well we now know that most of the blokes on this site are just idiots.....what is the point in making arrangements and not turning up, thats happened every time off here. no wonder people stop coming on websites, its full of wasters!!
the internet has killed dogging all together i think (well most people think so) because of people naming places that it happens, resulting in the police turning up all the time. it wont be long before the whole swinging thing dies out altogether.
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what a waste of time!!
Sex God
Quote by daveandkelly_uk
well we now know that most of the blokes on this site are just idiots......
That's rather a sweeping generalisation isn't it?
Quote by daveandkelly_uk
....what is the point in making arrangements and not turning up, thats happened every time off here. no wonder people stop coming on websites, its full of wasters!!
Actually dogging is not about *making arrangements* and that is where the problem lies. Not with the internet.
Too many people are unwilling to chance their luck and just pop out to a car park and wait to see if anyone happens to come along and dogg with them.
So they make arranged meets, tell the guys where to be and what time etc and Voila! every man and his mate are there like a shot
From reading your post, you appear to also be one of those who makes arranged meets, so why bother coming on here moaning, when you are part of your own problem :roll:
Simple answer is if you don't enjoy dogging anymore, don't do it again. Easy really isn't it? :dry:
Tracy-Jayne
Who gives a shit ?
Its not so much i/net as the people who tell others.
One trucker had a lucky night in a carpark in a wood, a few days later there were 3 artics trying to park in the carpark.....the only way to get an artic in is in reverse....100 metres up a potholed track....need I say more....
Another had a good night in a layby....for the next week there was only room for air to move in it....you guessed it...
Last week a new couple (3 shows and getting better) showed-up for another night...and then got saddled with a drunk car driver who wouldn't take fuck-off for an answer, and then followed them out ...
But as I said, who cares ?
There's still action out there, but not at a time that we used to know....so, if you ain't prepared to wait until the early hours....................tough.
As for arranged shows....one bit of advice guys.....DON'T GET YOUR KNOB OUT UNTIL THE COUPLE ARE SHOWING MEAT .. LOADS of press and other wasters about...
There's no simple flashing offence now...it's called exposure....and you get time and the Sex-Off register...
Its not so much i/net as the people who tell others.
One trucker had a lucky night in a carpark in a wood, a few days later there were 3 artics trying to park in the carpark.....the only way to get an artic in is in reverse....100 metres up a potholed track....need I say more....
Another had a good night in a layby....for the next week there was only room for air to move in it....you guessed it...
Last week a new couple (3 shows and getting better) showed-up for another night...and then got saddled with a drunk car driver who wouldn't take fuck-off for an answer, and then followed them out ...
But as I said, who cares ?
There's still action out there, but not at a time that we used to know....so, if you ain't prepared to wait until the early hours....................tough.
As for arranged shows....one bit of advice guys.....DON'T GET YOUR KNOB OUT UNTIL THE COUPLE ARE SHOWING MEAT .. LOADS of press and other wasters about...
There's no simple flashing offence now...it's called exposure....and you get time and the Sex-Off register...
well we dont usually do arranged meets, its just been so dead everywhere just lately because of the police...and where do you think the police get their info from....the internet, its been said by a few policemen. and people doiing it in the middle of the day, when people are walking about with their children, seen that happen before, some people just dont think before to do anything, and the next thing is you got police driving about every other night.
were not into arranged meets, like i said its dead so we thought we would go about it another way....when we started doin this it was so much better, car parks used to have cars in, people used to come up n talk.....now there is hardly any cars about, and people dont understand the art of talking anymore...what to do
were not into arranged meets, like i said its dead so we thought we would go about it another way....when we started doin this it was so much better, car parks used to have cars in, people used to come up n talk.....now there is hardly any cars about, and people dont understand the art of talking anymore...what to do
I know the feeling well.
Couple enters, parks.
No lights, no action
Couple exits.
Couple moans "we were there but nobody came near us"
Car park.
Single guys.
couple enters, parks.
Guys wander over.
Couple exits.
Couple moans "loads of single guys, where are the couples"
car park
Single guys.
Other cars.
Couple enters, parks.
Interior light flashes.
Guys wander over.
Loads of young wasters roar over and shake the car yelling "slut, cunts, slag" etc
Everyone exits.
Car park, layby.
Midnight plus.
Empty except for one lonely dogger.
Couple drive in.
Interior light goes on.
Naked, both.
Young, both.
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Couple finish, dogger waves.
Couple and dogger exit.
All you drive-byes who have to get home to mum, the kids and aunt ethel..........
Fuck the lot of you.
I've had three shows the last week, not one arranged and all well after midnight.
Couple enters, parks.
No lights, no action
Couple exits.
Couple moans "we were there but nobody came near us"
Car park.
Single guys.
couple enters, parks.
Guys wander over.
Couple exits.
Couple moans "loads of single guys, where are the couples"
car park
Single guys.
Other cars.
Couple enters, parks.
Interior light flashes.
Guys wander over.
Loads of young wasters roar over and shake the car yelling "slut, cunts, slag" etc
Everyone exits.
Car park, layby.
Midnight plus.
Empty except for one lonely dogger.
Couple drive in.
Interior light goes on.
Naked, both.
Young, both.
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Couple finish, dogger waves.
Couple and dogger exit.
All you drive-byes who have to get home to mum, the kids and aunt ethel..........
Fuck the lot of you.
I've had three shows the last week, not one arranged and all well after midnight.
Sex God
Quote by jomu
car park
Single guys.
Other cars.
Couple enters, parks.
Interior light flashes.
Guys wander over.
Loads of young wasters roar over and shake the car yelling "slut, cunts, slag" etc
Sounds like a good night out to me :twisted:
S xxx
Quote by jomu
I know the feeling well.
Couple enters, parks.
No lights, no action
Couple exits.
Couple moans "we were there but nobody came near us"
Car park.
Single guys.
couple enters, parks.
Guys wander over.
Couple exits.
Couple moans "loads of single guys, where are the couples"
car park
Single guys.
Other cars.
Couple enters, parks.
Interior light flashes.
Guys wander over.
Loads of young wasters roar over and shake the car yelling "slut, cunts, slag" etc
Everyone exits.
Car park, layby.
Midnight plus.
Empty except for one lonely dogger.
Couple drive in.
Interior light goes on.
Naked, both.
Young, both.
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Sex
Couple finish, dogger waves.
Couple and dogger exit.
All you drive-byes who have to get home to mum, the kids and aunt ethel..........
Fuck the lot of you.
I've had three shows the last week, not one arranged and all well after midnight.
well we should go where you go, cos in donny it doesnt matter what time of night there is nothing about....and there is no need for the attitude, thats exactally what i mean about this site.....full of complete arses, someone states an opinion and you all kick off n start swearin for no reason at all....really what is all that about.
you ask anyone in donny and they will tell u the same, its DEAD...maybe once a month u mite see/get summat.....so when you get down off ya high horse, maybe u mite wanna grow up....just because you saw 3 shows doesnt mean its the same everywhere...and if its so damn good why are there so many couples and singles stopped going out, cos its dead and some people have jobs to go too the next morning, not sitting in an empty car park all night, hoping something will happen. i can go home n get it, so there is no need to sit in a cold empty car park
Quote...."It won't be long before the whole swinging thing dies out altogether!"
You could not be more wrong if you tried!!!....
Swinging has never been so popular in the UK as it is at this moment in time, the Internet and sites like this have been like food for swinging....the Internet has helped swinging to grow bigger and better almost by the week. Sites like SH are aiding more curious people than any other media.
We run a monthly Couples Social meet for swingers, particularly aimed at newbies and swing-curious couples. Every month we see more and more new faces at the social night and we get dozens of phone queries about the events every week.
Now if this is swinging dying out then I must be missing something here....
You could not be more wrong if you tried!!!....
Swinging has never been so popular in the UK as it is at this moment in time, the Internet and sites like this have been like food for swinging....the Internet has helped swinging to grow bigger and better almost by the week. Sites like SH are aiding more curious people than any other media.
We run a monthly Couples Social meet for swingers, particularly aimed at newbies and swing-curious couples. Every month we see more and more new faces at the social night and we get dozens of phone queries about the events every week.
Now if this is swinging dying out then I must be missing something here....
Sex God
Oh come on, you can hardly blame the internet for the police knowing whats going on. The Police were fully aware of what was happening and where, long before the invention of the internet! Like Jomu said, its via word of mouth etc.
I think a bit of patience is called for in your case
Good luck, there are loads of good guys on this site :!:
I think a bit of patience is called for in your case
Good luck, there are loads of good guys on this site :!:
Sex God
Quote by daveandkelly_uk
well we dont usually do arranged meets,
and then...
Quote by daveandkelly_uk
i can go home n get it, so there is no need to sit in a cold empty car park
Confused here, you started this thread saying you were out with your Missus???
Incidently, take the time and read Jomu's post. I'll think you'll find he wasnt having a go at you!
Quote by GenHertsCpl
Oh come on, you can hardly blame the internet for the police knowing whats going on. The Police were fully aware of what was happening and where, long before the invention of the internet! Like Jomu said, its via word of mouth etc.
I think a bit of patience is called for in your case
Good luck, there are loads of good guys on this site :!:
I agree with GenHerts Cpl here!
And also some of the police go dogging them selves!....well so i have heard :roll:
So then GenHertsCpl were shell we meet! :giggle:
Well, lovers, throughout my life I've been plagued by the sleep problem.
Like, I put my head down and go to sleep. I also need about 3-4 hours a night.
Then, I can also sleep while the parade is going on....In fact, another dogg and a couple and me were just saying goodnight (at 0145) when the law drove in....Q&A and away...
Then there are the nights when nowt goes right...but that's the game....car-park and layby swinging is getting rarer, so I hear....but there are new couples trying it out all the time...if you've got the usual normal social life then it's tough...fortunately, I have beer at home.
Cheers !
Like, I put my head down and go to sleep. I also need about 3-4 hours a night.
Then, I can also sleep while the parade is going on....In fact, another dogg and a couple and me were just saying goodnight (at 0145) when the law drove in....Q&A and away...
Then there are the nights when nowt goes right...but that's the game....car-park and layby swinging is getting rarer, so I hear....but there are new couples trying it out all the time...if you've got the usual normal social life then it's tough...fortunately, I have beer at home.
Cheers !
Would you mind if I make a suggestion Dave & Kelly?
You posted this exact same thing in Feb http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/323547.html and nothing really seems to have changed according to what you've started this thread with. Perhaps the arranged meets aren't working because the people you're making arrangements with think it doesn't matter if they let you down and you are prepared to take everyone at face value. It'd be nice if life were that simple but it's not......so you have a couple of options, either don't bother with the site as most of the blokes on this site are just idiots (your words, obviously genuinely felt by you) and go out on the off chance as many members do or make the site work for you by participating more and getting to know people (I'm not saying you have to munch, just talk).
I could be wrong but I do think people may think twice about messing more well known members around, whereas you rarely post unless it's to moan - sorry, I know that's not the nicest thing to say but looking at your previous posts they are really negative. Perhaps participation in the Dogging section would give you the opportunity to identify the non timewasters and change your experiences to positive ones?
Good luck, whichever you decide
I'm off to lie down, this post was almost sensible! (apart from numerous edits to correct my typing
)
You posted this exact same thing in Feb http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/323547.html and nothing really seems to have changed according to what you've started this thread with. Perhaps the arranged meets aren't working because the people you're making arrangements with think it doesn't matter if they let you down and you are prepared to take everyone at face value. It'd be nice if life were that simple but it's not......so you have a couple of options, either don't bother with the site as most of the blokes on this site are just idiots (your words, obviously genuinely felt by you) and go out on the off chance as many members do or make the site work for you by participating more and getting to know people (I'm not saying you have to munch, just talk).
I could be wrong but I do think people may think twice about messing more well known members around, whereas you rarely post unless it's to moan - sorry, I know that's not the nicest thing to say but looking at your previous posts they are really negative. Perhaps participation in the Dogging section would give you the opportunity to identify the non timewasters and change your experiences to positive ones?
Good luck, whichever you decide
I'm off to lie down, this post was almost sensible! (apart from numerous edits to correct my typing
) 
Sexlightened
:shock: Im Amaised, i love this site, last weekend i actually met a lovely couple through this, we went for a drink first, had a great chat got to know eachother then went off for some fun, it was a very nice evening, and i hope will meet again, for me, i love to chat at the dogging sites, love people watching as they go in and out of there cars, come over to me and say hi, but had only seen 2 couples in about a year, till i found this site, then the very next time i went out i knew i would meet a couple having been pre aranged, and that was a great turn on, the antisapation, wow.
For me, im afraid Dave & Kelly and im not having a go, as i dont know them, what you have said would put me off contacting you guys, not because of what you said about us, but the way you did it, you sound angry, and i wouldnt have contacted you, as for people not turning up? i can only imagine how horrible that must be for you, i would have hated that if the couple didnt turn up, what a waste of time, sorry you have have some bad ones but please dont tarnish all us blokes, everyone i have met and chatted to on the sites are very friendly, and im a very nice man lol
Chin up guys, stay in there, and keep looking, hope you have some more sucess next time
Pete xxx
For me, im afraid Dave & Kelly and im not having a go, as i dont know them, what you have said would put me off contacting you guys, not because of what you said about us, but the way you did it, you sound angry, and i wouldnt have contacted you, as for people not turning up? i can only imagine how horrible that must be for you, i would have hated that if the couple didnt turn up, what a waste of time, sorry you have have some bad ones but please dont tarnish all us blokes, everyone i have met and chatted to on the sites are very friendly, and im a very nice man lol
Chin up guys, stay in there, and keep looking, hope you have some more sucess next time
Pete xxx
when we get to a site we target a few doggers and see what there up to
are they
chaseing couples
flashing meat before the couple starts
do they step back from headlights
do they signal in there mates by mobile
etc. etc
once were down to the best of the bunch we hang around until
the boy racers bed time is up, the pop outs pop back to there wives
and the police have done there "on time" visit (00:00-00:30)
then we have are fun and if thats 2,3 or 4 (as it was sat) them so what
we also swop notes with other couples on doggers
the bigest plus is them that keep there mouth shut
ie no "i was with them and she did or he did??"
it mostly comes to them that are good all round and wait
thats why some have loads more than others!
jomu send me your score card let see whos stamped it!
are they
chaseing couples
flashing meat before the couple starts
do they step back from headlights
do they signal in there mates by mobile
etc. etc
once were down to the best of the bunch we hang around until
the boy racers bed time is up, the pop outs pop back to there wives
and the police have done there "on time" visit (00:00-00:30)
then we have are fun and if thats 2,3 or 4 (as it was sat) them so what
we also swop notes with other couples on doggers
the bigest plus is them that keep there mouth shut
ie no "i was with them and she did or he did??"
it mostly comes to them that are good all round and wait
thats why some have loads more than others!
jomu send me your score card let see whos stamped it!
