I have for some time now been looking for this particular spot near wisley. im not going to say any more but if someone could possibly pm me with some directions i would be most grateful. hope no mods are gonna kick my head in for asking this. (exact locations and all that)
There are nearly 10 sites in and around the wisley area that see some action from time to time. More rarely not though.
Wisely isnt what it used....oh god here I go, dont get me started on the good old days........
och were all doooomed theres nowhere left.
Actually I think there is a broader point here, that the se of england is crap for any activities. Im convinced the midlands is the place to be.
That said anyone wanna prove me wrong, Im free for the whole weekend so if a urbane, affable 36 yo, tall dark handsome (cough cough) and hygenicly sound male WITH HIS OWN CONDOMS takes yer fancy please please, im beggin ya, for the lords sake...PM me...
(not that im desperate....well ok, I am..sniff sniff)
Sure there's nowt to beat the good old Midlands, my native heath, but I'm stuck in London.
I think we count as the South !
Depends how you count. The Beeb deals with Oxford on the midland regional news. But I think it gets into southern news as well.
Well we havent actually been on the BBC yet , but I reckon Oxon is home counties meself.
Wow, silk n big g, I just gotta say, fabby new website. Dead slik. Whose the demon with the flash outta you two.
Thats one of the best personal websites Ive ever seen.
Cor, wow, impressed, flatter flatter
no it used to be fun there now im lost
hiya we are out tonight at surrey with another couple us girls are going to do a show then have some more fun love jane
I've had some successful meets in Surrey. You've just got to be patient. Mine was direct from the photo-Ads of SH but have had many others just by going to the sites and talking to the "more" normal doggers. Once you get into the community people are pretty helpful. I was even at a site last night and a guy stepped away from a car so that I could have some fun. How respectful is that!!!
Well it had got to midnight last friday night and I was up at the car park nr esher chatting to a couple of the regs as the main wisley site was inaccessible as the A3 is being repaired.
Anyway decided to head home but checked in at SL first. Excellent. Good job I did as I spent the next hour or so in the company of a smashing couple from down southampton way and a couple of adventurous local ladies, plus a few of us late night dogger types. A fun time was had by all, but a special thank you to the lovely girls for all the sexy antics.
Just goes to show ladies are like buses at times, you wait and wait for and then three cum at one, just never make the mistake of comparing them to the rear end of said vehicle.
Ticket system, thats it....well maybe not but a good idea, i find it hard enough to get someone to take pictures of me at it, i'll never get anyone to stand at entrance with ticket machine :violin:
maybe a site conductor could stand there and time people and shout "next" after 2 minutes, but then we are back onto speed dogging. Which by the way if we get the bid for 2012 would be included. A gold medal for dogging.
But on a little more of a serious note maybe the more long term doggers would like to offer to mentor some of the newbies into the ways of the lifestyle, be it email or by joining them at sites. It would be a good way to make friends within the scene.
BB :twisted:
Insomina's bitch tonight
Why bother mentoring them ?
That assumes a brain at the listening end.
How much more advice do people need ?
Look at the top of the dogging page, advice in reams...
It's back to the old sayings, similar to those of Confuscius: Stiff of dick, soft in head.
or: (pick any one from 100)
I'm just waiting for a Darwinian natural selection.
I got interested in this stuff after Stan got caught and was in the media and dogging became more public. Since then I've seen a steady decline in the number of single guys zooming about from park to park (of which I was one) and people using the "wide arc parking technique" to slowly shine their lights through every car in the car park. I've learnt since then.. but it's obvious that some haven't or are just new but if you don't learn you'll not meet anybody and you'll get bored fairly quickly and stop dogging.
I get the impression that dogging was big a few years back, about 4 years ago (partly from the constant whining about the good old days from veteran doggers) and that the media coverage of it created a huge influx of newbie doggers that didn't know the rules, over populated the car parks and generally fucked things up for everybody.
Well, from what i've seen, people are slowly learning a little more respect and I hope we're seeing a return to "the good old days" of which I'm yet to witness. I'm sure that i'll be talking in the future about how good it was in 2006 when the next MP gets caught dogging with his pants around his ankles in 2007.
So.............?
We have a car park.
Empty. (no couples)
In the corner, 4 cars....with another coming in and out at irregular intervals (training in advanced dogging techniques, drive-by with high beam and spots)
Trainee doggers standing listening to Old Dick (35 years and still going, one car in all that time and only 35K on the clock) and learning the Dark Arts from a pro.....
Awaiting the arrival of the red escort....(young couple with only 3 sessions on the clock)...
"they loike only one guy on them, and he has to be young and have a good wrist action"
Dissent:
"but master, what of the others, they be mortally afraid of the dark and standing with nothing to do"
Voice of Reason:
"what the couple want, the couple get. young whipper-snappers be under every stone my son"
Back to dissent, this guy is getting to be a pain:
"but when do I get to wet my wick master"
VoR:
" maybe never my son, it depends on whether the couple wish it"
Anyway, I can only go along with this for so long before I get REALLY pissed-off.
People don't need mentors, or training.
It's a bit simple really.
It's like life, those who take no risks get nothing.
If you spend all your time driving from one spot to another your chances of seeing something get better.....like, shit they do.....you use loads of fuel and annoy loads of those who wait....even worse.....you will become another of those benighted souls who just drive up-and-down the SAME car park all night, on the basis that they MUST have missed something the last 50 times.
The basic reasoning behind the internal light is simple, people can see who is who....now, most couples who have been about a while will not use them, at least until they've seen who is about...who wants to illuminate the body beautiful to a load of un-appreciative boy-racers with their knickerless molls ?....
How are you going to mentor the newby into understanding that a couple sitting and doing nothing are unlikely to be players....after his collar has been felt a time or two, he may get the message....may...probably he will end up like that prat in bucks...done for exposure.
It's in the game, sooner or later everyone fucks up...
If you want to know what it's like at the hot end of the poker, just visit SOS on a saturday night.....lasting impression are some of the words that come to mind.
Just do your own thing, who wants a standardised dogger ?
This game is about fun, novelty and sex....we all know it, after you've seen them a few times it gets boring....the same routine etc etc...and it's the same with couples....the game is about fun, and while the people are nice, how long do you want to watch the same routine....
Ok, so some people are "special"....big tits, nice "end-game" routine...genuine 12-incher....tsunami at the end, etc etc....but with most you just want something different...
All the newby wants is a shag....and trying to get across to them that most couples just want to shag each other with people watching is hard work....
"If you have within you that spark of teaching ability, my son, then take upon yourself that most onerous of tasks, impressing upon others your knowledge and good abilities without impressing them with all that you have within you that is bad"
For most people that means "let them learn themselves"
We're coming out of the nuclear winter of a dogging apocalypse... thats' always going to favour diversity. (bit overly dramatic I know!!)
I'm not sure if your referring to my post Jomu but essentially I was trying to say the same thing.
People will learn by themselves the hard way and those that don't will stop doing it but in the long term I can only see fewer and fewer newbies coming on the scene. For couples that means less and less people doing stupid things and making them feel uncomfortable.