Hi Fellow Swingers & Doggers,
I am new to the scene and have not got off to a good start....I was invited out to play one evening where I witnessed some pathetic scenes....guys standing around as though they were waiting for a bus, making noise, talking at the top of their voices, complete lack of respect the list goes on......is this what dogging is??? maybe someone can help clarify...
Reading the rules on various sites I thought it was all about mature people out playing with other mature people....where no meant no and limits were respected....
I am lost.....
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Let's be honest though, Dogging isn't an olympic sport is it? so the "rules" are not necessarily followed by all and don't lead to a disqualification if not followed to the letter! (when dogging is a medal winning sport however...... :twisted: )
Tbh, your description of this is a bit vague......what I'm reading is that you were invited out to put on a show and didn't get the rapt attention or respect you expected, or am I misunderstanding? If this is correct, it's hard to clarify anything without having been there
My best shot is, there are unspoken rules, they get broken, there's no umpire.......what can you do? speak to the people who were there about their behaviour or find a more appreciative audience I suppose
Tbh, your description of this is a bit vague......what I'm reading is that you were invited out to put on a show and didn't get the rapt attention or respect you expected, or am I misunderstanding? If this is correct, it's hard to clarify anything without having been there
My best shot is, there are unspoken rules, they get broken, there's no umpire.......what can you do? speak to the people who were there about their behaviour or find a more appreciative audience I suppose
Sex God
Hoopla !!
Serendipity retains her Gold Medal for slightly cynical and amusing advice :-) x
Serendipity retains her Gold Medal for slightly cynical and amusing advice :-) x
Sex God
yeah Jagga we get you . We have felt the same ourselves now and then , but its no use letting it get you down . Sometimes doggers are happy and excited to watch you , and sometimes they are not that bothered and unattentive . It depends what they expected , and on their attitude in general . We have often said doggers owe us nothing , if we dont turn that particular person on then thats not something we should expect . Having said that we dont like it when they still mooch about chatting . If our show isnt what they want they should back off for someone that does like us . That said I think all Serendipity was trying to tell you was , that there are NO RULES except the ones you make . Just cos theyre written down on a few web sites doesnt make them real , at the end of it all youre all just a group of strangers in a carpark . The only rule is , if its not fun .then stop .
Hope your next experience is more pleasant xx
Hope your next experience is more pleasant xx
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That said I think all Serendipity was trying to tell you was , that there are NO RULES except the ones you make . Just cos theyre written down on a few web sites doesnt make them real
Yes, that's exactly what I meant....except G said it better! (or poss Silky, not sure)
I'll shut up now and think about a dogging umpire in a black & white striped top and no trousers :eeek:
Warning: I'm having one of those days again!
