I'm going to move this post into the dogging part of the forum so more people interested in the subject will get to read your thoughts :thumbup:
thanks for that we didnt know what area to put this in thanks again x
From your post, I have no idea what you want. Admittedly a dozen may be too many and a guy peeping his horn is just stupid, but the guy on his own? how is he supposed to know your rule concerning the interior light? It's not law, it's a guideline and nobody knows (especially if it's your first time) what your particular likes and dislikes are. How will he know where you have been already that night and what has happened. Did it ever occur to you to tell him? You can talk to them, you know! I know all the sites you are talking about and probably some of the guys too! If a guy just sits in his car, how is he going to know who is in your car and whether you were another single guy or two guys? I take it you have been dogging on your own before? Have you ever got out your car and walked around? Have you ever come across couples who do it differently? I know I certainly have, in fact very few signal their intentions the same way.
Manners? Which one are you talking about? The 12 who did nothing other than chat whilst you drove in and drove out, or the one who blew his horn (ok fair play on that one) or the guy on his own who hadn't been told by you precisely what you wanted to happen?
So if yours was a whinge at doggers, here's one back!!
Mal
Due to the popularity of dogging, and the publicity given to it, it is now COMMON practice for couples who want to shag each other, and not be watched, to flash the internal light to find-out if there's anyone dogging them.
The result of that practice is that guys are now extremely suspicious of flashing lights !
The more usual way is to just wander past the car.....3,4,5,6 or more times, until noticed. Not being threatened or insulted is taken as a yes !
Next time, try driving up to the group of guys with poor manners (talking to each other when there are couples on the plot ?) and say: "We're going to have a shag, do a couple of you want to watch " ............ After the fight has ended there may be a couple left in fit condition (usually the two who back away and let the others get on with it)
Don't be shy, everyone's after the same thing.....really.
hi and yes i have been dogging on my own i sat and waited for a invite by the means of an interior light flashing i have also walk around but i will never stand next to some ones car if they show no signs of playing i woude sit back in my car and wait to see what happens if you dont get any sign tuff luck thats how it goes so i think, my wife was a little of put that he came st8 over and just stud there when we was just talking it wasnt that dark so we knew he coude see us talking and not playing yet, my wife was a little nerves and so was i as this is the first time for her, we dont mean to put every guy in this boat as i do know from the past they are some people out there like me.
hi jomu cheers for that, you try and take your mrs out dogging and lets see what she say mate, my wife has read the threads on dogging and taken them as rules
hi we coude have but to put the windows down but that meant switching on the ing... that means the interior lights come on then they woude be loads of people around dogging in new cars is hard even the door mirrors light up so you can see were you are putting your feet, any way she says its going to be club fun and poss a private meet now soz to all the well mannered
we were out fri in the SW the prats died off with the rain and time so when a sensible guy came over we started to play we got swomped by others they were told to leave and did when a new lot came and parked next to use we spoke to the guy and moved across the cark park. the new location was muddy so i droped the passenger window to talk to him to see if it was ok within 2mins he had uninvited but his hand in and up to her panties when asked what the f**k he was doing he apoligized many time which is all that saved him from a slap!
so its not always good to open the window and talk!
were not newbies its not the first time its happened but its finishs the fun
infact had he have waited to be asked it would have been fine.
new doggers need more respect.
I think with all the publicity in the papers,,etc there are a lot of new "doggers"who don't have any respect or ettiquette because the papers don't print it,they make out its a shagfest and that all the women that do dogging are ragin nympho' is mostly not the case,I have to say mostly because it might be true in some isolated cases,The more expierienced of us doggers do have respect and observe ettiquette but i've found that the new ones generally nowadays f#@k it up for us and it is frustrating and must be for the couples as well,lets hope it stays out of the headlines for a while,john
There are these days far more boy racers and people who have heard about dogging and seen the locations listed on the internet so turn up to see what happens.
I've so far failed to find a hard and fast rule for when a couple would like you to come over. The boy racers play about with flashing their headlights and interior lights just to see if anyone will walk over, so this is not used very oftern.
Walking past letting yourself known is a good one or if the drivers window is open try saying hi.
If couples tell the guys what they want or looking for ie. a single guy or a couple not 50 guys then the guys wil normally ask any new comers to stay away, and as a rule it works.
Some couples won't start till they know they are beeing watched others like to be suprised after they have started.
We are all different and have different fantasies and expectation of whats going to happen when we go dogging.
If everyone just sat in their cars waiting nothing would ever happen and everyone would get bored.
Golden rule respect others and remember it's the couples rules.
unfortunately the areas around bolton are swamped with 'singles'and boy racers its just how it is i used to go to the places mentioned along with my g/f but she got peed off with the same attitudes...its just the way things are at the moment..one
thing may come of it when dogging is dead in these areas due to the fact that no couples are about
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