Been to a couple of sites last weekend, but felt intimidated by the men there.
On one occasion, a bloke parked near to us, no problem. But after a few minutes he was hanging out of his car window impatiently flashing some kind of light. Fuck that!!!!!!!!
Next time, we were in the car having " a play" when some guy that had already been with some other couple starts walking towards us without any "invite". "Cheeky twat"
Why can't blokes be patient, you never know what will CUM your way!!!!!!!
Suzanne
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Too many pushy blokes!!!!
Orgasminator
Quote by ansue90
Been to a couple of sites last weekend, but felt intimidated by the men there.
On one occasion, a bloke parked near to us, no problem. But after a few minutes he was hanging out of his car window impatiently flashing some kind of light. Fuck that!!!!!!!!
Next time, we were in the car having " a play" when some guy that had already been with some other couple starts walking towards us without any "invite". "Cheeky twat"
Why can't blokes be patient, you never know what will CUM your way!!!!!!!
Suzanne
Hi both,
All i would say to you both on this matter is take it at your own pace and remember that it's you that's in charge, not the chancers that sometimes frequent certain car parks.
If things become uncomfortable for you just leave, you both are whats important and your relationship.
shad.
Sex God
What was it you wanted to happen then guys ??
Sex God
Alright dont get arsy! I only asked cos its nice sometimes when you moan to make it clear to the guys what you DO want . Everyone is different thats all.
Hi Ansue
Why not try a Pre-arranged meet? there are lots of quiet little sites around Bucks and also quite a few willing guys who use this site. There is always going to be pushy wankers who cant wait for an invite, but at least this way you have an idea who you are meeting. Ask for make and model of their car so you can identify them at the site.
The guys that I have met from this site mostly seem to be a good crowd
Regards
Mick
Why not try a Pre-arranged meet? there are lots of quiet little sites around Bucks and also quite a few willing guys who use this site. There is always going to be pushy wankers who cant wait for an invite, but at least this way you have an idea who you are meeting. Ask for make and model of their car so you can identify them at the site.
The guys that I have met from this site mostly seem to be a good crowd
Regards
Mick
pre-arranged??????? is that the true form of dogging??????
can understand ansue but i find it does help if abit of chat at first soon helps people understand what cpls are wanting , ie cpls/singles/groups or just a cpl of guys.
its still no excuse for the guys to get onto a cpl as soon as they arrive just give them 5 to 10 mins to settle down. but as everyone knows it dont work that way at many if not all dogging sites as soon as a cpl comes in there are guys rushing to be first there, im afraid its the way of the world now adays but it only takes a few words from the cpl to say look guys give us 10 mins and we will signal when we are ready. it soon gets around the site that when they come in that they need time to settle down before u go over.
ok just advice not getting at anyone so please dont jump on me for giving it
ansue just hang in there and just tell them to give you space the good guys will respect it i can assure you of that,have fun !!!! its what its all about
can understand ansue but i find it does help if abit of chat at first soon helps people understand what cpls are wanting , ie cpls/singles/groups or just a cpl of guys.
its still no excuse for the guys to get onto a cpl as soon as they arrive just give them 5 to 10 mins to settle down. but as everyone knows it dont work that way at many if not all dogging sites as soon as a cpl comes in there are guys rushing to be first there, im afraid its the way of the world now adays but it only takes a few words from the cpl to say look guys give us 10 mins and we will signal when we are ready. it soon gets around the site that when they come in that they need time to settle down before u go over.
ok just advice not getting at anyone so please dont jump on me for giving it
ansue just hang in there and just tell them to give you space the good guys will respect it i can assure you of that,have fun !!!! its what its all about
:roll: :roll: :roll:not all doggers are the same
i agree with single dogger
it helps if the couple communicate as well
as you keep returning people will start to recognise you and will know that you want time to get ready before the deluge of men start swarming to you car
you can have pre arranged dogging
it seems to be the norm a lot nowadays
it may be more agreeable to couples just starting out because they get to control the numbers and are not swamped by chancers who dont know the etiquette
i agree with single dogger
it helps if the couple communicate as well
as you keep returning people will start to recognise you and will know that you want time to get ready before the deluge of men start swarming to you car
you can have pre arranged dogging
it seems to be the norm a lot nowadays
it may be more agreeable to couples just starting out because they get to control the numbers and are not swamped by chancers who dont know the etiquette
the per arragned meets are good , weve started doing them and you can control who/how many guys are there plus with all the police activity going on at the min they can be safer. i have to agree with ansue90 the guys need to learn to wait weve had a guy try force his arm inside the car at which point he got a nasty shock...lol
Lee
Lee
Why can't blokes be patient, you never know what will CUM your way!!!!!!!
Suzanne
hi suzanne i do agree with your observation of "cheeky twats ".A lot of single guys think that just because a cple are in Location for a encounter this means any tom DICK or harry can run up and expect show. This is most annoying not only to cpls ,but also us single guys who abide by the the unwritten rule bide your time ,respect privacy and await the many couples are being put off by this pratice that it not only gives single men a bad name ,but has put off couples altogether from attending such sessions. You have have every right to expect and recieve more conciderate attention.
Hope your next venture goes of with better results.
jay
Derby
Suzanne
hi suzanne i do agree with your observation of "cheeky twats ".A lot of single guys think that just because a cple are in Location for a encounter this means any tom DICK or harry can run up and expect show. This is most annoying not only to cpls ,but also us single guys who abide by the the unwritten rule bide your time ,respect privacy and await the many couples are being put off by this pratice that it not only gives single men a bad name ,but has put off couples altogether from attending such sessions. You have have every right to expect and recieve more conciderate attention.
Hope your next venture goes of with better results.
jay
Derby
Sexlightened
Quote by markz
I think pre-arranged meets are the way to go and avoid car parks. there are many farm tracks around.
LOL ok till the tractor ruts fill with mud n water. Pre arrange if thats your thing but be warned about no shows and those who turn up with their mates, can be just as bad!
You win some you lose some.
Quote by ansue90hi ansue90 rick n jools here from up north we agree with you all the way proper rude wankers with no manners and they just cock it up for everyone .( cheeky twat ) could not have put it better ourselves i wonder if the penny will ever drop with these guys , maybe not theyre most likely to be to selfish to even consider what irratating tossers they are
Been to a couple of sites last weekend, but felt intimidated by the men there.
On one occasion, a bloke parked near to us, no problem. But after a few minutes he was hanging out of his car window impatiently flashing some kind of light. Fuck that!!!!!!!!
Next time, we were in the car having " a play" when some guy that had already been with some other couple starts walking towards us without any "invite". "Cheeky twat"
Why can't blokes be patient, you never know what will CUM your way!!!!!!!
Suzanne
god thats better !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 