Thanks Worksop

6 Mar 2006

Not sure whether this is the right place to post this or whether there is really any point. Nevertheless thanks to the couple at a well known site last night near Worksop. If you read this you will know who you are, even if I dont!
For more public consumption and to explain, I am a relative newbie at this dogging business. Have been to popular site near Nottingham a couple of times and enjoyed it although its a bit like Hyde Park corner at rush hour. Been trying to branch out more locally but without any success in S Yorks area; not sure if been doing anything wrong as several times pulled into car parks in N Derbys, seen a car, parked a discreet distance away, and flashed interior light, only for car to drive away (possibly just courting couples?). Anyway last night happened to be passing Worksop so called at site. A car parked up. Another point, do you lot eat loads of carrots? When I was at Nottingham, people seemed able to discern the identity of occupants of cars as soon as they appeared whereas I, trying to be considerate where I aim car lights, have difficulty working out how many people are in any car and what sex. Anyway pulled up a little way from car last night, flashed with the interior light and, bingo, flash back. Got out and approached with some trepidation. Very friendly couple, take pity on obvious novice, chat briefly. Georgeous blonde, slim, boots and leather skirt (mmm). Put on a bit of a show whilst inviting me to wank, in which she lent a hand and finished the job off and, after wiping down the outside of their passenger door, thanked them, bade them goodnight and left. Just as I always hoped the experience would be. Needless to say, went to work with a rare smile on my face for a Monday!!!
Hope you guys don't mind me sharing the experience. Probably pretty mundane for most of you!!
PS if anyone prepared to help with sites around Sheffield, would be grateful. Pm me. Thanks.

7 Mar 2006

Quote by sam0057
Hope you guys don't mind me sharing the experience. Probably pretty mundane for most of you!!.

don't even begin to doubt the validity of your post mate wink

it was a joy to read, and its definitely appropiate...you are a real dogger, out there doing it for real, and you gotcha a real result..wonderfull..you can't beat it can you? lol

listen up. you'll undoubtedlly recieve PMs from guys wanting to know what make and colour the car was, and what time the couple were there....don't tell the fuckers :lol:
the car leaving the carpark upon you're signal could have several explanations..i wouldn't concearn yourself about all couples want to be signalled, feeling that the dogger is trying to instigate proceedings, whereas, from your perspective, you are only availing them of your dogger the signal stuff gets tricky, and as you point out, they might not have been willing exhibitionists anyway :lol: often the brief illumination that you describe is a good idea, it shows that you are alone..some guys prefer to stand next to their each to their own...you'll never work us couples out sam, we can be temperamental fuckers sometimes :lol: :wink:

7 Mar 2006

good post sam, nice story and glad you had a good time!
Take note of everything the DD's have said, it's very good advice.
And as for us we never flash any lights,

7 Mar 2006

Quote by sam0057
Another point, do you lot eat loads of carrots? When I was at Nottingham, people seemed able to discern the identity of occupants of cars as soon as they appeared whereas I, trying to be considerate where I aim car lights, have difficulty working out how many people are in any car and what sex.

It's not just you Sam, I think you'll find that a lot of other doggers either recognise the car or are just working on the assumption that's a couple - but it's all part of the game!
As for your post, it made great reading, certainly far more interesting than a lot of other posts wink

7 Mar 2006

Quote by dirtydoggers
often the brief illumination that you describe is a good idea, it shows that you are alone..some guys prefer to stand next to their each to their own...you'll never work us couples out sam, we can be temperamental fuckers sometimes

I've got to agree with this. There are many variations on the whole signalling thing, but most now seem not to bother. The genuine doggers know why they are there, and don't tend to use any signals much any more (well.... in the Midlands that seems to be the case, I might be wrong about other areas).
To echo what a few others said, it's nice to read another post from a genuine and considerate dogger, rather than a moan from someone who expects to drive up, meet Claudia Schiffer, shag her and drive off (I still haven't worked out what's wrong with these people - who made their expectations what they are ?).
It is an incredible feeling when you meet others and something happens, and the true anonymity of the meeting really adds something indescribable to the experience.
Well done, good luck and happy hunting.

7 Mar 2006

Quote by marriedmale
To echo what a few others said, it's nice to read another post from a genuine and considerate dogger, rather than a moan from someone who expects to drive up, meet Claudia Schiffer, shag her and drive off (I still haven't worked out what's wrong with these people - who made their expectations what they are ?).

Red top trash alliterated headlines and a large number of paysites! Read and believed by people who only look at the photos and sometimes the first paragraph which is usually in a bolder and bigger print for the terminally hard of thinking.
Imho lol

7 Mar 2006

Quote by marriedmale
It is an incredible feeling when you meet others and something happens, and the true anonymity of the meeting really adds something indescribable to the experience.
Well done, good luck and happy hunting.

And for us it is the anonymity which adds to the whole experience. After reading Serendipity's post the other day it really made me smile and I have to agree that from my persepective, that is what dogging is all about!
Good luck Sam and really hope you have many more experiences like this wink

7 Mar 2006

:thrilled: hi sam great stuff glad it worked for you it sounds like everyone went home happy, oh roll on the warmer nights and lets hear some more happy endings not that the cold has kept us in ha ha but it helps with the fun .
so come on you polite doggers we cant do it without you . :swingingchair: kx

7 Mar 2006

Isnt the anticipation half of the fun, just one more minute they may drive in and then another minute.
The absolute best is you on your own last one left in the car park and a couple pull in, then your praying no one else come pleeeeease.
I used to go to a well known spot near Dartford, more like a cattle market excpet there was more bulls than cows.
I am visiting Nottingham and looking to go to your well known spot on Friday but if you have some advice for a better location please PM me, I would rather go away having seen no one than stand in a crowd around a nervous couple.

7 Mar 2006

well done ,im glad to see im not the only discreet bloke on here ,ive seen blokes scare me i dogging areas so theres no telling what they must do the participating couples.
discretion is the key,and ive found it is always the best aproach.
and yep your second reply was right youll have the usual single males with all there arigance thinking youre as stupid as they are for asking where you went and what type/colours of cars are there......dont tell them.......there just arseholes.
good luck and long may it continue. wink

9 Mar 2006

Hi to all polite doggers
I'm fed up going to blid.. and finding more cars than the M25.
Cpls must be put off by the silly sods who charge around following them from one car park to another. Before we know it we'll end up with single guys only sat there all night with not a fem in sight.
If anyone knows a guieter but used site anywhere around Notts/ area would be greatful to chat and exchange knowledge. Us polite doggers need to stick together and look after the willing cpls, treat them with the respect they deserve and simply get down to good, clean fun without all the hassle that some idiots are causing.
Please PM me if anyone wants to chat and exchange knowledge.
This is Lookmeup99... a genuine and polite dogger who respects all cpls.
lol