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Being new and inexperienced to the scene - I have followed this site with interest and wonder how widespread dogging is. I have had a few chance encounters but it seems to me that people go to an awful lot of trouble, much frustration and some personal danger to obtain a 'spontaneous experience'.
I'm open minded and find the prospect exciting - but is it just a bit too much hassle ? Does it really go on - and if so, please tell me where I can find it in Kent lol lol
Whith respect, If it feels to much trouble then it is. confused
Its not the best time of year mate getting colder by the day, most cpls only come out spring summer time, although i have meet cpls out in very cold wet days.
U got to remember that less guys out mean less chances of fun so cpls are having fun indoors and who can blame them.
I have dogging for a few years now and its very hit or miss, the best sites are now crap, as too many people visting. Best thing to do is get to know a decent spot and go friday sat nights see whos about.
Dogging is all about waiting know some pople that will wait ages and not see a thing. if u can find a spot that is really near so that u don't have to drive miles and get disapointed.
cheeers
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I appreciate your comments midn - all of which are very valid. My point was that perhaps people try a bit too hard - visiting websites and arranging meets, whereas I thought the point was that it was to be unplanned and spontaneous. My few experiences over the years have tended to come when I least expected them.
In addition, the anti social behaviour that seems rife in society generally, let alone the more popular dogging sites, makes the pastime that much more risky - perhaps thats much of the attraction ?
Pity we can't organise 'idiot-free' areas where people are free to express and enjoy themselves - there certainly seem to be a majority of people on here who are friendly and sociable.
Quote by kenttim
Being new and inexperienced to the scene - I have followed this site with interest and wonder how widespread dogging is. I have had a few chance encounters but it seems to me that people go to an awful lot of trouble, much frustration and some personal danger to obtain a 'spontaneous experience'.
I'm open minded and find the prospect exciting - but is it just a bit too much hassle ? Does it really go on - and if so, please tell me where I can find it in Kent lol lol

Yes it does happen.
Yes it is a lot of waiting around.
Yes there has to be a VERY small element of personal danger but its dangerous crossing the road. Just be sensible.
No it wont happen overnight.
No, no one will tell you where it happens in Kent until you have " served your Time " and proved your not a journalist or waster.
Yes it does take more than 2 days membership.
Apart from that it is a really easy route to a quick thrill and regular fuck.
Good Luck.
Love
Jackie and Ben
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Quote by midnsnow1
Its not the best time of year mate getting colder by the day, most cpls only come out spring summer time, although i have meet cpls out in very cold wet days.

Good points Midnsnow.
However we are year round doggers and had good sessions on both xmaseve and new years eve last year. We even had fun in the snow. lol
If we are anything to go by we go out much later now to avoid the wankers and wasters. Still 5 - 6 guys but less interuptions.
Hope that helps
Love
Jackie and Ben
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lol :lol: I'm not going to 'serve any time' - it seems a very labour intensive way to catch a few glimpses of a couple having a fumble - and the remote chance of something more.
I wish you all well though and I do resent the police and busy-bodies interfering in consenting adults activities as much as anybody else. And the press - well you have to admit it makes a great sleazy story on quiet news days. Maybe we get the press we deserve ?
Good luck anyway peeps - and keep safe wink
mmmmmmmmmmm a true dogger kenttim? NOT!!!!!!!!! 3 posts well i wonder why you had no luck!!!!!!!!!!! need i say anymore people? NO!!!!!!!!!!
now you sound like a journilist who was it you work for? oh prob the SUNDAY SPORT!!!!!!!! :moon:
Quote by kenttim
lol :lol: I'm not going to 'serve any time' - And the press - well you have to admit it makes a great sleazy story on quiet news days. Maybe we get the press we deserve ?

mmmmmm Says it all really. mad
SLEAZE WE LOVE IT
Oh well another one bites the dust.
Jackie and Ben
Aww just when I thought the people on this site were open and sociable. Instead they appear to be as paranoid and tiny-minded as everyone else.
IRONY - look it up in the dictionary folks !! Good luck all.
FFS mad
I really can't be arsed with threads like this.... locked rolleyes