Am I missing something but to me dogging is visiting secluded sites and when the moon shines on me meeting a horny couple for some adult fun.
Some nights are hot, some nights are not.
When did dogging become posting a message asking if any couples are going out dogging tonight? Surely the natural order of things is for us guys to be 'out' dogging and for the couples to appear randomly when the mood takes them.
Anything else is surely just a swinging meet in a car park.
Maybe I'm a dogging purist, but to me the excitement of dogging comes not only from the encounters but also from not knowing who will be the next into the carpark or what they will do, or not.
xx ruralspaceman xx
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The true meaning of dogging...
Agree with that 100 percent.
Its the thril of wether or not the next cars headlights are a couple of just another single guy, the chance encounter, waiting hoping that makes it so exciting at times.
Going into a car park seeing a car or two parked up and wondering ifs its a couple or not.
All those things are what combines to make you go out again and again, esepcially when you do get rewarded for your patience, it outweighs the nights when you drive home with any luck.
Its the thril of wether or not the next cars headlights are a couple of just another single guy, the chance encounter, waiting hoping that makes it so exciting at times.
Going into a car park seeing a car or two parked up and wondering ifs its a couple or not.
All those things are what combines to make you go out again and again, esepcially when you do get rewarded for your patience, it outweighs the nights when you drive home with any luck.
We don’t think the true meaning of dogging is meeting a couple for some horny fun either? Think it’s more about voyeurism?
I’d hardly call a pre-arranged dogging meet outdoor swinging though, surely swinging is about swapping partners? If pre-arranged dogging is NOT dogging then what is pre-arranged swinging? Either way I see your point, but unfortunately due to the Internet and every tom, dick and harry (sorry harry) thinking they only have to visit these sites that are splattered across open forums everywhere, to get a quick shag.
Its mainly due to these people that pre-arranged meets are more the norm nowadays, because if the sites aren’t full of people looking for a quick shag, yes the ones who just happen to have internet access and don’t know what dogging is, then they are either full of boy racers or run by mafia style groups who think they can pick and choose who enters the car parks and who’s playing with who.
Sadly the press and the Internet have ruined dogging, and we can only see it getting worse.
I’d hardly call a pre-arranged dogging meet outdoor swinging though, surely swinging is about swapping partners? If pre-arranged dogging is NOT dogging then what is pre-arranged swinging? Either way I see your point, but unfortunately due to the Internet and every tom, dick and harry (sorry harry) thinking they only have to visit these sites that are splattered across open forums everywhere, to get a quick shag.
Its mainly due to these people that pre-arranged meets are more the norm nowadays, because if the sites aren’t full of people looking for a quick shag, yes the ones who just happen to have internet access and don’t know what dogging is, then they are either full of boy racers or run by mafia style groups who think they can pick and choose who enters the car parks and who’s playing with who.
Sadly the press and the Internet have ruined dogging, and we can only see it getting worse.
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Sadly the press and the Internet have ruined dogging, and we can only see it getting worse.
I agree with everything so far except, we can only see it getting worse. If we all pipe down a bit and leave it for a while things will go back to normal and all the numpties will think dogging doesn't exist and was a creation of the internet. I love the sitting around waiting, the camaraderie of the devout doggers and the very occasional action. I used to hate a well known Nottinghamshire spot because every time I went there was some kind of action. At the same time I loved a well known M25 spot because you cold be there for hours n anticipation and very occasionally you got lucky.
I think we should all ignore the current glut of internet numpties and boy racers for a while. they will get bored and go home saying "Dogging is a myth" then we can get back to the ggod old days.
Joe
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many hours can be spent on both sides couples as well for some decent m to come along at the end of the day its the ladys choice to say yes or no and many single men out there forger that and resort to the knocking on window resource guys get a life your not always the turn on you think you are
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For us the proper sense of dogging was always about the 'being caught' and someone watching (voyerism and exhibitionism). Driving to a remote location, on the chance you just might get caught and if you did, making the most of it and putting on a show.
However, due to the reasons given above, dogging and the understood meaning of it, seems to have changed, and this in turn, has lead a lot of people to change thier game play.
We never did pre-arranged meets. We loved doing the spur of the moment thing, nothing planned. However, we have found that we go to the car parks and either get bothered with the knock on the window/fancy a shag brigade, or we are in a car park all on our own. So we tried to pre-arranged and found that at least we could use the more remote places, we could (to a point) guarantee that the guys knew exactly what was or wasnt on offer, and again, up to a point, guarantee that they didnt smell :shock: (sorry but some of the guys in the car parks wouldnt know soap and water if it hit them in the face).
So due to the publicity dogging has received, both on the internet and in the press, a lot of couples now feel that the 'spur of the moment' thing is not the same anymore. alot of guys (not all of them) do expect more than a show and think that because someone goes dogging, they are guaranteed a shag.
Evolution has impacted our beloved dogging, whether we like it or not, and we have to make the best of a bad/different situation
However, due to the reasons given above, dogging and the understood meaning of it, seems to have changed, and this in turn, has lead a lot of people to change thier game play.
We never did pre-arranged meets. We loved doing the spur of the moment thing, nothing planned. However, we have found that we go to the car parks and either get bothered with the knock on the window/fancy a shag brigade, or we are in a car park all on our own. So we tried to pre-arranged and found that at least we could use the more remote places, we could (to a point) guarantee that the guys knew exactly what was or wasnt on offer, and again, up to a point, guarantee that they didnt smell :shock: (sorry but some of the guys in the car parks wouldnt know soap and water if it hit them in the face).
So due to the publicity dogging has received, both on the internet and in the press, a lot of couples now feel that the 'spur of the moment' thing is not the same anymore. alot of guys (not all of them) do expect more than a show and think that because someone goes dogging, they are guaranteed a shag.
Evolution has impacted our beloved dogging, whether we like it or not, and we have to make the best of a bad/different situation
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Am I missing something but to me dogging is visiting secluded sites and when the moon shines on me meeting a horny couple for some adult fun.
Some nights are hot, some nights are not.
When did dogging become posting a message asking if any couples are going out dogging tonight? Surely the natural order of things is for us guys to be 'out' dogging and for the couples to appear randomly when the mood takes them.
Anything else is surely just a swinging meet in a car park.
Maybe I'm a dogging purist, but to me the excitement of dogging comes not only from the encounters but also from not knowing who will be the next into the carpark or what they will do, or not.
xx ruralspaceman xx
Whilst I understand what you're saying and to a large extent agree as I always liked the idea of happening across a couple unexpectedly, I also think dogging has evolved and many doggers/couples have followed suit as Mrs Wiggy has rightly said.
You have an ad up to meet couples, I've had one running for yonks, so have many others - does it matter what you call it depending on how you met the people concerned? Surely the most pertinent issue is whether you left that car park smiling?
Now that the boot is on the other foot and I've indulged my emerging exhibitionist side recently, I didn't feel the thrill was any greater between arranged fun and the possibility of being caught, they were different but equally satisfying! However,in the back of my mind I'm aware that the expectation of participation also seems be part of dogging evolution according to the posts of a lot of the couples and doggers I know. It isn't something I'm interested in outside of the person I'm with, so arranging to meet has its advantages in making those boundaries clear in advance rather than interrupting what's going on to keep saying No!
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Sometimes we just mention we are going out in the chat room but we never say exactly where we will be, this keeps the guys guessing and makes sure we don't arrive to an over full car park 
. The guys who take the time to look for us and not want it put on a plate usually are the ones with a smile at the end of the night. This keep us as near to what we beleive to be true dogging as possible.
The thing that could be a problem is, will we start getting a carbon tax slapped on our activities because of the carbon footprint the doggers leave?
just a thought
Clint
PS guys take your crap home or to the nearest bin your getting us all a bad name!
. The guys who take the time to look for us and not want it put on a plate usually are the ones with a smile at the end of the night. This keep us as near to what we beleive to be true dogging as possible.The thing that could be a problem is, will we start getting a carbon tax slapped on our activities because of the carbon footprint the doggers leave?
just a thoughtClint
PS guys take your crap home or to the nearest bin your getting us all a bad name!
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:rotflmao: I guess it's evolution!
I can see and agree with both sides of the argument - and to be honest I do have pre-arranged meets and yes, they are fun!
And the unexpected is still out there - I can honestly say that it is a rare week indeed when i don't stumble upon something on my travels.
The best thing that has happen to my main local site recently is that the police have been high profile. The result is that the boy racers and the 'idiot doggers' have all abandoned the place. Obviously so have a few couples but there are still those that arn't put off and they are usually rewarded with one or two respectful doggers, who in turn are rewarded for their patience.
And the couples who have forsaken the place are now to be found at less well known locations - my petrol consumption is up but the fun ratio is as good as ever!!
We can all hope that one day things will return to a semblance of what they were 5-10 years ago - fingers crossed.
And to all the good doggers and doggees - don't let the idiots grind you down
xx rural xx
I can see and agree with both sides of the argument - and to be honest I do have pre-arranged meets and yes, they are fun!
And the unexpected is still out there - I can honestly say that it is a rare week indeed when i don't stumble upon something on my travels.
The best thing that has happen to my main local site recently is that the police have been high profile. The result is that the boy racers and the 'idiot doggers' have all abandoned the place. Obviously so have a few couples but there are still those that arn't put off and they are usually rewarded with one or two respectful doggers, who in turn are rewarded for their patience.
And the couples who have forsaken the place are now to be found at less well known locations - my petrol consumption is up but the fun ratio is as good as ever!!
We can all hope that one day things will return to a semblance of what they were 5-10 years ago - fingers crossed.
And to all the good doggers and doggees - don't let the idiots grind you down
xx rural xx
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And to all the good doggers and doggees - don't let the idiots grind you down
Ahh so thats what we are (Doggees) like it I won't repeat what has been said before but will say the dogging world needs more old school gent doggers and more show couples.
Well we live in hope :cry:
Ahh so thats what we are (Doggees) like it
I won't repeat what has been said before but will say the dogging world needs more old school gent doggers and more show couples.Well we live in hope :cry:
I think were the trouble lies is for couples like us - we've managed to find a few sites close to us but we havn't got enough time to spend driving round looking for them or sitting waiting for hours and hours babysitters etc. just mean we can't)
So we have asked (like in a thread on here at the moment) if anyone knows of sites that there is a higher chance of something happening, on a certain day, that we are hoping to get arrangements sorted enough that we can go have some fun.
I know this is probably not the 'old' dogging way but for people like us that want the thrill of a dogging meet - turning up, either putting on a show or getting audience participation
but can't spend days, and hours trying to find the hidden spots - how else can we get started?
So we have asked (like in a thread on here at the moment) if anyone knows of sites that there is a higher chance of something happening, on a certain day, that we are hoping to get arrangements sorted enough that we can go have some fun.
I know this is probably not the 'old' dogging way but for people like us that want the thrill of a dogging meet - turning up, either putting on a show or getting audience participation
but can't spend days, and hours trying to find the hidden spots - how else can we get started?
iv never really done a pre arranged meet when dogging but altho iv not gone for ages now the problem around here was that there were so many boy racers and the coppers would come along and leave them but clear off the doggers !!!
it seemed that the "general public" didnt mind boy racers but hated ppl dogging !!!
it seemed that the "general public" didnt mind boy racers but hated ppl dogging !!!
the true meaning of dogging??
hmmmm
I think you could ask a bunch of people or doggers and they would probably give you a range of answers all with the same ending that they wish to leave with a smile on thier face....whatever sort of fun they have
to us as doggers we like to pre arange meets as we dont have the time to drive round all the car parks and when we go out we like to know that others are going to be there and therefore more chance of having fun.
hmmmm
I think you could ask a bunch of people or doggers and they would probably give you a range of answers all with the same ending that they wish to leave with a smile on thier face....whatever sort of fun they have
to us as doggers we like to pre arange meets as we dont have the time to drive round all the car parks and when we go out we like to know that others are going to be there and therefore more chance of having fun.
