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Was This A Signal Or Was It Just A Mistake.

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We were out last night at our regular spot and saw a signal we havent seen before,and just wondered if anybody else had come across this.
We were sat in our car and a couple came into the carpark in a people parked opposite us after a short while the kept putting there wipers on even though it wasnt raining this happened every couple of minutes for about half an though they looked a very nice couple we found this behaviour very strange and wondered if they were not used to the car and thought they were flashing there lights an easy mistake we have all done it at sometime .We eventually drove away a little bit the couple concerned are reading this please contact us and clear up the confusion please it may have been some misinformation they have been fed if they are new to the scene ,we all now there is some mischievous people out is something we do not know about confused
That's not a signal I've ever seen, and I've never heard of it before. I must look out for that one! wink
Not one I'd advise, it will play havoc with your rubbers :!:
lol :lol: :lol:
My guess would be stolen car :-) ( looking for the radio)
haven't seen it as a signal as such,no,but i recon what was happening was this....the couple arrived on scene,new faces,and one of the doggers spots them...the anticipation is two much for him,he then unleashes his profuse load over their unsuspecting couple,oblivious to the fact that what hit the screen was dogger juice,now try,unsuccessfully,to remove the offending smear with their wipers,thus compounding the problem...we have a special anti-dogger contaminate bottle mounted next to the serves to steralize their bits,as well as ridding the bodywork of ejaculate................seriously though,weve seen some weird signals,but wipers?.
You guys have been spoiled in your expectation by the famous swordman at your site , the average dogger has trouble reaching the door sill :-)
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You guys have been spoiled in your expectation by the famous swordman at your site , the average dogger has trouble reaching the door sill :-)
..................you must mean harry?..that guy can shoot a squirrel out of a scots pine at 20 meters!! :high-smile: i imagine many a couple have gotton home,thinking the irremovable goo on their windscreens was tree sap,not realizing it was fallout from a distant harry cum explosion....
Well he sounds like fun , but silicone polish is dear these days , perhaps we'll leave it or use a rented car.
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We were out last night at our regular spot and saw a signal we havent seen before,and just wondered if anybody else had come across this.
We were sat in our car and a couple came into the carpark in a people parked opposite us after a short while the kept putting there wipers on even though it wasnt raining this happened every couple of minutes for about half an though they looked a very nice couple we found this behaviour very strange and wondered if they were not used to the car and thought they were flashing there lights an easy mistake we have all done it at sometime .We eventually drove away a little bit the couple concerned are reading this please contact us and clear up the confusion please it may have been some misinformation they have been fed if they are new to the scene ,we all now there is some mischievous people out is something we do not know about confused

yes i have seen this signal it seems to be a couple thing, a very discreet way of attracting another couples attention, i have been told it has some thing to do with buletoothing....
they are waving at each other with other people knowing......
d+m i think you might have you seen this your self and if so do you know what the rear wiper means confused:
MMMMM rear wipers.....could mean get in the back seat......... :thumbup:
have to keep an eye out for the slight glow that comes from there pda`s....
Toothing takes advantage of the capabilities of Bluetooth, a wireless technology that allows two devices to communicate with each other over short distances. Many mobile phones and PDAs now have built-in Bluetooth functionality and allow users to automatically locate other such devices in their vicinity.
This could be the answer... confused:
We've done the rear wiper thing, although not as a signal.
We often park in the same spot under some trees and if it's been raining, drops of water drip on the car and we can't see out of the back window to see who is out there.
No wonder we get loads at the car - maybe they think it's a signal too :shock: redface
Tracy-Jayne
Gone are the days when signals were simple and easy.
Flash your brake lights = I'm gay
Flash your internal light = Anyone about for some action
Flash your heads = I'm scared there's someone creeping up on me
now wipers ?
Back wiper = I've run out of toilet paper ?
Front wiper = I've left my hanky at home ?
Now, if a couple are bonking on a picnic bench and you wander over, get your sandwiches and flask out and then sit down for a bite, they call you names and start slanging you.
Yet, what are picnic tables for ?
It's no wonder car parks are full of cars with people sitting in and doing nothing.
Nobody is speaking the same language anymore !!
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Gone are the days when signals were simple and easy.
Flash your brake lights = I'm gay
Flash your internal light = Anyone about for some action
Flash your heads = I'm scared there's someone creeping up on me
now wipers ?
Back wiper = I've run out of toilet paper ?
Front wiper = I've left my hanky at home ?
Now, if a couple are bonking on a picnic bench and you wander over, get your sandwiches and flask out and then sit down for a bite, they call you names and start slanging you.
Yet, what are picnic tables for ?
It's no wonder car parks are full of cars with people sitting in and doing nothing.
Nobody is speaking the same language anymore !!

Thanks for that, really cleared things up for me................... now even more dazed and confused
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
Well i am amazed at the response to this ,as we are relative newbies compared to some of you who have posted on are very suprised that we are the only ones that have come across this ,The good news is the couple involved have read the thread and emailed us and asked us to meet them tonight when all will be re rolleyes vealed hopefully .So watch this space folks.
Well stands to reasons Jomu mate , I mean if you were sat at the table havin a picnic with your missus and they came over and started shaggin you wouldnt be too pleased either LOL
Just arrived home from our meet with the couple from last turns out that they are a Belgium couple who now live in the area .And it seems that the wiper signal is widely used in France,Belgium,Holland and other countries on the also told us of other signs and signals used ,ie the use of coloured ribbons tied to vehicle ariels to signify your preference RED is gay ,BLUE couples looking for couples ,Yellow Bi and so on cannot remember the also said the use of a CD on display in a vehicle windscreen signified a TV or a CROSSDRESSER dont ask me how it all works i am only the messenger ,but it would appear that the dogging scene is quite big in the service areas on the motorways over there and wooded picnic areas just as over are meeting the couple again in a couple of weeks so more imformation should be forthcoming then ,i will keep you informed. confused
Oh dear, the poor Belgians might be confused if they are in Wigan, as a local school under threat of closure started a campaign. All those who wished the school to stay open were to show their support by tying yellow ribbon to their car aerial. There were hundreds, including every taxi in the town! :confused2:
The ribbons etc seem like a good idea, It could save embarassment etc etc. Lets get it sorted over here. I think a moderator ought to sort a sticky out for this one. Couples will know who other couples are, gays to gays, people who like crossdressers like me. I think it would be great.
Moderators, how about it?
Kissing K, you saw them and discusssed it so how about your suggestions for whats what.
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Well stands to reasons Jomu mate , I mean if you were sat at the table havin a picnic with your missus and they came over and started shaggin you wouldnt be too pleased either LOL

Too right BG, the least they could do would be to let me sling the missus and kids in the car and wait for me to get back....only polite mate, innit ?
The ribbons etc seem like a good idea, It could save embarassment etc etc. Lets get it sorted over here. I think a moderator ought to sort a sticky out for this one. Couples will know who other couples are, gays to gays, people who like crossdressers like me. I think it would be great.

Another good idea....then we could have a blue one for law/undercover law and the problems would be solved...those whose preference is for sex with cops could then leave the rest of us alone.
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The ribbons etc seem like a good idea, It could save embarassment etc etc. Lets get it sorted over here. I think a moderator ought to sort a sticky out for this one. Couples will know who other couples are, gays to gays, people who like crossdressers like me. I think it would be great.
Moderators, how about it?
Kissing K, you saw them and discusssed it so how about your suggestions for whats what.

As most doggers don't use SH (can you believe it :shock: ), it wouldn't help to have an SH-created ribbon system, the rest of the population would just think that a few folks like to colourfully decorate their cars.
Like i said on my last posting i am only the messenger ,was only giving a answer to my own dont think its a good idea how would you distinguish the colour in the dark for a start ,putting little lights on them is not an option,And there is always the chance of mistaken identity like the school with the ribbons personally think its a non starter.
Well doesn't a similiar thing take place on the sex club scene?
Im sure i read some articles somewhere that people where coloured handkerchiefs to indecate what they were into or something.
Yellow for Watersports, Brown meaning your VWE... and then i think depending which pocket you had it hanging out of declared whether you wished to give or recieve it
Not sure excatly how it went, but im sure it was a similiar system!
I don't think the hanky idea is too bright !
OK in clubs, but out on the streets you could rapidly have a bad day.
A lot of gangs are into emulating the US idea....coloured cloth hanging out of the pockets...
I'll stick to eating crisps and listening to R1 on site...
I started another thread about regional variations in technique, and I wonder if the signals sent between people is another variation of this theme.
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a CD on display in a vehicle windscreen signified a TV or a CROSSDRESSER

That wouldn't work in this country. CD's are mainly used to dazzle the flashes of speed cameras here, and I can think of how the two intentions could get seriously confused! lol
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Well doesn't a similiar thing take place on the sex club scene?
Im sure i read some articles somewhere that people where coloured handkerchiefs to indecate what they were into or something.

Not at any of the swingers clubs that I go to they don't confused
Well ill try to look for the article i read, but chance are im probably mistaken then!
Edited to add: Done a search on google for "colour hankies code" ! and first site was this

seems to be for the gay scene, not sure how i read up on that then! :shock: redface
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a CD on display in a vehicle windscreen signified a TV or a CROSSDRESSER

That wouldn't work in this country. CD's are mainly used to dazzle the flashes of speed cameras here
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Sorry, the CD thing on gatso's doesn't work, unless you're very very lucky and just happen to have the right reflective angle.
Now back on to topic.
would some one please be so kind as to advise a single guy on how to interperte situations? what signals should i look out for how should i offer my self, as it were, to couples and how do i know i am beeing invited or are unwelcome? any advice would be most greatful ta xx confused:
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would some one please be so kind as to advise a single guy on how to interperte situations? what signals should i look out for how should i offer my self, as it were, to couples and how do i know i am beeing invited or are unwelcome? any advice would be most greatful ta xx confused:

Patience, time, and experience. No quick fix unfortunately.
Jump in too fast, cock things up and you get yourself a bad name very quickly. See if there's an "old timer" on your patch and "serve your apprenticeship".
Now nothing personal meant here, and this may be middle age prejudice too, but try not to look like a 20 year old. Most others of your age find it hard to cope in a scene where the average age is 50%-100% higher than yours. And people in their 30's and 40's can have hand-ups about mixing with people who are young enough to be their kids. Those of your age in the car parks are usually there after a night's boozing, with a car-load of mates or with their girlfriends, trying to impress everyone with handbrake turns, and other such stunts. You have a job on to convince people that "that's not you".
Like I say, please take these comments constructively, and not personally, and hopefully, they will be useful.