unsure

2 Oct 2005

Hi
We are new to this, both me and my girl would like to watch other couples have sex or single females masturbate but are very unsure on how to find the right person people place it seems that everyone would like to have other peoples pictures but do not show there own faces so how do you know they are genuine, also is dogging what we are looking for if so where is the best place to go in the midlands??
hope you can help
confused

2 Oct 2005

personally, i wouldn't go the dogging route to find what you seek. don't get me wrong, dogging is exciting, fun and sexy, we love it, and have done for two years..but for you, there are better avenues to explore..
for starters, most people who "show" would be glad to have you as voyeurs in a dogging context, but you are going to have to run the gauntlet of the guys, wondering what your partner is all about. is sounds hypocritical, because we watch many such shows, and many of them are hugely erotic, but we've been in the game long enough to cope with the situation..your partner and yourself might find it hard to feel aroused by what you see under such circumstances, unfortunately, there is an increasing amount of "assumption" these days, and the hands pawing at your ladies knickerline might not neccessarily be yours..don't worry, it happens to us too lol

if the "show" is arranged, then there might be an expectantcy for you to return the favour, unless you make it quite clear from the onset that you only wish to watch..you might not find this as easy to find as you'd hope..
you seem to be struggling with the photo issue, its a reason that i'd leave well alone..i'd do this instead, if i were you..get a flight from east midlands airport to amsterdam..in the red light area, there are two, very touristy venues specialising in staged sex shows..i think one is the "moulin rouge" (no, i'm not mixing it up with the parisian one), the other is the "casa roso"..if it is really, just watching couples have sex, in comfort and safetythat you seek, then that would be a fun weekend. in fact, we wouldn't mind coming with you wink

now, i might have got your angle on all this totally being the case, i do apolagise..from your post, i get the feeling you are a young couple looking to expand your sexual horizons, and that is wonderfull. but if that assumpion is correct, you might find certain aspects of dogging are a little intimidating for you at first..voyeurism, as you describe, can be very very erotic, and of course, can be, and is found within the envoironment of dogging, but for you and your lass to sit in such a carpark would attract more attention to you than you might wish for..
the other option is to look at our webpage, if you like what you see, drive to norfolk, we'll "show" for ya, with pleasure :lol: and we wouldn't need your photographs either :wink:

2 Oct 2005

Hi!
I'd concur with DD, dogging may not be the best choice for you, if you're asking us...

Quote by jameshenrythird
also is dogging what we are looking for

then you definitely have your doubts and it's not for the faint hearted, especially if you're a couple for the reasons DD said.
If you want to experience voyeurism as a couple, you could also try a search in the photo ads section on coupes looking for couples, you can use keywords such as your location or county and find people local to you. There are quite a few people looking to be watched, you just need to be up front about the fact that you're only looking to watch (for the first time at least) and be prepared to stick to your guns. You can also search for ads that only have photos, but be prepared for the fact that couples looking for voyeurs or swapping will want photos. Dogging is generally less about photos as you don't have to be attracted to a couple to find the situation erotic - or at least, I don't think it's necessary! biggrin

Good luck!

2 Oct 2005

we r walsall cpl willing to let u 2 watch us and if ur happy we can watch understand there r to many timewasters and r happy to chat on fone.
looking 4 2 nite
plz get back 2 us ta
jackie
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