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WATCH OR PARTICIPATE?

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I'm curious.
Do the vast majority of guys on here prefer just to watch, or to participate?
I have to admit, I prefer guys to take the hands..............and cocks.............on approach, but I guess there are those who just prefer to look on.
Would be interested in what you guys have to say on this subject.
The invitation has to come from you as to what the guy does ..... if you are willing then its up to you how far it goes.
Good manners I suppose!!
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The invitation has to come from you as to what the guy does ..... if you are willing then its up to you how far it goes.
Good manners I suppose!!

But given the choice, which would you prefer?
Which was my original question biggrin
a good watch is better than a bad join in
just a thought
alan rach xx
Obviously I would prefer to join in but only if asked and if not treat the couple with respect and just watch without any undue presure from doggers.
As to your original question me im easy lol im happy to just watch or im willing to join. But it is usually up to the lady as to how far or what they would like. It is better to start off watching and then see how the cpl or lady feel after that, there is nothing worse than someone who is pushy so off putting.
Watching for a short while to get really turned on, then to start participating, starting with caressing and licking her breasts then moving onto.....sorry I was heading into a dream then (Been a month since I last got lucky)
Regards
Harry Jones
I much prefer to join in than watch. But only if invited to do so
Mick
very much the hands, cock n tongues on approach!!
;-)
Watching only for me.
I'll let others do the joining-in from now, always supposing that watching is allowed.
Some couples, and rather more single males, don't want people just watching.
Lissa,
I am definately happy to do both. The perfect way would be to watch for 15 mins or so, getme really horny and when the opening comes, go for it.
Men are so visual, so watching is great, getting hard and filling my balls. It is only fare that if the lady / couple want more men involved, then I must oblige, after all, they got me in this state.
Lissa, I know that you enjoy us guy joining in, but what would be your perfect encounter???? I would like to help you with it.....
My perfect encounter?
Hmmm..................one that ended up with all three holes filled at the same time smile
I guess synchronised spunking would be too much to hope for wink
Synchronised Spunking?
..a new Olympic sport?
On the count of 3 then ....
1.............................2................................
wink
Actually I get turned on by the dynamics of the situation , the willingness to share something so preciously intimate , the electricity of the moment , the downright naughtyness of it . So its the watching and the atmosphere that gets me rather than the physical ....guess that makes me a watcher then
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My perfect encounter?
Hmmm..................one that ended up with all three holes filled at the same time smile
I guess synchronised spunking would be too much to hope for wink

cum to essex and get the 3 holes special guarenteed :wink: :wink:
I would like to go and watch, then when invited give her a good lick of her arse while she was sucking cock. Step back and watch the rest of the show.
If I was in my car with someone I would like to invite someone to give my arse a nice lick while I was giving her some, then maybe a cock could slip in from no where into her mouth and finish her off for me while I invited someone to finish me off with their tongue.
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I would like to go and watch, then when invited give her a good lick of her arse while she was sucking cock. Step back and watch the rest of the show.
If I was in my car with someone I would like to invite someone to give my arse a nice lick while I was giving her some, then maybe a cock could slip in from no where into her mouth and finish her off for me while I invited someone to finish me off with their tongue.

Like the way your imagination works Miss, it would seem that you have found your spiritual home.
And you live fairly local to us, so you never know we may see one another out and about.
Hi Shad
If you are happy for me to tag along sometime, I am new to all this and get turned on by the thought of it all so god knows what I would be like should I ever go dogging. confused
We shall be out this Saturday, not sure if it's going to be late afternoon or night event as yet.
Mrs shad will advise me of the facts in due time. We will contact you via PM if you wish to tag along.
We tend to play it by ear and more often than not we start out by driving up and down a motorway, mrs shad then indulges herself in showing off her tits to lorry drivers and anyone who has a viewpoint into our car.
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Actually I get turned on by the dynamics of the situation , the willingness to share something so preciously intimate , the electricity of the moment , the downright naughtyness of it . So its the watching and the atmosphere that gets me rather than the physical ....guess that makes me a watcher then

Oooh you silver tongued devil.......can I just ditto this please? kiss
tbh I can't really comment can I when I have not even done dogging yet. trouble is if I go out tonite and just watch I will be so turned on I will need to participate somehow. :P
i'd rather lights camera and action jackson rather than sit it out :shock: <<< like this lol
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I'm curious.
Do the vast majority of guys on here prefer just to watch, or to participate?
I have to admit, I prefer guys to take the hands..............and cocks.............on approach, but I guess there are those who just prefer to look on.
Would be interested in what you guys have to say on this subject.

We are a couple but our favourite is to watch with the interior light on and the couple shagging as if we were not there. Naturally they would know we were watching but it does put an edge on the performance. When we are with other doggers we will often start things off and have our fun then if the couple want more the others join in and again we just watch;-)
oldcouple
i am a voyeur...however sometimes with the right couple an invite wouldn't go amiss....but voyeurism has it's benefits too.....your imagination is normally better than reality and if you know how to utilise your mind,this adds to any sexual encounter you have then or later.....but it does depend on how good the show is:P
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I'm curious.
Do the vast majority of guys on here prefer just to watch, or to participate?

Watch or touch, at least on first meeting! But, if you are watching, you're also doing that out in the open. Would it be the same in a pre-arranged, indoor situation? Possibly not. I suspect there is a bit of cross over between the voyeur and the exhibitionist for some.
I enjoy being watched but I adore gentle groping.
I do sometimes get put-off by over-eagerness but I'm more creeped-out by the starer.
So who do I prefer players or watchers, I really don’t know…
Which do I prefer to do? Its got to be playing (or at least being played with biggrin)
what can i say i do enjoy watchin but i would have to say i luv to join in more than watchin....the watchin helps to build the anticipation then emptyin my spunk filled balls is just the cherry on top
get over west brom sides lissa so we can enjoy yr charms this side of brum
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what can i say i do enjoy watchin but i would have to say i luv to join in more than watchin....the watchin helps to build the anticipation then emptyin my spunk filled balls is just the cherry on top
get over west brom sides lissa so we can enjoy yr charms this side of brum

Oooooh no!! I ain't coming out to Baggies territory!
lol well i am sure that as a wolves bloke if i can you can lol