The Dogging Evolution

2 Aug 2006

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
hey this thread has got the makings of a good one ,but what dissapoints me is the lack of newish members not coming in and giving some input so to all new comers why donnt you join in and get known :shock:

OK suppose I am a newish member and a single-guy dogger.
I can sympathise with all of the comments - over the hours and hours of waiting I have made friends with other fellow doggers and yes there are some out there who do think every woman must be up for it and gagging for as much cock as they can get. I have also obsevered others who are too shy to approach and are happy to watch from a distance.
As I usually frequent a 'public' place we have to share it with couples who are just there to enjoy the sunshine or wish to do it in private. I find by befriending them you get to know why they are there and can modify your behaviour accordingly as each couple has their own needs and requirements. It is my main philosophy that I am there for the pleasure of them and put them first and satisfy my needs as a secondary action.
With regard to politeness, yes I always like where possible to say 'Thank You' to any couples I have watched or a polite kiss or handshake with those I have played.
My only gripe with this site is that I find those who advertise are not polite in replying even just to say 'No thanks your too old' or '20 miles is too far away' but either they are inundated with replies or perhaps not genuine. Perhaps replying to adverts is like dogging - you have to answer many just to find a genuine one.

2 Aug 2006

Welcome to the forums Doug and what an excellent post, looking forward to reading more of them wink

3 Aug 2006

I agree with alot of your points i find that dogging has changed alot and the people that used to go seem to have either stopped or moved on to other things. I know a few couples that used to go and have paired up with either males or couples and have their own fun in either their homes or clubs. It does appear that some people use dogging as a way of meeting like minded souls for friendship, with a little bit of sex mixed in along the way. Its not a problem with me however NSA (sorry not new sexually transmitted disease) No Strings Attached, is not always no strings as we are all human and we bond and separate like in other areas of society.
The point i am trying loosely to get across is that as dogging has evolved then we as watchers and players must evolve. I know there have been times when i have walked away from the scene for a number of months only to come back and find that most of the people i know have moved on. I know quite a few have moved into the clubs scene, i do agree the lighting is better and not gettin soaked or have a freezing cold gust up the crack of my arse or chased with a big stick are all good points to consider. I just think its each to their own and a bit of variety is all well and good for everyone.

3 Aug 2006

Quote by doug_uk
hey this thread has got the makings of a good one ,but what dissapoints me is the lack of newish members not coming in and giving some input so to all new comers why donnt you join in and get known :shock:

My only gripe with this site is that I find those who advertise are not polite in replying even just to say 'No thanks your too old' or '20 miles is too far away' but either they are inundated with replies or perhaps not genuine. Perhaps replying to adverts is like dogging - you have to answer many just to find a genuine think you can have a gripe with the site,its people who make there minds up,the not polite bit,we have our adds and we state what we are looking forwhy should we reply politely to some one saying "sorry but your to young "if we have a age range already on our add,this tells you the person who has replyed aint took the time to read all our add or either looked at areas and piccys and emailed us or to far away we aint really bothered about as its the dogger who should travel to us ,unless its a really silly distance take it in mind every day we get a lot of emails we take time to read through to find our genuine contact to so works both ways .we get emails asking"why do you want that age,i can accom."and a lot the old "cant post a pic"heres me number its endless and then the same peeps start a winge thread .any way hope you find what you looking for and all the best in your quest.

3 Aug 2006

Sorry guys havent been on the net for a bit as been slaving away at work etc hence the late reply, but just to clarify to NWC we definately werenot offended by ur post guys!!
We were just getting off our chest a few things we had been discussing for a while together about SH dogging forum and the fact that the subject of "cpls meeting cpls were not dogging meets" etc :shock:
We dont get offended (bloody hell we wouldnt have lasted two minuites on here if that were the case!! lol

) by intelligently worded threads, more the "anyone fancy a FÂ£%K" ones that often crop up guys, in fact we like a bit of verbal (well verball via the medium of the net and keyboard) sparring with the more intelligent members of SH that actually bother to write threads and care about the site and ppl who use it for genuine reasons not a route to a fast shag!
DD's as ever brought up some good points in their post and we absolutely have no problem with anything that people want to get out here on the forums its just that lately it seemed like there were lots of people getting into the "cpls who meet cpls aren't doggers" thing and we wanted to try and put a cap on it!! NEcplUK have had the same thread a cpl of wks back i think(??) or something similar and we wereading to the comments we made on that one.
Looking at it another way i suppose it is a good thing that there are ppl contributing to the forum with well written stuff as it has livened up what can be at times a fairly dull place....... at times :lol:
Lookwhat youhave started NWC you heathens :lol: wink

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Emm, dont really know what to say about this now! Steandrachy, you obviously seem quite offended that Ive asked this and that Ive asked people to discuss. It was never meant to be an insult to anyone, and I did say in my posts, Im not having a dig, we all like different things and that is how it should be! We also meet with a couple and we also do meet with a couple of single guys we know, it doesnt mean that what we do is right way to do it, but it also doesnt mean that what you do is the right way. I was not stating that either of us were right, just that dogging had changed, and people no longer seemed to do 'dogging'.
What I was trying to establish is why outdoor swinging is now known as dogging, and has dogging gone! The fact that you have both offered such a lenghty reply, in mind anyway, does mean that this topic is worth discussing and thanks for your input :wink:

3 Aug 2006

G sighs and tries to resist but cant .
Dont try and put a dictionary definition on dogging , its pointless and tiresome .
Dogging is what you want it to be and thats fair enough - but most importantly , if you find that you arent getting what you want from it then why the fcuk whinge at us about it . Either stop doing it , or find a way to do the things you like. Truth is alot of what folks want from dogging is readily available , and has been for ages , elsewhere . So if dogging isnt what you like move on and pick up the shattered pieces of your life . Doggers and couples were doing it before you tried to mould it into some kind of list of rules and regulations and will be after you have gone about your business and are whinging about something else. The main thing is dont bother asking doggers or dogging couples where to go dogging if you dont want single males/crowds/surprises/the cold/unexpected visitors/police cars/ open spaces in general/ having to tell people what you like/generally anything happening that isnt pre planned to the most minute detail. Cos you know what they will tell you either lies or nowt at all . To be honest If I was to try and define what a real dogging couple was like I would say the easiest way to tell them would be that they didnt want people like that in their carpark .
Peace
Edit ..... to save uneccessary replies , this post is NOT aimed at any ONE comment in the thread. No matter how the individual may want it to be :-)

3 Aug 2006

You aimed it as Silk you big bully :cry: lol

:lol:
We will now send you PMs every day asking why you sought to slander us untill you apologise at the next SH social :lol:
haha it has opened up a rather interesting and fiery debate though, i humbly eat pie in front of NWC at there starting this!! wink

3 Aug 2006

It wasnt aimed at anyone guys xxxxx
If you knew me better you would know I never apologise lol

:lol:

3 Aug 2006

Quote by Silk and Big G
It wasnt aimed at anyone guys xxxxx

think you should watch where you pointing the bloody thing lol

>>>off to wash car window :shock:

3 Aug 2006

Im not tall enough to hit the window , unless youre dogging in a Ferrari guys :-)

3 Aug 2006

Quote by Silk and Big G
Im not tall enough to hit the window , unless youre dogging in a Ferrari guys :-)

no just a plane vauxhall(sunk to the hubs in the mud) :cry:

3 Aug 2006

Quote by steanrachy
I humbly eat pie in front of NWC at there starting this!!

OOOhhh, can I watch you eating it, please, go one let me, I love a good old perve :wink: :wink: but dont let Uncle D near to the pie, he loves his pie lol

And you have a pm kiss

3 Aug 2006

Hair pie ? cool

3 Aug 2006

ocean pie, a taste of the sea in every mouthful lol