This to all playing and showing couples

1 Nov 2004

ive enjoyed reading these threads - and after having my first real experience on saturday night - i can say that the single male just has to be patient and above all non-pushy. OH! - and id like to add that if serendipity ever needs someone to go with - id love to volunteer LOL

1 Nov 2004

serendipity made a good point when she mentioned the tendency of some guys to make assumptions regarding close and personal has probably been part and parcel of the scene since its conception,but for many,watching,or being watched,is the preffered option.....maybe i'll do a christmas card,depicting a snowy moonlit scene,a handfull of doggers huddled around a car,a warm light radiating from within,as a couple make love with wild abandon!......i think that the ever increasing number of guys that go dogging,with the notion that a free shag is on the cards,are somewhat missing the not to say that shouldn't happen,but it shouldn't be assumed.

1 Nov 2004

Thanks Gailen, biggrin

Did you go through the same things as me? the "are they, aren't they, should I look, should I smile, should I get closer, are they smiling cos there's a crazy person sitting in a car by themselves in the dark" musings? redface

Serendipity (still smiling :color: )

2 Nov 2004

H there Serendipity ,
This is not the pm I was going to send you ....I typed one of war and peace proportions albeit not had a likkle accident
I was very taken by your post on your dogging experience and found it not only echoed my own experiences but also ressurected some of the powerful emotions and sensations they invoked.
I decided (presumptuously I think confused

) that you may enjoy it If I shared my 3 experiences with you . So in my email program I typed a draft narrative of my first two encounters, well nearly typed ...I had condensed it to about two pages when I hit the wrong key and lost the bloody lot rolleyes

:roll: :roll: :roll: :cry:
That brings me to this point ... in parts my relating of my experiences was frank (but not I hope crude) I was filled with doubt as to whether I should I really write of something so intimate to someone I have never spoken to before .
So this time I am seeking your view as to whether you may enjoy some sharing similar feelings and anxieties and indeed thrills of ones first experinces or whether you'd really rather I didn't.
I detect from your posting that you are eloquent, intelligent and have an innate sensuality that allows you to derive pleasure from the wriiten as well as visual arena. So you seem to be someone I would love to share a dialogue with .However I will fully understand if you wish to preserve the secuirty of your own council
Let me know if you wish to hear of my exploits , I quite enjoyed writing it until the moment I lost the lot
mad

..Yes I know I should have saved it frequently ...lol
Take care now
NGDE
PS youre only a trouble maker as I spent so long composing my first pm to you only to lose it by accidental button pressing

2 Nov 2004

Quote by niceguysdoexist
youre only a trouble maker as I spent so long composing my first pm to you only to lose it by accidental button pressing

I'm a bad, bad person wink

I think hearing about others first or favourite experiences would be fantastic and very encouraging for those of us who are new here. If you (or anyone else) is feeling generous enough to share them with me or with more of us if you don't mind baring your soul in public as I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd love to read about it....then YES PLEASE! biggrin

Please hit Save this time NGDE, I don't want to be labelled as a troublemaker so soon :giveup:

2 Nov 2004

Having read many postings on this forum, I'd just like to say that I'm
really impressed by the sensitivity and maturity of the members...
OK, so I'm actually shocked(!) It's really nice to see that the dogging
community is predominantly sane, understanding, approachable and
just plain old fashioned 'nice'.
(dismount podium) lol

My own personal experiences are very limited. A few outdoor daytime
sex sessions with my girlfriend ( one on the Great Orme, which was
fantastic! ), and a rather strange after-club experience where 3 girls
wanted me to watch them pee (!?) OK, so they had plans for my manhood
too - but I was fairly sober and they were totally p*ssed so I made my
excuses and left.
I've been to swingers nights at clubs which were amazing, but never
tried dogging - not sure if I've got the courage to go back if I got
rejected!
It seems that the Wirral isn't exactly the best place for dogging either,
( unless someone wants to let me in on a secret! ).

3 Nov 2004

Quote by Bad Cop
I've been to swingers nights at clubs which were amazing, but never
tried dogging - not sure if I've got the courage to go back if I got rejected!

Hi Bad Cop biggrin

Don't let a possible rejection put you off trying, the reasons for it could be numerous and possibly not about you - I imagine rejecting someone in a dogging situation might be just as awkward as being on the receiving end sad

You're right about the "nice" thing though, everyone I've had a conversation with here has been lovely and willing to help if they can!
I think I'm going to like it here wink

Serendipity