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well we went out for our first time

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we went out in sussex last night for our first time dogging we were both nervous as hell went to one place no one about at all so drove to another and there was loads of cars all with just men in, i felt uncomfortable to many men for a first time so we left-sorry if you were at that site. we then drove to another site and again no one there but we decided to have our fun anyway on our own and no one turned up at all. i still feel the place were there were loads of men was to much for our first time. how should we go about it next time so that we go some were with only a couple of men. thanks
we had a similar experience, we drove up to a well known spot, and didn't find it was our thing. It might well be due to the fact that we've seen too many horror films but being that "vulnerable" in the countryside amde us uneasy. Only takes one disturbed mind...lol..
Also we'd heard that kids were turning up and causing problems. Shame as the whole concept of dogging is genius, but c'est la vie!
hi the best way to do it is go to the big site and talk to some of the doggers
there will be loads that will tell you how good they are and who they have been with listen carefully becouse you need the guys that are polite but do not layit on thick and dont name , names the others are opertunist. then when your see them on there own ask it they know a quiet place and sneak out for your fun.
best of luck
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we went out in sussex last night for our first time dogging we were both nervous as hell went to one place no one about at all so drove to another and there was loads of cars all with just men in, i felt uncomfortable to many men for a first time so we left-sorry if you were at that site. we then drove to another site and again no one there but we decided to have our fun anyway on our own and no one turned up at all. i still feel the place were there were loads of men was to much for our first time. how should we go about it next time so that we go some were with only a couple of men. thanks

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have fun darren
as you are just trying this out for the first time we would just go to the empty site and just enjoy the sex just between yourselves. take in the freedom of sex outside of the car.
this time of year feel the chill air on your skin and when turned on, how hot you get!
jumping into the lions den and hoping to pick up the right one... well! you would have to be lucky
any good dogger wouldn't hang about all night in a busy carpark talking about how dogging is going down the pan! blaming the internet, gays and boy racers
in other words go out enjoys the moments and if someone watches that's a bonus later on if it's your cup of tea perform in the areana...or try to chat to one that you like the look of on his own and arrange a meet at the less used one!
it's much more fun to be caught out than to arrange it
take care and enjoy
thanks for advice everyone. yes i agree it would be more fun to caught out but we think we will arrange something next time just untill we feel more confident.