We're fairly new to the whole dogging phenomenom and so far we think it's very over hyped, the car parks that are listed on the usual sites tend to be either over-run with boy racers/ have an enormously high single male presence or are now on PC Plods beat. The combination of these factors, leaves us wondering has the bubble burst - or has dogging gone back underground.....either way we struggle like hell to find somewhere to have fun with REAL couples. Does everyone else suffer the same trials and tribulations as us?
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West Yorkshire Dogging in Decline?
Warming the Bed
As a male dogger i am begining to think the same has it gone underground and all the boy racers should be shot on site. As for a there being alot of wierd male doggers about u are right when i have been to some of the supposed sites near where i am i have noticed a large presence of males and nothing else realy, and with me being on a motorcycle i suppose u could call me wierd lol but there does seem to be a abundance of rude males who do crowd round etc and that can be off putting to all concerened.
Quote by Tom and Daisy
Never give up hope - There's a couple out there for everyone! Including us!
We just need to join forces, dig a big whole and dump every single boy racer in it! Along with the hoards of weird looking male doggers who freak us all out!
This is so odd.....unless I've read it wrong (don't think so) it seems that you're saying anyone who isn't a couple is unwelcome? Whilst that might be your preference, saying that there's a couple out there for everyone is wholly incorrect - plenty of showing couples are looking for an appreciative audience/guys to join/a girl to join in too (obviously the solo doggers will be hoping your comment is true for them
). Boy racers may be annoying, I get that, but the rest of your post isn't reflective of dogging as I or many other people know it. Again, I think some of this comes back to outdoor swinging vs. dogging - I've said before that personal preference is everyones right and I have no beef with that but dogging is equally the domain of people who are single/solo/male/female/watching/participating/beautiful/weird looking.
Well said, Serendipity.
I'm not interested in couples, I'm strictly a meat n two veg girl and my partner doesn't touch other women. We're only interested in single guys, and have certainly never met any 'wierd' ones. We've never had a problem with boy racers either, maybe because we are careful about where we go.
I'm not interested in couples, I'm strictly a meat n two veg girl and my partner doesn't touch other women. We're only interested in single guys, and have certainly never met any 'wierd' ones. We've never had a problem with boy racers either, maybe because we are careful about where we go.
Warming the Bed
I Think what u say is right Serendipity but the key word to it is be respectfull and polite. As a singlew male which is made worse by only driving a motorcycle i tend to pull in and if there is any cpls who are in which ever spot i find they tend to pull out and move on, so far i have had no luck whats so ever. But as i see it if u are respectfull and polite then all should be welcome irespective of gender,race,looks, or wheather u are single married or what, but unfortunatly it seems as time goes on dogging is losing it true meaning and becoming more selective.
Warming the Bed
lissa thanks for the coment but unfortunatly for me u are so far away and secondly u are in a minority as i would say 75 percent to 90 percent of people wether they be cpls or men on there own tend to pull off when i pull in. I keep checking to make sure i havnt grown a second head in between setting off and stoping lol
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Lol u might be right lissa pmsl or maybe they think im a demon dressed all in black pmsl
Please Please don't mis-understand or mis-interpret us, males doggers are fine and more than welcome with us - we love the whole scene and not just couple on couple. When I say weird people - no-one can deny that certain people (in dogging scenario's or otherwise) can give you the creeps, it is those types that I was referring to. We have come across them!
We just want more people to take up dogging, that's couples/males and females - maybe if the boy racers took up gdogging too, it's be even beter.
Tom and Daisy x
We just want more people to take up dogging, that's couples/males and females - maybe if the boy racers took up gdogging too, it's be even beter.
Tom and Daisy x
hmmm, i did see your origional post a few days ago..when i had time to reply, i noticed serendipity had stolen my thunder not wishing to take you out of context, but you yourselves said that you are fairly inexperienced, and find that dogging is over-hyped..but now state that you enjoy dogging as it is?
ok, it is very very common for new couples to be taken aback by the ratio of the female partner will be the only girl in the carpark, which isn't what most newbie couples expect..we are approached by couples all the time, often seeking full swing, and they find the single male doggers an irritation..we ourselves are a "showcouple", and all we seek for an evenings entertainment are guys looking to share the erotisism, be they fat, thin, fit, ugly, young, old or weird..in that, we are without prejudice, its all the same to us..
for couples that seek involvement, its trickier..for couples that primearily seek other couples, its damn near impossible..in that respect we have it easy, but then the exhibitionist and voyeur exchange is what made carparks such appropiate and enticing places..most other options will add complexity..there is nowt wrong in seeking couples, we've seen some good shows, and returned the favour, but for us, those nights are bonus, a pleasant distraction..but above all, we are content..dogging satisfies our desires much of the time..if you really feel its over-hyped, you need to take issue with whoever or whatever gave rise to your unrealistic expectations..
this is not a dig at you guys in any shape or form, please don't think that..by far the best option for couple 2 couple is via the arranged route, and then, away from the known dogging venues..good luck
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not wishing to take you out of context, but you yourselves said that you are fairly inexperienced, and find that dogging is over-hyped..but now state that you enjoy dogging as it is?ok, it is very very common for new couples to be taken aback by the ratio of the female partner will be the only girl in the carpark, which isn't what most newbie couples expect..we are approached by couples all the time, often seeking full swing, and they find the single male doggers an irritation..we ourselves are a "showcouple", and all we seek for an evenings entertainment are guys looking to share the erotisism, be they fat, thin, fit, ugly, young, old or weird..in that, we are without prejudice, its all the same to us..
for couples that seek involvement, its trickier..for couples that primearily seek other couples, its damn near impossible..in that respect we have it easy, but then the exhibitionist and voyeur exchange is what made carparks such appropiate and enticing places..most other options will add complexity..there is nowt wrong in seeking couples, we've seen some good shows, and returned the favour, but for us, those nights are bonus, a pleasant distraction..but above all, we are content..dogging satisfies our desires much of the time..if you really feel its over-hyped, you need to take issue with whoever or whatever gave rise to your unrealistic expectations..
this is not a dig at you guys in any shape or form, please don't think that..by far the best option for couple 2 couple is via the arranged route, and then, away from the known dogging venues..good luck
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