I had a scary experience at the A43 layby. It was very busy and a woman came and started talking to me. After a while I realised she was a prostitute. I told her I wasn't interested and she got her phone and called her pimp telling him the details of my car. I couldn't get away as she had opened my door and refused to let go of the car. I was threatened and robbed of what money I had.
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i thought teh a43 laybe was generally just guys or do couples turn up?
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I had a scary experience at the A43 layby. It was very busy and a woman came and started talking to me. After a while I realised she was a prostitute. I told her I wasn't interested and she got her phone and called her pimp telling him the details of my car. I couldn't get away as she had opened my door and refused to let go of the car. I was threatened and robbed of what money I had.
And back in January, poor ole Sismile copped some of this;
"Thanks for taking the time to reply.
BTW, I have stood outside the car on occasions and chatted with other doggers. But last time I did this on the A43 I had a cross dresser (TV) come up to me and grab my balls before asking if I wanted to pay him for a BJ. That kind of put me off getting out of the car." :shock:
:lol: Now are you QUITE sure you aren't going into denial as a result of " paid sex guilt syndrome?".. :twisted:
I'm kidding
I can see why you didn't just drive away during the "nut grasp" incident mind :shock: Looking back through the rear view mirror, only to see your own balls being hurled at you by a tempestuous transvestite could be quite surreal :shock: :lol: 
Warming the Bed
"Keep all doors locked whilst dogging". Tooo right !. We were out last night at a local spot, my other half popped out to get me a coffee from a garage next door and the first thing I did was engage the central locking..good job I did. A few moments later..a car drove up, he saw I was female, got out and started speaking to me ( which I don't mind, I like chatting and my window was open as I was having a ciggie ) but when he then suggested that I had nice T**s and he would like to feel them ( followed by his attempt to open the door ! ), thank god I locked the doors and then my other half just got back, he made a quick exit when my partner told him to F*** off. Wonder why single guys have a bad press hey ?
Warming the Bed
we've often seen the girl in question - sorry to say sismile but she works alone - she has no pimp - she gets driven to the layby by another girl on crutches or by a couple of gay guys that she cadges a lift off. i do know one night she had no lift home and had to cadge a lift to as for their being no couples at the A43 - i thought we were there most nights and there were 2 of us. My partners a female ( or at least was last time i looked).
Sex God
the wet area at washy bout 6 cars in last neet we were arl out of cars chatting when plod cum in questioning ppl why we were there told us to go and if cum back will be reported not sure what he could do as we wernt really doing owt.
My girlfriend and I decided to try dogging as a couple last weekend. Living in Essex, we travelled to a well known site in Norfolk.
Not more than twenty seconds after parking there was a guy outside looking into the car, in an exceptionally unsubtle manner as well.
When we finally got down to some activity I discovered one guy was shining a torch into the car while another filmed it on his mobile phone. It goes without saying that I was unimpressed by this. The net result of this is that my girlfriend is unwilling to try again, and I now consider the site in question to be compromised by an idiot or two!
Not more than twenty seconds after parking there was a guy outside looking into the car, in an exceptionally unsubtle manner as well.
When we finally got down to some activity I discovered one guy was shining a torch into the car while another filmed it on his mobile phone. It goes without saying that I was unimpressed by this. The net result of this is that my girlfriend is unwilling to try again, and I now consider the site in question to be compromised by an idiot or two!
watch out for a couple of small hatcbacks corsa's i think
I was there other night they flash lights etc but if you aproach all you get is abuse
I decided to leave and they followed v close to my rear I tried to lose them in housing estate but were waiting for me when I left I finally lost them in Tickhill it frightened me and has made my companion not want to go out again
anyone know of a safe place ?
I was there other night they flash lights etc but if you aproach all you get is abuse
I decided to leave and they followed v close to my rear I tried to lose them in housing estate but were waiting for me when I left I finally lost them in Tickhill it frightened me and has made my companion not want to go out again
anyone know of a safe place ?
Hello one & all & any police that may be reading this as i know you do..
well where do i start this is a subject that many have commented on i have been dogging - swinging for over 7 years now and have frequented many places..
with the police i have found that there attitude towards doggers vary greatly some will ask you what you are doing and some will tell you what you are doing the vast majority of police officers have good intentions in that they will ask you if you are ok etc..etc.. but there are a few over zealous officers i have had a few turn very nasty indeed.. turning my car over ..and saying we will be sending your employer a letter ..this would be funny as im self employed.. thank god the vast majority of police officers can see were harmless i for one would not hurt or impose myself on anyone and would not like to be arrested for any offence relating to my personal activities after all who am i hurting at 1am if im having fun with consenting adults at a car park which is miles from any built up area... or even at a couples house.. the problem arises when in-considerate people drive round all night upsetting any locals who may live nearby a known dogging location & i myself would be upset if i was kept awake all night so fellow doggers should consider this..
it is my conclusion that an officer of the law should use his discretion when considering an appropriate course of action to be taken where he considers the law has been broken... at the end of the day we are all human and have human instincts & tastes & feelings and the impact of a persons activities on there personal life should be taken into consideration
and on a final note be safe be good and have fun
Tommy
well where do i start this is a subject that many have commented on i have been dogging - swinging for over 7 years now and have frequented many places..
with the police i have found that there attitude towards doggers vary greatly some will ask you what you are doing and some will tell you what you are doing the vast majority of police officers have good intentions in that they will ask you if you are ok etc..etc.. but there are a few over zealous officers i have had a few turn very nasty indeed.. turning my car over ..and saying we will be sending your employer a letter ..this would be funny as im self employed.. thank god the vast majority of police officers can see were harmless i for one would not hurt or impose myself on anyone and would not like to be arrested for any offence relating to my personal activities after all who am i hurting at 1am if im having fun with consenting adults at a car park which is miles from any built up area... or even at a couples house.. the problem arises when in-considerate people drive round all night upsetting any locals who may live nearby a known dogging location & i myself would be upset if i was kept awake all night so fellow doggers should consider this..
it is my conclusion that an officer of the law should use his discretion when considering an appropriate course of action to be taken where he considers the law has been broken... at the end of the day we are all human and have human instincts & tastes & feelings and the impact of a persons activities on there personal life should be taken into consideration
and on a final note be safe be good and have fun
Tommy
Forum Virgin
Warning for all people that use this site - a couple we know had both their back tyres slashed this week.
It was a new silver astra, 08 reg with 4 kids in it.
Watch out for them
It was a new silver astra, 08 reg with 4 kids in it.
Watch out for them
Just a warning to fellow members to be on the lookout! I was on my way home last night and decided to take a pop into the car park for a little while since i hadn't been there for sometime.
As soon as i arrived i dipped my lights and reversed into the nearest available spot. Pleasently surprised, i was parked beside a single female in a vehicle with just enough space between us for one more car. (Usually lots of single males on the prowl, sometimes boy racers and sometimes gay cruisers with the odd couple making the effort now and again)
However strange i found this, i wasn't going anywhere in a hurry being in a prime viewing position. I lit a ciggerette and listened to the radio for 10 minutes and tried to play it as cool as possible. I was trying not to appear too eager or even pay too much attention as i feel it must be intimidating to say the least, for a single female in this situation.
After a short while, a few cars coming in and out, a car appears and muscles into the space between me and the single female, leaving hardly enough space to open the doors aswell as obscuring my view
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At first i thought the girl would put her seatbelt on and clear off, then on further inspection, I notice the girl fidgeting around with some clothing and making herself a bit comfier, things are looking up i think to myself
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As the rain was driving off my passenger side window, and with my view completely obscured i decide to get out of the car, brave the elements, have another ciggerette and given the opportunity, maybe investigate further.
The next thing i know, a white car style van maybe an astra, wheelspins into the car park, shouting and balling out of his window as he screeches to a halt. An angry jobsworth climbs out of the astra asking "Are you a fucking pervert?" A little white lie, i answer "no, just having a ciggerette mate".
The jobsworth proceeds to tell me he's working for a security company and we have been getting monitored for sometime and registration plates have been taken on several occasions. Not being in my own vehicle this time, and never having been there in this vehicle i knew his findings never added up.
He went to all 4 of the other vehicles in the car park including the single female, instructing everyone not to come back or else. A simple "fuck off" would have sufficed, but i imagine i'll never see the female out playing there again either way.
Anyway, it was just a warning to everyone else using this location to be on their guard!
As soon as i arrived i dipped my lights and reversed into the nearest available spot. Pleasently surprised, i was parked beside a single female in a vehicle with just enough space between us for one more car. (Usually lots of single males on the prowl, sometimes boy racers and sometimes gay cruisers with the odd couple making the effort now and again)
However strange i found this, i wasn't going anywhere in a hurry being in a prime viewing position. I lit a ciggerette and listened to the radio for 10 minutes and tried to play it as cool as possible. I was trying not to appear too eager or even pay too much attention as i feel it must be intimidating to say the least, for a single female in this situation.
After a short while, a few cars coming in and out, a car appears and muscles into the space between me and the single female, leaving hardly enough space to open the doors aswell as obscuring my view
.At first i thought the girl would put her seatbelt on and clear off, then on further inspection, I notice the girl fidgeting around with some clothing and making herself a bit comfier, things are looking up i think to myself
.As the rain was driving off my passenger side window, and with my view completely obscured i decide to get out of the car, brave the elements, have another ciggerette and given the opportunity, maybe investigate further.
The next thing i know, a white car style van maybe an astra, wheelspins into the car park, shouting and balling out of his window as he screeches to a halt. An angry jobsworth climbs out of the astra asking "Are you a fucking pervert?" A little white lie, i answer "no, just having a ciggerette mate".
The jobsworth proceeds to tell me he's working for a security company and we have been getting monitored for sometime and registration plates have been taken on several occasions. Not being in my own vehicle this time, and never having been there in this vehicle i knew his findings never added up.
He went to all 4 of the other vehicles in the car park including the single female, instructing everyone not to come back or else. A simple "fuck off" would have sufficed, but i imagine i'll never see the female out playing there again either way.
Anyway, it was just a warning to everyone else using this location to be on their guard!
Went to the usual (and popular) Brighton dogging site last night. There was a new couple there. The guy gets out of his car and approaches other couples asking if the woman would like to play with his partner.....so far so good. When the partner then leaves their vehicle and comes over, she is quite "in your face" and demanding. In our case this put us off and we politely pointed out that there was no "chemistry" so best stop. At that point, the male started "bum bumping" our car, hard enough to dent the panels, while shouting, swearing and getting highly abusive. There were other doggers in the car park and he cleared us all within seconds! There was a very real feeling, at least on our part that he was on the verge of real violence.
Unfortunatly, we did not get a good look at him or his vehicle (no moon) but he wears a brimless hat of some type, despite the mild weather, while his partner has dark curly hair, glasses and dresses like a housewife (my partner describes her as a "Deadrie Barlow" type). He appears to be late middle age, quite "hawk featured" while she appears to be somewhat younger.
Unfortunatly, we did not get a good look at him or his vehicle (no moon) but he wears a brimless hat of some type, despite the mild weather, while his partner has dark curly hair, glasses and dresses like a housewife (my partner describes her as a "Deadrie Barlow" type). He appears to be late middle age, quite "hawk featured" while she appears to be somewhat younger.
Warming the Bed
in every rose bush there is always a prick !!! Come to Broadm***h we love you there, XXX
Sexlightened
thanks for the warning Dip, we will keep a watch out.......sounds like he could have been high, any idea at all as to the vehicle, even the size ?
Warming the Bed
Quote by jay28
just thought would let peeps know there was an article in local paper yesterday from local counciler and police saying that they are going to be doing random checks in the dunes and anyone caught engaging in sexual activity will be arrested etc etc
Nice to see its still going on there. I had some of my first sexual experiences in the xxxxxxxxxxx at xxxxxxxxxx near the xxxxxxxxxx end - and that was nr 40 years ago. It was going on there well before I moved to xxxxxxxxxxx in the 60's and it was a small village then ( before xxxxxxxxxxxxx was built ). It will carry on, no matter what the council or police do - just be discrete.
Went to Scratchwood on my way home from a party Sat night (26 Sep). A couple of cars about. Also a silver/grey van, parked near the the entrance.
As it was very quiet decided to leave. But gate had been closed. Had a rope with metal fittings which was padlocked. Another car behind me tried to leave as well. I reversed out of the way. The guy in the other car got out (had his female partner with him) and went to speak to the van driver who was wearing a hooded top. After a discussion the van driver went to the back of the van and got a key for the padlock.
The couple left and I followed directly behind.
Whoever you were, thank you.
Now what was worrying was the fact the driver had locked the gate to prevent people leaving. Also, he wasn't alone. There was a least one other occupant, maybe two, in the back of the van. I saw a silhoette of a head. In my opinion they were definitely up to no good.
Had I been the only car there I think I would have had a big problem, especially as I was in full femme mode.
So just be careful folks. Maybe worth keeping a knife to cut the rope or other appropriate tools in your vehicle just in case.
As it was very quiet decided to leave. But gate had been closed. Had a rope with metal fittings which was padlocked. Another car behind me tried to leave as well. I reversed out of the way. The guy in the other car got out (had his female partner with him) and went to speak to the van driver who was wearing a hooded top. After a discussion the van driver went to the back of the van and got a key for the padlock.
The couple left and I followed directly behind.
Whoever you were, thank you.
Now what was worrying was the fact the driver had locked the gate to prevent people leaving. Also, he wasn't alone. There was a least one other occupant, maybe two, in the back of the van. I saw a silhoette of a head. In my opinion they were definitely up to no good.
Had I been the only car there I think I would have had a big problem, especially as I was in full femme mode.
So just be careful folks. Maybe worth keeping a knife to cut the rope or other appropriate tools in your vehicle just in case.
Forum Virgin
OMG thats worrying, its good news that you got out of it unscathed. Makes you wonder just how some people tick doesn't it.
Forum Virgin
Hell everyone know about last week in dogging site blidworth on fri after midnite i tink so aroudn 3am saturday ,there are 4 police cars .....what happened pls?..i have seen them when i approach on the site so ...i driver straight and back at my home...someone say me what happened pls?..
thanks
thanks
Warming the Bed
Just wanted to give peeps a heads up....
We headed down to Stapleford woods last saturday and were met by a policeman who was approaching all the cars that entered and looking at the passengers and asking why we were there. We were then told to leave the woods, so we then headed to our next stop of the evening, Blid, and were shocked to see how empty the place was. There were about 8 cars (all single men) all night...We later found out that the police had been stopping every single car the night before and checking the reason for them being there.
Yesterday Mr bbw was walking the dog back at Stapleford and a policeman approached him and asked if he came to the woods alot and asked him what he see's going on in the woods and if it bothers him. Ofcourse he said that it's no bother lol
He also advised that they have an unmarked car down there during the day and night. It's a silver focus....So just a warning....take care and be safe! xxxx
Just
We headed down to Stapleford woods last saturday and were met by a policeman who was approaching all the cars that entered and looking at the passengers and asking why we were there. We were then told to leave the woods, so we then headed to our next stop of the evening, Blid, and were shocked to see how empty the place was. There were about 8 cars (all single men) all night...We later found out that the police had been stopping every single car the night before and checking the reason for them being there.
Yesterday Mr bbw was walking the dog back at Stapleford and a policeman approached him and asked if he came to the woods alot and asked him what he see's going on in the woods and if it bothers him. Ofcourse he said that it's no bother lol
He also advised that they have an unmarked car down there during the day and night. It's a silver focus....So just a warning....take care and be safe! xxxx
Just
Warming the Bed
Just wanted to give peeps a heads up....
We headed down to Stapleford woods last saturday and were met by a policeman who was approaching all the cars that entered and looking at the passengers and asking why we were there. We were then told to leave the woods, so we then headed to our next stop of the evening, Blid, and were shocked to see how empty the place was. There were about 8 cars (all single men) all night...We later found out that the police had been stopping every single car the night before and checking the reason for them being there.
Yesterday Mr bbw was walking the dog back at Stapleford and a policeman approached him and asked if he came to the woods alot and asked him what he see's going on in the woods and if it bothers him. Ofcourse he said that it's no bother lol
He also advised that they have an unmarked car down there during the day and night. It's a silver focus....So just a warning....take care and be safe! xxxx
We headed down to Stapleford woods last saturday and were met by a policeman who was approaching all the cars that entered and looking at the passengers and asking why we were there. We were then told to leave the woods, so we then headed to our next stop of the evening, Blid, and were shocked to see how empty the place was. There were about 8 cars (all single men) all night...We later found out that the police had been stopping every single car the night before and checking the reason for them being there.
Yesterday Mr bbw was walking the dog back at Stapleford and a policeman approached him and asked if he came to the woods alot and asked him what he see's going on in the woods and if it bothers him. Ofcourse he said that it's no bother lol
He also advised that they have an unmarked car down there during the day and night. It's a silver focus....So just a warning....take care and be safe! xxxx
The Bedfordshire Police have a "safer neighbourhoods" policy at the moment. Each area has a team deployed to stop car thefts and anti-social behaviour. Posters have been put up at one layby (mainly gay) stating that officers will be patrolling (and they do....they go through the woods at one in the morning having a look) although their main focus is on cars with females in....
Warming the Bed
Bit of an update on Stapleford... popped down there tonight as we were passing and the police were there again and pulled us over. Obviously being a genuine "local" couple this wasn't a problem for us but for those that travel to come here they are doing name and address checks... please be warned!
They informed us that they are doing high profile patrolling of the area, so it looks like Stapleford is a no go zone... for a couple of months anyway!
They informed us that they are doing high profile patrolling of the area, so it looks like Stapleford is a no go zone... for a couple of months anyway!
