couldnt see much, after a while I got out of the car (it was raining at this point... yuk) and stood near their car to get a good view. They were beginning to play, but after a while they just stopped & drove off...
As I dont understand the intricate world of dogging yet, nor fully understand the dos & donts... could I have done something different to further engage the couple? should I have stood nearer / further away, or done some dodgy masonic hand signals??? Id have loved to have watched them screw in the car :P :P :P
It was still a horny experience... and looking for more fun.
Any advice gratefuly received (Ive read all the dogging etiquette, rules , locations etc on here)
xx

7 Aug 2008

hi m52 f48 we like dogging we are also in surrey get back to us maybe we can meet up you can watch us thanks s/t

7 Aug 2008

Hi Lucy
We have chatted in chat room before iam a bit like u like to watch and sometimes if right get involved fancy joining me tonite. If u need reference and know why girl we have done a bit of bird spotting together on the top of sainsburys car park lol.
Nicky

7 Aug 2008

Hi we are not that far away from u, if you fancy meeting up With us one night feel free to contact us,

8 Aug 2008

i would think if you went with a bloke (even a fellow voyeur) you'd be less likely to get hassle..
btw how was your party and how can i get invited to the next one?
sean

8 Aug 2008

I think the one bit of advice, that is worth anything, is that if there's no "meat" showing inside, you don't show any outside. And vice-versa. This is not to say that you wander around with your bits and pieces open to the air, but maybe they were put-off by the view outside ?
Or maybe you were wandering about starkers....you don't say...but I wouldn't have thought they would have driven away if that was the case ?
Couples are funny like that, some only go so far and then stop and go somewhere else, and do the same again....

8 Aug 2008

Thank you very much for your replies & pms - most useful... certainly lots to take on board & learn; but half the fun is the experiential journey!
ahhh, with the gift of hindsight I'd have been well in there :P :P

8 Aug 2008

Good luck hun...I will be in touch. smile

9 Aug 2008

Hey Big Lucy, dont know if you remeber me from the surry meet but have to say didnt know you were into dogging, learn something new every day smile

anyway i'm still new to this to but if you have any tips I'd love to hear them.
Mtl

9 Aug 2008

Dear Lucy :P
OK, so you need some good advice? Then here goes...
My limited experience wink

has taught me that the best way to go about impressing people at Dogging sites is to take the 'direct' approach. I think you were privy to some of this when we last bumped into one another - i.e. for single females (there's usually hundreds at most of the spots I go to so this will help you stand out) lol

go to the MALES side of the car and push your breasts against his window. If he doesn't respond first time jump up and down or if the window is down, even slightly, push said breasts through the crack.
For any single males reading and in need of helpful tips, go the the FEMALES side of the car (MALE if he's bi or simply looking bored) and wave your penis in front of the window. Again - use the 'penis' through crack' approach if you don't make an impression the first time. Both approaches are sure to get a reaction and will definately get you laid :twisted: :lol: cool

OK, OK! Joke! Although based on some of my Dogging experiences, that's typical of some of the approaches I've seen rolleyes

I may be braving the rain and heading out and about tonight and if we bump into one another again, I'll be happy to share more of my 'top tips' - but seriously, if you want any advice other than what I'm sure you've been given already, just holler via PM in here or in person.
I still want to set you my personal challenge of a mutual cock hunt! Think 'It's A Knock Out' but without Stuart Hall :lol: :shock:
R6_biker
xxx

10 Aug 2008

cant belive you didnt take me smackbottom

give me a shout next time... :thumbup:

10 Aug 2008

Hi
We are new to this and are looking for some dogging locations in Surrey not far from Kent/Surrey border.. Can any one give even vague directions to some - as we want to experiment to see if its for us..
Thank you
R&A

10 Aug 2008

Hi Lucy
It might be that the couple in question only go dogging as foreplay and do their shagging at home.
Or that seeing a woman watching was a novelty but ultimately that they get off on seeing male appreciation. Or even that the female half of the couple was put off by being watched by another woman. Or it was their first time and they got cold feet dunno

The fact that you got out for a better view is a pretty clear signal that you were interested but for whatever reason, they weren't. It's just luck of the draw biggrin

10 Aug 2008

Quote by R6_biker
I still want to set you my personal challenge of a mutual cock hunt! Think 'It's A Knock Out' but without Stuart Hall :shock:
R6_biker
xxx

pmsl Biker... thanks for the top tips.... I must remember that next time I'm out.
Sorry I didnt bump into you the other night, but hope to see you again real soon.
& as for the challenge.... sounds like a whole lotta fun! Instead of notches on the bedposts, we can have notches on our steering wheel / handlebars biggrin

:D :D
xx

10 Aug 2008

Quote by ladyzena
cant belive you didnt take me give me a shout next time... :thumbup:

You keep threatening to spank me Lady Zed.... but everytime I see ya, you're "busy" elsewhere :twisted:
xx

10 Aug 2008

Quote by Big Lucy
pmsl Biker... thanks for the top tips.... I must remember that next time I'm out.
Sorry I didnt bump into you the other night, but hope to see you again real soon.
& as for the challenge.... sounds like a whole lotta fun! Instead of notches on the bedposts, we can have notches on our steering wheel / handlebars :D :D
xx

You missed nothing last night - it was crap! Well apart from one 'straight' hung like a donkey lorry driver lol

See you soon x