Having been on this site for a few months now both me and my partner have had enough, Its just seems to be all talk and no action. Being quite new to all this we've sat and watched and looked for local posts(few and far between) and every now and again we send the odd p.m. but nothing ever comes back in the inbox. People say get yourself known then people will pm back as its all about trust but some people cant log on that often and some poeple that do just post just post utter rubbish. All we wanted was a starting point,my partner just wanted to see what went on before committing to us "having a go" ourselves. We needed to know location's as most of the locations on the site are out of date but everytime we asked we hit a wall of silence. If you dont trust anyone on this site how does it ever work, Maybe we should post utter rubbish most days to increase our rating or maybe have little pictures on our posts. Well for your info not everyone knows how to do that im an lgv driver and my partner's full time mum we aren't that good on computers.......So to all you that ignored us in the past well done youve lost a willing couple due to your paranoid ignorant ways..........
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Quote by ghburton
Having been on this site for a few months now both me and my partner have had enough, Its just seems to be all talk and no action. Being quite new to all this we've sat and watched and looked for local posts(few and far between) and every now and again we send the odd p.m. but nothing ever comes back in the inbox. People say get yourself known then people will pm back as its all about trust but some people cant log on that often and some poeple that do just post just post utter rubbish. All we wanted was a starting point,my partner just wanted to see what went on before committing to us "having a go" ourselves. We needed to know location's as most of the locations on the site are out of date but everytime we asked we hit a wall of silence. If you dont trust anyone on this site how does it ever work, Maybe we should post utter rubbish most days to increase our rating or maybe have little pictures on our posts. Well for your info not everyone knows how to do that im an lgv driver and my partner's full time mum we aren't that good on computers.......So to all you that ignored us in the past well done youve lost a willing couple due to your paranoid ignorant ways..........
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Bye then. Make sure you slam the door behind you, it sticks otherwise. Ta.
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3 posts in total - he really knew how to win friends and influence people!! however, as he requested that he didn't care for our company and the fact we have nearly 24,000 other members to look after, he has discovered that the door is self- locking.
Don't bother trying to PM him, there's no letter box on the door he passed through.
Mal
Don't bother trying to PM him, there's no letter box on the door he passed through.
Mal
I am sorry but I have to agree with ghburton I know they are new and probably have not posted much but how can they learn or get advice with the arrogant attitude given by bluexxx. We all were uncertain once and needed advice and help and I always thought the idea of a moderator was to give help and advice, apparantly I am luck with your ideas for the future ghburton wether it be on this site or others but the last thing wanted is genuine newcomers put off by moderators who should know better
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Quote by Alan
I am sorry but I have to agree with ghburton I know they are new and probably have not posted much but how can they learn or get advice with the arrogant attitude given by bluexxx. We all were uncertain once and needed advice and help and I always thought the idea of a moderator was to give help and advice, apparantly I am mistaken.
They haven't asked for advice!! They posted once, that was all. Then they came on whinging. There was no arrogance from Bluexxx. Humour, based on their post. If you read what they posted, they have been told what they need to do and have completely ignored it! So he's a lorry driver - and? Lots of lorry drivers are on here. Fulltime mum - and? Lots of fulltime mums on here.
Let me ask you something - did you know they were looking for dogging locations? Did you offer any help? I reckon the answer will be no on both counts, so don't jump on the mods because an (ex) member can't be bothered doing what works once he's been told it and then whinges when no-one contacts him.
and as for your comment about Mods here to help, we do. I run the mentoring scheme to assist those who need help. But like most things in life - if you don't ask, you don't get. They never asked. 24,000 members and I have to force information onto them? I don't think so.
Mal
sorry but we also agree, blue as nice a person as you are , you can sometimes be a bit sharp in your comments, some people dont have your confidence and an understanding ear at times may be a better way forward, 4 people have now commented, maybe you could take it on board? you do a great job on here, we couldnt do without you
Sex God
Am I arrogant. Yes sometimes. :haha:
Do I give a shit. No. :dry:
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I am as a moderator here to help? Yes, if people want it... to those that whinge and moan, certainly not. I couldn't give a fig want you whingers think. I like it here, if you don't like it, it's your problem, not mine.
And if you don't like it here.... why don't you sod off elsewhere, and leave the rest of us to post shit if we want to? :small-print:
NOTE: this is my PERSONAL view.... in addition to being a moderator, I also have a PERSONAL view about everyone who posts on here..... as long as I do not break the AUP I am entitled to express my PERSONAL view. If you don't like my opinions, don't read my posts. Simple as. :silly:
My PERSONAL view of this situation is..... ghburton, you are WRONG.... this site has worked for a lot of people, if it doesn't work for you, either sod off or stop whinging.
To everyone else..... ditto. 8-) 8-) 8-)
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I am not going to reply further to this thread as I do not wish to feed any trolls. I will continue to watch it though and I will lock it if it annoys me too much.... you have been warned..... yeah, more arrogance from me..... so???? :color:
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Do I give a shit. No. :dry:
Hehehehehehehehehehehehe :bounce:
I am as a moderator here to help? Yes, if people want it... to those that whinge and moan, certainly not. I couldn't give a fig want you whingers think. I like it here, if you don't like it, it's your problem, not mine.
And if you don't like it here.... why don't you sod off elsewhere, and leave the rest of us to post shit if we want to? :small-print:
NOTE: this is my PERSONAL view.... in addition to being a moderator, I also have a PERSONAL view about everyone who posts on here..... as long as I do not break the AUP I am entitled to express my PERSONAL view. If you don't like my opinions, don't read my posts. Simple as. :silly:
My PERSONAL view of this situation is..... ghburton, you are WRONG.... this site has worked for a lot of people, if it doesn't work for you, either sod off or stop whinging.
To everyone else..... ditto. 8-) 8-) 8-)
:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: I am not going to reply further to this thread as I do not wish to feed any trolls. I will continue to watch it though and I will lock it if it annoys me too much.... you have been warned..... yeah, more arrogance from me..... so???? :color:
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Whinging on here after only posting a couple of times is a bit much they say patience is a virtue.
As for arrogance you just have to take what people say at face value and just accept that different people have different ideas and attitudes.
I hope you do not cut carolseandevon off just because they say blue is a bit arrogant, it would be a bit silly really.
As for arrogance you just have to take what people say at face value and just accept that different people have different ideas and attitudes.
I hope you do not cut carolseandevon off just because they say blue is a bit arrogant, it would be a bit silly really.
Sex God
After saying I wouldn't reply again ... I just want to add with mods hat on that carolseandevon will not be banned for calling me arrogant. I amarrogant (and lovin' it) so they are only speaking the truth. HA
No-one said anyone was going to be banned, so it's all academic anyway.
Only people who break the AUP are banned. I hope that is clear.
Now, in my arrogance, I will lock this thread. It is not about dogging and a debate about whether I am arrogant or not isn't needed as I am happy to admit it hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
As ghburton have expressed their opinion and have had their say, they have probably gone off to explore much better sites than this one and are getting their brains fucked out as we speak. If they decide to come back and grace the shite that is SH again in the future, they are still welcome........
Nuff said
... I just want to add with mods hat on that carolseandevon will not be banned for calling me arrogant. I amarrogant (and lovin' it) so they are only speaking the truth. HA No-one said anyone was going to be banned, so it's all academic anyway.
Only people who break the AUP are banned. I hope that is clear.
Now, in my arrogance, I will lock this thread. It is not about dogging and a debate about whether I am arrogant or not isn't needed as I am happy to admit it hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe
As ghburton have expressed their opinion and have had their say, they have probably gone off to explore much better sites than this one and are getting their brains fucked out as we speak. If they decide to come back and grace the shite that is SH again in the future, they are still welcome........
Nuff said
Sex God
Quote by carolseandevon
lock it blue, its what we all expect, i am not popping at you personally , but you have to give people a chance help them and support them , not just pull the trigger when you have had enough
Thank you for your support.
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